Singles & Dating - 20 January 2007

Im thinking of dumping my bf, but dont know how. i know to do it in private, but guys respond! a fast break up or a long one. guys, if you knew you were about to be dumped, how would you prefer it to be done?

2007-01-20 14:58:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 14:57:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were is the best place to go on your first date.
I am talking about a mature place,romanic place, fun placeto hangout,a place you can go one a double date.
I am going on a double do with my guy and also what should you talk about on a date.
Please help!!!

2007-01-20 14:56:39 · 12 answers · asked by Abby B 1

Do you find it overbearing if a girl asks a guy out? Should I tell him I like him, or just hit that we should go see a movie sometime?

I think I kind of intimidate him, because he is more of a softy... Should I just become closer friends with him?

2007-01-20 14:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have the "hots" for my best guy friend we flirt all the time people think we are going out. we have been friends for about five years and i can talk to him about anything. i mean this kid went in and bought me tampons when i couldnt get out of the car because i had cramps he means so much to me and if he dosent feel the same way i dont wanna mess things up at all.


uhhh any advice?

2007-01-20 14:55:43 · 14 answers · asked by awesome 2

Ive seen it five times and still bawl my eyes out histerically every single time. Is it true they are going out in real life?

2007-01-20 14:54:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so I met a guy from a Christian dating site back in September. We are both looking for the same thing. A serious relationship leading to marriage. We spoke every day until we met on January 4-7. I went to see him where he lives. He paid for my ticket and everything. While I was there we discussed marriage, and everything. Since I came back he has called me every day, and texts me during the day as well. We had planned on me going to see him on February 15-18 and were going to be buying my ticket today. (well he was paying). Anyhow he is an aircraft mechanic and for the past week he has been away on work. He has called me every day even though he has been in Mexico and Florida. Yesterday he called me at work and was being very sweet, but said that he had a little bad news for me, but also good news. He has been trying to get on with a larger company and finally got an interview with one. He has to fly somewhere for that, and would not have enough right now to pay for my ticket and the ticket he has to buy to go and his hotel etc. He asked if we could postpone for a few weeks. I was a little disappointed, however tried to not let him know as I am happy about the possible new job. He said that he is excited because if he gets the job then he would have his flights paid for and he could come here and see me more often.

He was also talking about marriage and stuff, and things to do with the future. He then had to go as he was boarding his flight to fly home. He said he would call me as soon as he landed to let me know he was home. He said, since he is my future husband he wants to let me know that he is safe etc. and where he is all the time.

I knew when his flight got in (and confirmed online), and he never called me. I waited a while (an hour and a half) after his flight got in and tried to call him. First the phone rang and rang and went to voice mail. So I left a message and waited a while longer. He also has a work cell, so about 45 mins later I called that and it was turned off. (it never is), and then I re-tried his personal cell, and that was turned off also now. I left a message there and said that I was concerned as I had not heard from him and his cell was turned off which I mentioned also concerned me. I asked him to call me today. He has not. I just texted him about 1/2 hour ago and made it light and said hello and hoped he was having a good day. Still nothing.

This is WEIRD. I am not getting this. I am holding off calling him at the moment. I want him to call me. I don't want to seem like I am freaking out. I mean if he was trying to "break it off" with me... would be have been talking about marriage and stuff yesterday? And how the new job could help US?

I am lost here and need some advice or reassurance or something. I don't want to jump to conclusions with him and seem like a freak, but it feels like something is wrong!!!

2007-01-20 14:54:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I don't actually 'want' him, but I want him to notice me. I'm real crazy and outgoing at home, but at school I am REAL shy. If this will help, he is: tall, outgoing, flirts with girls 24/7, that kinda stuff. How do I get him to notice me?

2007-01-20 14:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by carmenaschenck 1

I met a guy a couple of months ago at work, went to a gig and got on great, met mainly in my work environment since then, but have texted each other and arranged a night out.

Thursday night we ended up back at mine and yes we had sex and stayed in bed all friday.

I did see him briefly friday night and sort of arranged to meet saturday, although it was quite a casual arrangement as i work in the pub and he said he would pop by for a pint
so i sent him a cheeky text thanking him for a great night and saying i finished work at 6.
Nothing since, i sent a msg to check he is ok, and got nothing back.
I am not very good with phone calls, so not gonna phone him yet, but SHOULD I SEND HIM A FINAL TEXT SAYING I QUITE LIKE HIM BUT UNDERSTAND IF IT WAS JUST SEX.
NOT TO FIND IT AWQUARD AND WE CAN STILL BE MATES.

or do I just wait? i dont want to seem pushy or desperate lol
ts the first time since the break up of my last relationship almost a yr ago that i have felt this

2007-01-20 14:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by funkyfaerie 2

2007-01-20 14:52:21 · 13 answers · asked by silent love 1

ive liked her for 7 years and always wanted to tell her

2007-01-20 14:51:44 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

she calls my friend to see how i have been but won't call me...she says that i didn't try hard enough to get a job or for us..but i left to a whole new town....i was scared what can i do to atleast talk to her?

2007-01-20 14:51:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

its kinda personal but hey you wont know if you dont ask k well here goes .... when you lost your virginity how long ago was it and are you still with the same guy me it was 4 years ago and no im not still with the same guy he was an assholee i wish i could have done it with the guy im with now do you regret doing it with your first?????

2007-01-20 14:50:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok would you prefer a down home southern girl that likes muddin huntin and stuff (like me) or a girl that is scared of dirt?!!?

2007-01-20 14:49:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not the coolest person in high school or anything like that. I am probably the only guy in my class that has drank alcohol or tried a cigarette yet. I am not the best looking but I don't think I am ugly. I have only had one girlfriend. Never french kissed anyone. So do you really find the one in college? or when?

2007-01-20 14:49:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to enjoy being single, because all relationships end one way or another. I always have goals, and am in the middle of completing one of them (my PhD will be done in 8-10 months). I accept that I may never be in a long-term committed relationship (I'm 33 and haven't dated more than two years yet). How do you enjoy being single? What keeps you from loneliness when you love your work, and your outlook on life?

2007-01-20 14:48:06 · 29 answers · asked by univcommscholar 1

I want it to mean something and I want it to be very special for him... I want it to say hpw much I love him... Does any one have any ideas of tips to make it perfect...

2007-01-20 14:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1

I have a Classic (first generation) Mazda RX-7, fully restored and a new Ford F-150, loaded but stock. If I were to pick you up for a date, which one should I bring?
Why?

2007-01-20 14:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Richie.Rich 2

i really like that guy that i had class with . at first i hated the way that he acts . but when i saw how really acts i saw a beatifaul charcter and a person. i talked to him realy rare like hi and some times if their is no chair for me to sit he will say do u want to sit i say no and then he says are you sure i say yes he is kind of funny . now the class is over and i really want to see him we are not in the same school , but the school is near ,but i can't go their or i can't wait for him that is impossible . the problem is i don't know what to do i just reliazed the laste class that i like him . what can i do i really think alot about him and i really want to see him

2007-01-20 14:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by what ever ? 2

Okay how can u see the diffrences with a guy really liking u and wants to be your man , to just liking u and wanting just friendship?

2007-01-20 14:43:29 · 1 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1

Im really dont know what to do, we been going out for 14 months and shes the first person i love...and till now i still do..i know i did alot wrong things and i cant forgive myself for making all the mistake....but truly i never cheated on her...at our first break up she find out that me and this one girl was talking.....it wasnt like any talking it was just like friends talk....and she broke it off with me...and after that she came back with me..8 months later she got mad at me again for just talking to another ghurl...and broke it off agen....now shes saying that she doesnt want me to talk to anyghurls even if just FRIENDS!!she doesnt trust me at all...were still together till now and its been 3 months after the second break up....shes not the same anymore...shes not the same person that i loved....i mean it feels like she doesnt cares anymore...and she doesnt take me seriously anymore....am i really wasting my time.....shes not acting the same but she doesnt wonna let me go...

2007-01-20 14:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by chi_wally_wally03 1

We have been seeing eachother for over a year.About 6months ago her husband was released from jail.He went to jail shortly after we started dating.iI made it clear in the beginning that I would stop seeing her if she was going back with him.After his release he moved bacxk un with her because of the kids.they want their dad around,this I get.she won't get a divorce because she fears losing her kids to him. what if anything can i do??

2007-01-20 14:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by super mover 1

So, about a month ago my baby daddy left me for some one else. Yeah, I took it really hard, but I am starting to get over it. I am using a no contact claus with him. I guess it's starting to get to him because he called me today asking why I'm being so mean to him, and why don't I call him. I told him it's because I have nothing to say to him. Then, he asked why we couldn't be friends. I told him because I don't want to. Was I wrong for that? I mean, I was crushed when he left. But, I picked myself up and kept it moving. I am still in school, I found a job, and I've lost a lot of my baby weight since he left. Plus I am so independant. He left me with out a car, so now I take the bus everywhere, and I don't ask him for anything. He is still there for his daughter and a great father. I just don't want him to see me so down. I was very good to him, and the girl he left me for is everything I'm not....(in a very good way.) What are your thoughts on my situation?

2007-01-20 14:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Stefi13 2

He hits u all the time

2007-01-20 14:40:46 · 12 answers · asked by Heather M 1

yesterday the 19th another guy asked me out and i said yes. i still like my old boyfriend though. i dont like the guy who asked me out at all. i thought that if i went out with him i would make the other guy jealous. i know thats really mean but ive know the guy that just asked me out sense kindergaten and we're really good friends....i dont know what i should do.

2007-01-20 14:39:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 14:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by HowYouDoin 2

2007-01-20 14:38:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that the closer my boyfriend and i get the more i push him away,the meaner i am to him?does this make me a bad person? I really love him and want to marry him some day!!

2007-01-20 14:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by brat 2

I'm 50 percent Asian Indian,french,Irish and American Indian. Though im Indian I look more Irish and French (took after my dad a lot). I have medium brown hair and very light brown eyes with fair skin. I am smart. I'm in Med. School at UCLA!! (GO BRUINS!!) I'm 5 feet and 2 inches and 105 pounds. I was voted Best To Cheer You up in 12th grade. Everyone says I have every perfect feature. I do not pierce anything even my ears and I have not colored my hair. I have all natural feauters and beauty. Would you date me guys?

2007-01-20 14:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 14:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by kidtexlex123 1