i was dating this girl for month and we had fun together, never argued and talked everyday. to make a long story short now we're only friends bc her chaotic life got in the way. at first i didn't mind but now i really miss her. recently she asked me to 'give her space.' it's been 5 days..should i text her and say hi this week? how many more days should I wait? should i act disinterested or tell her about my other dates to get her interest back? ladies your opinions are greatly appreciated thanks.
2007-01-22 15:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she were that interested in you she would not let her life get in the way of your relationship, she would include you in it.
It sounds like she is putting you off because she doesn't want to hurt you.
Either way... you should tell her how you feel about her and if she doesn't feel the same way, then move on with your life.
It is not fair of her to leave you waiting int he wings.
2007-01-22 15:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she asked you to give her space it probably means she will contact you next. I think that you shouldn't have to over think things like this if it is meant to be. If things are crazy for her she would still make time to at least text you during the day. I mean really how long does a text take to write?? I know that sounds harsh but true.
If you are going to text her I would in the middle of the week and see the response you get back. Just know that you might not get the response you like or even one at all. If that happens let it be the last time you reach out to her.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-22 23:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
don't just let her think you have other dates
REALLY go out on other dates
in fact
NEVER call a girl
let her ALWAYS call you
and even then never pick up the phone
return the call like 3 days later
remember, you are in demand and as such will get to her when you have free time
NEVER seem over anxoius to date anyone
let them come to you
2007-01-22 23:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and Space are the most important things besides communication in any relationships.
Respect her, give her space and let her call you back.
I know you feel like crap, but you have to stay strong in this period.
And yes, it's not easy,
2007-01-22 23:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just e-mail her asn say HI...... and that you were just seeing how she is.........say nothing more....... then back off and wait to see if she responds...... when the time comes and your sure that enough time has passed and YOU feel it has gone on long enough, e-mail or request a talk with her about it...... tell her how you feel and then if she is still just NOT into you then I think you have important decesion to make, wait or move on....... and to be honest, when a woman says she needs space, she is distanceing herself from the guy in a nice way...... God bless
2007-01-22 23:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh... I think texting her (or calling) her to say hi would be a good idea. It doesn't hurt to say hi ; it'll show you still care. I vote for contacting her, but if she sounds uninterested in talking than maybe it's time to move on, but give it a chance. :)
2007-01-22 23:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by pootycatsexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space, shell come back
2007-01-22 23:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say let her contact you or just text her say hello and leave it at that if she don't contact you then just leave her alone
2007-01-22 23:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the world is full of women..find another and add another notch in you gun handle...
2007-01-22 23:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋