I heard a rumor that this guy I like is gay. I've been friends with him for nearly 2 years and its never crossed my mind that he could be gay until someone said he was. I don't want to question him directly by saying "are you gay". I'm not really the type of person to directly ask something like that, Im kinda shy. So my question is, should I ask him how he feels about me, since he already knows how I feel about him? I figure if he is gay this might be the breaking ground for him to tell me or if hes not I'd see how he feels about me. Just curious about your thoughts.
2007-01-18 16:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well don't believe every thing u hear. friends of mine told everyone I'm gay and I'm not really there friends anymore. just ask the person yourself but I doubt it that they are actually gay because sometimes people exaggerate. good luck
2007-01-18 16:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you still talking about the teacher? how come im in the same situ? Just 5 years instead of 2.
I know that the right thing is to forget. And try to get out of it!!! Be happy with someone else who'll make you feel younger and dynamic. and not more and more serious and older and older - youll still get that with someone you can be young together first.
The point with age differences is that if youre younger and he's older, more experienced, its just the two extremes, it seems much more intense, etc. At least thats the case with me, i think. But think of 20 years later...
So, forget.
But dont ask me how, i still havent figured it out myself.
2007-01-21 06:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by eileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being direct is the best way to be, either that or you will be like the guy on saturday night live figuring out the androgoney of Pat.
2007-01-19 00:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋