Long story shortened... Moved across state for a guy I was dating, into HIS apartment. 3 weeks later, in his drunken ignorance, he broke up with me. I can't move out for almost a month so here I am still :( Anyways, this is the thing--- Everytime I leave other then to work, he asks me where am I going. Yes, I am in HIS home, however, he is my EX, not my daddy, so I don't feel I need to tell him anything. I have asked him when he was sober if this is what he wants, and he says yes, so what is it? Sometimes I tell him, other times I just go. He doesn't want to work things out (there was no real reason for the break up), and frankly, I don't want to get back together because he isn't overall as nice as I was lead to beleive. I'm getting out ASAP but until then, what do I say when he asks me things like that???
2007-01-22 15:19:41 · 7 answers · asked by pryncessleah23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should gather all your belongings and leave asap, ask your family for help, you are in a bad situation.
2007-01-22 15:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest the "none of your business" route, just because that will usually turn in to another fight. However, I would definitely first come to an understanding with him (have "the talk"-sober) that you are leaving at such and such date, and that until then this is a roommate situation and unless he changes and you decide to work things out then he needs to refrain from asking you your daily rituals... etc. I would say instead of avoiding the situation you meet it head on and try to deal with it as adults, rather than drunken college students... Good luck!
2007-01-22 15:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's keeping a tab on you, to see if you'll be meeting up with someone. You can tell him that it's none of his business, but if he's a violent drunk, then just keep saying that you're going to work, or doing shopping. Whether it's the truth or not!
2007-01-22 15:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"As you can see, I am going outside."
Then do it.
Seriously, if you have ANY money or a credit card, I'd seriously consider getting a room in one of those extended-stay residence hotels while you wait for your new place to be ready. Living with this drunken slob can't be healthy for you.
2007-01-22 15:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is none of his business and if he asks tell him your just going out. I was in the same situation and they want to have their cake and eat it too. It alright for them to move on but once you have its a different kettle of fish. Bide your time, hopefully you won't be there too much longer and just try and stay positive.
2007-01-22 15:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "it's not any of your business" and head out to where it is you're going
2007-01-22 15:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** that stay with a friend!
2007-01-22 15:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by B Rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋