me n this guy were dating 4 about 7 mths, but now he's really busy n so am i, but we would still like 2 hang out, but the timing isnt good. well, i care about him so much n i tell him all the time. he's shutting everybody out right now, so he's not even talking to his bestfriend. i just send him a little text msg every now n then trying to encourage him telling him everything's gonna be okay n that i miss him. do u think it'll help to uplift his spirits, or do u think it's nothing 2 him right now?
2007-01-22 15:15:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you know why he's shutting everyone out? Is he working on a big project or something right now? Are there personal problems involved?
Before anyone can say anything sensible about this, you'd need to find out/tell us what he's doing. If he's working on something, what you're doing now is probably good, just let him know you're there for him when he needs you and give him the time to do what he needs to do. If there are problems involved, he might really need a friend to help him out, but he just can't ask for it or something. You have to tread lightly if this is the case though, because some problems can be very personal and we men can be very proud 'n sensitive about things that may not make sense to you. ;)
Keep us posted and good luck.
2007-01-22 15:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by xane76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever consider that he might not like u anymore? i mean, maybe he is in2 guys now or something. the only way to find out 4 sure is to maybe "spice up" those txt msgs you send him. if he doesnt respond 2 those, give up becuz he loves dudes.
2007-01-22 15:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinkin that the drug angle is a good bet, iv got experience with friends who went there and didnt come back---scarry
2007-01-22 15:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by ams1957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarless of what he says, he's blowin you off. Push on to the next man! M/34
2007-01-22 15:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mike H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep txting but not to frequent, if oyur both busy and accept that well good for you. But if he isn't returning the favour i wouldn't continue on doing it, give him space and give yourself some time out too
2007-01-22 15:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on, but not too much. He'll remember the little rays of sunshine when his troubles are over.
2007-01-22 15:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would know him better than we do. If you are important to him, he will be glad to hear from you whenever he gets the chance. Be sure to let him know that he is important to you, too.
2007-01-22 15:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Morphage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has other things on his mind right now. If he really is all that close, you might want to ask him about drugs.....
2007-01-22 15:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very encouraging.
2007-01-22 15:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what he is going through and yes he needs time to his self but he also needs some one to love him and appreciate him. he should thank u later.
2007-01-22 15:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by B Rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋