We have been together for 2.5 years and everything is really good. He treats me well and we have lots of fun together. I am 25 years old and he's 30. Please help because I am getting frustrated and starting to feel that I should not plan my life around someone who may never love me. What should I do and is this something other people have experienced?
2007-01-22 15:17:20 · 10 answers · asked by jen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him how he feels, but it is important not to pressure him into saying it. It takes time for some guys to realize that they are in love.
2007-01-22 15:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends on certain factors.
have u said it to him? are u talking about serious topics like marriage?
if he doesnt have a real connection with his deeper feelings he might not be comfortable saying it.
i would say that maybe he doesnt take the relationship seriously if he cant admit how he feel or if he thinks that your both just having fun.. but u have been together for a long time and he is 30..he should know..
if i were u, id wait till the right moment when ur having a talk and just honestly ask him how he feels. u might be surprised by what he says.
2007-01-22 15:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by uninformed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something that could deverstate anyone I think that you should talk to him about it and listen to what he has to say about it.If he doesn't love you then you should move on and look for something much more stable where you know where you stand and if he can't give that to you then it makes no sense.At this time he should be seriously head over heals and ready to get married. Talk to him and see what's up!
Good luck!
2007-01-22 15:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have told him you love him and he has never told you once yet the same thing honey you need to find out what is going on cause to be with some one that long and they have not once yet said that they love you is just a waste of your time
2007-01-22 15:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. If you have been together for that long you should feel comfortable asking him why he hasnt said it.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 15:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is certainly not normal ask him one day ina joking way or b4 he goes to work tell him i love u then if he doesnt say i love u too,then there is something up ok u cant just judge himnow
2007-01-22 15:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him to say the words.
2007-01-22 15:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm no, this is very abnormal. Have u asked him directly how he feels about you?
2007-01-22 15:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by moosekid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF AFTER 2 .5 YRS AND HE DOESNT SAY HE LOVES YOU , I HATE TO SAY THIS BUT I WOULD MOVE ON!
2007-01-22 15:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, this is very strange, well, do you ever tell him you love him? he might be thinking the same thing about you if you dont...
2007-01-22 15:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by 88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋