Singles & Dating - 18 January 2007

Well, I don't think this guy has ever met a virgin before who was my age, and he is really pressuring me into sex. Sometimes, I think he is testing me to see if I will go all the way, but I refuse him.. Now, he won't speak to me.. what do I do? I did not say it in a mean way, but if someone is pressuring you, you have to be kind of firm with your answer.. right? Btw, I am 19, and I know that being this age and virginal is unheard of, but why is he doing this to me?

2007-01-18 18:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by maria t 1

Which one do you think is more preferable?

2007-01-18 18:29:20 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

well if u need so descriptions of him hes really nice says the cutest things he loves to cuddle. he calls me his baby boy. but i want an orignal name for him. he love to spend lots of time with me. and ugh i think that all but let me know if u need to knw anything else. k? thanx!

2007-01-18 18:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by Michael_15 1

could he tell you were suprised?

2007-01-18 18:29:01 · 4 answers · asked by meagen k 1

ive heard that for a guy to fall deeply in love with a girl, he is more likely to do this after he has shagged her. do you think thats true? I dont.

2007-01-18 18:28:27 · 13 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

Oh I feel like im going nuts......I met this really great guy. He is wonderful to me and has everything going for him. he's 34, im 30
We have talked a total of 20 hours over the last month and have great chemistry together. He even asks if i want to have kids for certain cause he does pretty soon.
Problem is I found out he was supposed to be married last July.
He called off the wedding 3 weeks before walking down the aisle.
I had to drag this out of him. He didnt offer up that he had bene engaged on his own.
He says he loved her and wanted to be with her but couldnt see himself spending the rest of his life with her. What does that mean ?
She sounds like a very nice person so I dont understand.
Should I be afraid to date him ? Im fearful that Ill worry that he fickle and run from me eventually too.

What should I do ?

2007-01-18 18:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by Leea 1

this boyfriend claimed he loved me but seems to only be interested in him,him,him!! we or better yet i can be talking on a level basis and he does not respond to the question. he changes it to something totally different and does not consider what the original question is. he also has a reason why he is always to tired for love. no he is not cheating and its not the main issue in our life. but he has more excuses than a woman. headache,backache,tired ect,ect. i never had to ask for love before? its on his terms regarding love. i heard him tell his mom i was the best sex he ever had but he could have fooled me as he did not know i heard. he started a heating and air conditioning job and i understand he is tired. what about a working nurse? 12 hr shifts and then comes home to clean up after his mom and him? he has had a past pattern im now aware of with live in ladies /woman i feel like another #. excuses y he cant help out financially lil things? im no gld digger! i feel used.no dates?

2007-01-18 18:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 18:25:16 · 6 answers · asked by justme 2

Everyone says my friend looks like him. You can really see there similarities when Michael has stubble (how he looks on the show) and my friend has stubble too and has a buzz cut, but I couldn't find any stubble pics of Michael.

Michael: http://www.bloxer.de/upload/serien/prison-break/michael-scofield.jpg

My friend, John: http://a457.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/30/l_c21a2403a10f22fc47b305b6f4d5b170.jpg

2007-01-18 18:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. He's great, sensitive, caring, a great listener. We see each other several days each week and yes, we're having sex...great sex. He's introduced me to his son and his mother, we've shared holidays and I help him in his office. However, he avoids any discussions of feelings, if I mention them in an email or IM he doesn't respond. His physical affection is somewhat limited to sex...although he will occationally hold my hand. I decided to tell him that I was falling in love with him...I had to do it by email because he won't talk about feelings...his answer was. "I definately have feelings of love for you...but I'm not "in love" with you at this point...however I feel the day may come and for now everything is good."
What are the chances that he will actually fall "in love" with a me? Or, is it more likely that I am Ms. Right Now? I'm not into wasting tons of time on someone that isn't going to love me back...Help!

2007-01-18 18:22:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When he broke up with his girlfriend around 3 months ago i went over 2 his ex's house, You know me trying to see if i can get some so we were talking and we ended up making out and having sex, He is going back out with her and she told him she had something to tell him in person he really loves this girl, I think she is gonna tell him about me and her, What should i do!?!?!

2007-01-18 18:17:55 · 16 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2

i am with my long time boyfriend of 8 years he is also my first and only bf. we had 2 gorgeous kids, but i still can't get over a fling sweety relationship i had 6 years ago. It was when my relationship w/ my bf got giddy. this other guy and I sended flirt text messages and sweet nothings then, it all ended when my bf and I got back together. I find myself crazy like a weird silent stalker. I still sometimes try to look for him on the net. like secretly view his profile, hoping to see him in the mall. i feel like such a cheat on my bf and kids for doing it. I wonder how i can totally get over him. he's still single and available as of the moment. Is it normal for a person to not get over someone?

2007-01-18 18:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Kady_14 2

i asked my crush to a dance and he said yes (i said as friends, but umm... well thats not exactly true :)

well we still dont talk very much. only hi and bye. i really want to talk to him and i want to text him or just start talking to him but im kinda scared to do so beucase i dont want to bug him. but i mean hes going with me to the dance so at least he likes me in some way but i dont know....

i kind of avoid (not really avoid ) him becuase im a little shy and scared when it comes to this stuff and he doesnt talk much why? i dont know. do you think he possibly feels the same way? were both scared/shy to talk to each other? and i will hang out with him at the dance of course but i want to get to know before we go. should i just make the first move, again?

2007-01-18 18:15:50 · 10 answers · asked by ... 3

My girlfirend and I are very close. Her best friend gets really jealous because of it. Like, for instance, when I'm holding my girlfirends hand she has to hold my gf's other hand, its pretty rediculous. She even cuts in on us when we're kissing. (At school) Its my gf's best friend and she feels really awkward holding another girls hand esp. when I'm holding hers at the same time. I feel like I have to compete with my gf's best friend for my gf's attention and I don't think I should have to. My gf's friend is very emotionally unstable, to the point of self mutilation and my gf (understandably) doesn't want to hurt her more and hear about what she does to herself (gf says it gets really graphic and her friend makes it out to be my gf's fault) My gf doesn't know what to do, she wants to be with me but on the other hand she has to give her friend all of her attention to keep her friend from hurting herself. Sometimes I feel shut out but neither one of us are sure what to do. Suggestions?

2007-01-18 18:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel 1

So, I had gotten tired of the guy who I have been in love with for the last 7 years - of his possessiveness and always him being in control. He would call me when he'd feel like it and he would see me only to his convenience. Well, I thought I had gotten over him after so much pain and heartache on making up my mind. So, I was wrong. He called me out of the blue and said that he was going to be in town and that he wanted for me to meet him somewhere and take him something to eat for him and his friend. I pondered on it and I finally did. I got there and my heart melted. I pretended to be friendly and I gave him the food and I just talked to him like an old friend, but everything changed when all of a sudden he grabbed my hand and led me inside the house. He started kissing me hard and with passion; I let him and kissed him back. All of a sudden - he told me that he had to go, but that he would call me back later so that we could meet. No call; he played me again.

2007-01-18 18:11:28 · 26 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2

2007-01-18 18:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

2007-01-18 18:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Satyam 1

ive always wanted to save myself for the woman of my dreams but sometimes it seems like i better get in touch with reality and start getting it on. or at least being able to show affection. my most recent girlfriend broke up with my because i wouldnt kiss her. im worried i may have been at fault because most gf/bf relationships involve regular sex and definatly kissing. im a decent looking guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and they have all left for the same reason. am i so wrong for wanting to preserve myself for my wife? im not criticizing what anyone else does, but wondering if maybe i am a bit extreme in my actions (extreme is never good unless its the X games)

2007-01-18 18:02:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys if you heard from your friends that a girl is a s.l.u.t. and it's true would you go out with her?
She's a sweet girl, but at times she gets moody. Would you go out with a girl like that?

2007-01-18 17:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 17:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-18 17:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by sonia s 1

she says that they're just friends and shes really trust worthy its just that part of me doesnt feel comfortable..

2007-01-18 17:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Happy Helper 1

2007-01-18 17:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by night_age_germany 4

I invited this guy over for coffee tomorrow that I've been dating for about two weeks. I don't want to waste my time and want to sort of interview him (of course I'll make it casual so he doesn't feel like he's applying for a job lol) But what sort of questions should I ask? I want to make sure he's not a whack job or a loser. Thanx in advance for your suggestions :)

2007-01-18 17:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 17:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by krishna 1

I missed out on childhood because I had to grow up fast to support my parents. I'm still not ready to get old. I've always been taking good care of how I look. I'm 38 but I look 28. My husband is 6 yrs younger than me so I always feel that I have to look good for him all the time. He is gorgeous, sexy and young. I've been battling with weight for almost all my life and always managed to maintain a good figure. Now I'm starting to see a few wrinkles under my eyes and I'm panicking! Is it bad to be too conscious? Am I obsessed? Do you think it's wrong for me to want to look good all the time?

2007-01-18 17:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cream 2

Well see there is this guy (my ex) Brian and well we broke up and still liked each other and then one day he said he didn't like me but see he is so pathetic he couldn't even tell me himself and now he's with a pretty, smart, athletic,and big on christanity girl Haley and im only 2 of those things and now im kinda jelouse but if anyone close found out i would be ruined even my BFFL Sarah can't know! I really want him back but i know he won't forgive me because i said some stuff that now i regret. How do i get him back. PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-01-18 17:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by arichardson94 1

Ive known her for about 2 years already. When we met we clicked and became best friends and had a relationship that went deeper then anything. We had alot of fun that year, We hung out with each other every weekend and talked on the phone during the week like everyday, we talked about anything and everything and we trusted one another and in due time I started to fall for her. I tried asking her out after are friendship and relationship grew, but she didn't wana be with me. After that awkwardness grew, but we still managed to stay best friends. I took her to my senior prom also ending that year for me and I figured good things might happen, but she found a guy she dated that summer and it broke my heart. After that I did not talk to her or see her in a year because the site of me always made her depressed and I didnt know why. We got into a fight this past december seeing each other for the first time in a year and she broke down infront of me. I dont know what she might feel inside.

2007-01-18 17:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by jckhammer2 2

There are three guys at school that are in love with me. But, i like all three of them. I'll give u their charectoristics. then tell me which one.

1. cute nice really funny great dancer we have evrything in common always comes up and talks to me at school same height

2. Nice shy sweet we have evry thing in common always asking my friends about me AIMs and calls me evry day shorter than me

3. known him since i was 3 nice cute we have evry thing in common shorter than me talks to me at school sometimes fun

2007-01-18 17:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by MaryKate D 1

why does age difference make me a monster?

2007-01-18 17:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by thoughtfuljon 1