i've always been an introverted person... quite fearful of the big world wide and members of my family were depleting my self confidence by pointing out my flaws and all of that! i was always doing things with my sister.. like same class, same friends, same everything! she used to tease me and say that i couldn't live without her, she was tired of carrying me on her shoulders and telling me i had no friends etc.two yrs ago i decided i wanted to move from london to ny and my sister said she too wanted to come along so she did!she made it seem as though it was her idea and made my life a misery with her unkind comments! during that time i met a very nice lady with whom i begun leaving with, which meant my sister had to live with her bf. after a while my sister moved back to london and said she preferred it to ny! ever since she left i have grown immensely and have made my own friends and i'm alot more assertive and confident! i'm still leaving with the nice lady and she loves me as her own.. only problem is that sense a bitterness from my family... no matter what i do right they always try to make fun of me of point out something that is not so good.. everyone is aways asking if me and the nice lady are still geting along after two yrs leaving together, people spread hurtful rumours that am pregnant, when its not true, they try to turn my friend and i against each other! this is coming from some members of my fam and so called friends. this has been the happiest i've ever been and find tht people are not content with that! why are they always trying to find fault with me instead of being happy for me and appreciating me for who i am?
2007-01-18
04:03:41
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chocy
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