Singles & Dating - 18 January 2007

2007-01-18 16:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl I wanna date, shes really hot and smart, but shes shy. I dont know how to build a friendship with someone who doesnt talk, i like to build friendships before i date too.

2007-01-18 16:28:04 · 15 answers · asked by Rain. 6

After about how many dates or how long after you and a guy like eachother does the guy usually ask you to be his girlfriend? like are their certain signs to watch for to know it is coming sooner than later.... just need help cuz i have been on lots of dates but never had a bf yet and now i have been on a few with this one guy and we both really like each other and was wondering...? so any advice and such would be greatly appreciated! thanks!!

2007-01-18 16:27:11 · 3 answers · asked by coolio 4

I heard a rumor that this guy I like is gay. I've been friends with him for nearly 2 years and its never crossed my mind that he could be gay until someone said he was. I don't want to question him directly by saying "are you gay". I'm not really the type of person to directly ask something like that, Im kinda shy. So my question is, should I ask him how he feels about me, since he already knows how I feel about him? I figure if he is gay this might be the breaking ground for him to tell me or if hes not I'd see how he feels about me. Just curious about your thoughts.

2007-01-18 16:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by L♥G 5

I gotta stay fly til I die

2007-01-18 16:26:46 · 3 answers · asked by fuzzyboogerbutt 2

alright he is in my P.E. and there is nothing i would change about him. some days he is ECSTATICCCCCC!! to see me and others he is like oh heyy whatever but its really frustrating. when i am sad in gym he does reallly dumb things to cheer me up and he is freakin hilarious. he talks to me a lot and laughs at my jokes when they are not funny and he alwaYYYYSSS hugs me. should i tell him how i feel??

2007-01-18 16:26:24 · 13 answers · asked by i.like.to.play.guitarsss 1

OK Here is the situation....my boyfriend and I never seem to have time to hang out with just us....with the kids and him working all the time it is hard...but we agreed that everynight we would go to the gym and tan together.....I arranged for a sitter to come @ 8:30 starting yesterday...well she showed up but we went late and only to tan because he really wanted to finish watching American Idol..tonight he says he is not going to go because he wantd to watch Nashville Star and his white pants aren't clean.. so I went anyway .he has know idea that this hurt my feelings because if I said something he would say I was complaining..now he says I am crazy because I do not want him to see what I am writing until after it is posted...I know he is playing when he says this but still I am sensitive about our time issue....It is he that is always stating that I never make time for him because I am to busy with the kids......I feel I did my part by getting the sitter and he has showed me nothing?

2007-01-18 16:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by just_curious 1

So, I have a boyfriend and he's twenty-two years older than me.
I'm 16 and we don't have sex because we talked over what would happen if we did....obviously.
We kiss and hug and do all that nice stuff.. just less in public.
He doesn't use me and I know that. I absolutley love him but I'm just scared that people will give him a bad name.
I told him that we didnt have to be seen together out in public but he says that he doesn't care..
I seriously feel for him but I'm not getting married or anything because I have a 'career' and I'm not ready for that.
I want to be with him though.
What should I do?

2007-01-18 16:25:08 · 23 answers · asked by andnowwedo 1

2007-01-18 16:24:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-18 16:24:26 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1

Im dating this guy and he hasn't called me in like 3 days..Should i just say forget him and move on or try to see what the problem is?

2007-01-18 16:24:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I'm 16 years old I'm a Christian so is my girlfriend so we're not into the sex thing, my girlfriend's name is Emily, I would have to say that we are in love, I say that because I know we are, I have asked, so I do know that she feels the same way about me. In the past her last boyfriend tried to kiss her, and she said no, so he ended up yelling at her, and they broke up, also, her dad was verbally abusive to her. She's been weird about the whole kissing thing ever since. I kiss her on the cheek, but any time I have tried to kiss her on the lips, she'd move away, and any time I try to ask her, why she doesn't want to she says she doesn't want to talk about it, or she changes the subject. I really do love her, and if I need to wait I will, but I really don't want to wait much longer, I love her, and I want to share that kiss with her, a kiss representing how much I love her, one of passion, not sexual, and my breath doesn't stink just thought I'd throw that out there...

2007-01-18 16:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 16:21:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started talking to an old friend again...It's been awhile since we last seen each other...we just had sex a week ago but I am also looking for a relationship not a sex relationship...but I think that he is not ready for one..please tell me how can I explain to him that I'm looking for a relationship without ruining our friendship

2007-01-18 16:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany L 1

okay so four years ago met a guy, perfect guy, some rough patches (on my behalf) got the best of us and the two months of bliss were gone...i messed up and have admitted it and apologized..maybe woulda gone away, but since the time of the split has still maintained something of a relationship w/ me...he has girlfriend on very serious level...and i now have boyfriend on an almost as serious level...but we've never stopped seeing each other...problem: since he's been in my life this long, i cant shake the feelings for him, which in turn makes me treat my man like less of a man b/c of these feelings for this other man...not fair to him...other guy doesn't even really do his part, but if i try to let it go or cut it off he makes a huge ordeal and insists on making it right...i mean, four years...what do i do, i know where my heart is and then i know where it should be...my man is great and i shouldnt be asking for anything more...just can't help it...aggghhhh

2007-01-18 16:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by michelle 1

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Don't be afraid that your life will end,
be afraid that it will never begin.

2007-01-18 16:18:36 · 22 answers · asked by jvbaker06 1

I try to call but he won't pick up and I wont leave a message for personal reasons, should I just forget trying to reach him?

2007-01-18 16:17:26 · 7 answers · asked by kel b 1

Four years ago, I was in the Navy, and when I came home on leave I met this girl. We got together, but It wasn't good. She's needy, I'm standoffish. I went back to my duty station, and I didn't want to have a long distance relationship. She said she found someone, and that was it. Two years ago, I got out of the Navy, and she dropped by bible study twice. First to say hi, second to introduce us to her boyfriend.

Out of the blue, I got a text message asking about church service, and she started coming back to church, and asking me to walk her around like we never broke up.

I'm not getting any younger, and the attention is nice, but this is just a little creepy. Why does she still have my number after four years? Why does she expect me to walk her around? We broke up for a reason, did she forget that? Should I give her the chance, or am I just encouraging a psycho stalker?

2007-01-18 16:17:16 · 8 answers · asked by ye_river_xiv 6

I met a guy online last year. He was so fine. He send me his pictures and he even wrote my name and his name on it. I didn't send him my picture because I look young and not sexy type. My best friend she is so beautiful. I send her picture to him because of my own insecurities.

Anyways, that was last year and it was only once I did that. I will never do that again. I feel like telling the truth to my friend that once I used her picture and said that was me, but what if, she gets really mad at me and never talk to me. I don't want to lose a great friend.

2007-01-18 16:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty 1

Dude really likes chic. Chic most likely feels the same. What should dude do?

2007-01-18 16:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She acts like she does not want to dance with me until I said I wanted to with her. Then, she suggests I dance with others until I ask if she wants to dance with me. Lastly, I say that I am already looking for another partner because she cannot come regularly, and she gets offended. What is going on here?

2007-01-18 16:15:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-18 16:14:19 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1

i have a felony for robbery at 18 and want to go to college but feel i wont get a good job

2007-01-18 16:13:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

for women have you tried fantasizing that you were doing it with many men?
or that for once you once thought you would love to be raped?

or for men have you ever fantasized of raping someone?

its a crazy idea but honestly do you sometimes wish we can all just break the rules of society?

2007-01-18 16:12:07 · 13 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

There is this guy... well I feel attracted for him... but he is my friend's ex!!!!

2007-01-18 16:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I notice that some girls care and some don't. But i find more and more that most don't. Usually the ones that do are teenie bopper HS girls. Most college chix cud careless, unless they are just that way.

2007-01-18 16:09:14 · 49 answers · asked by borcthx 2

the thing is just a month back i had been proposed by a guy on a website, he was like madly interested in me, so i thought of accepting his proposal..everything was fine...finally i thought of putting up my photo and then i said as soon as i put up my photo even u have to do the same...so that even i will know who is the person to whom i say "i love u"
he disagreed initially but then on my request he thought of finally showing his face to me...so he called me to his place, and coincidently the place where he stays is the place where i used to stay...so i planned to meet my old friends first and then meet him..
so till this it was like smooth going...and then i called him 3 times from outside to ask him where is he..because the ultimate aim for me to come over there was to meet him...he said that he was standing in front of the ticket counter...but i dint see anyone over there...

2007-01-18 16:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been into my co worker for sum time,but we hardly talk just say hi now & again-yesterday i had to talk to him regarding work he stood behind my chair so close to me when i turned around he looked @me and all in my face then back into my eyes.I was so nervous and it was so obvious,anyway after that he didnt really bother with me,and he got jealous b4 if i talked to other guys?I dnt undersnd

2007-01-18 16:07:01 · 5 answers · asked by Cassý 1

He is a family friend and since I started college 3 years ago, we have been very close, but just recently started hooking up, we have an amazing bond, and I can't imagine my life without him. He's so sweet to me, and I know that we would be happy together. We haven't come out with our relationship because we're waiting for the right time, when our friends and family's will be accepting. Particularly my family because I have a very wealthy traditional southern family. recently my mother sat me down and said she was concerned with my life choices, and claiming that she would disown me if I was making bad life choices. Then she said she thought they involved him stating that he is too old for me, not good enough, that i could have any guy in the world, blah blah. I assured her we were just friends in order to keep both of our lives intact. I've never felt like this about anyone before, and I know that he feels just as strongely about me. Should I try to work it out, or let him go?

2007-01-18 16:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

Neither my wife nor other women have any physical interest in me any more. A legal prostitute is expensive, but if it's affordable and safe sex is practiced, what's the big deal?

2007-01-18 16:04:58 · 20 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3