Well this is my situation. When me and boyfriend is on the phone he real cool wit me. And then we in person sometimes he act like he aint got nothin to say. I mean he speak to everybody (even otha girls) but me. I mean some days he be super cool wit me when othas is around but then its some days when he be dissin me when othas around. And even some days he jus stares at me in the eyes and doesn't say nothin. I mean what is goin on fa real. Is he scared to talk to me when he is in front of me or is he not feelin me or is it somethin else? cuz im confused right now
2007-01-18 04:02:23 · 12 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps he is dumbfounded by your terrible grammer and use of slang. He may possibly not understand a single thing you are saying.
2007-01-20 19:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,
you need to talk to your man.
he seems to me like the shy type, he may be all "boombastic" on the phone, but heck he aint gonna be hanging around much in person if he's shy.
You his first gf? Maybe thats why, maybe he cant handle ye, ever think of it that way.?
Whateva it might be, you gotta get his *** on a chair and talk to him, man to man, well, you get the picture right hon?
No relationship works well without some talking, some communication and thats whatchya both are gonna need and soon.
i can understand ye being confused girl, but this aint rocket science.just be yeself, get out your confusion, and be direct.
Wishing you all the luck in the world girl.
Take care little one!
RAVE
2007-01-18 04:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....sounds to me like he is embarrassed by you in front of others. You should not ever allow any man to disrespect you, c'mon! Where's your OWN self respect?!?!? Seriously Girl...get on wit it...he obviously does not care about you or else he wouldn't treat you this way. There are soo many other men out there do not start settling now or else you will set yourself up for a lifetime of unhappy failed relationships. Hold yourself in a higher regard....
And might I suggest reading more. It will truly help you become more articulate which will open up your dating pool to more intelligent men.
No offense, seriously....
2007-01-18 04:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common with alot of people, not only just guys. Some people feel more comfortable with someone on the phone then in person. Try talking to him. It also could be that he doesn't like to show affection in public which is also common with some guys. Good Luck
2007-01-18 04:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If I understand this right it sounds to me like maybe he is a little shy to talk to you in person. We tend to be more comfortable when we have a mask on his at this time his mask is the "Phone" so he can be real with you there and feels OK talking to you at the same time. Same thing goes for people on line they feel more comfortable talking to you by writing it down, instead of having you face to face. Me on the other hand I'm real in life as well as on the phone or computer since I am just not a shy kinds person I tell it like it is. Everyone is different thou. It is obvious that he really like you thou since he is so nervous to talk to you face to face, cause he is OK talking to other people that is because he does not care about there opinions like he does yours. My advice is give him time, may be have lunch with him alone and let him know you really enjoy your phone conversation and would like to be able to talk about some of those things in person too. Just let him know and make him feel as comfortable as possible with you and he will come out of his shell in due time.. Good Luck and a small tip for your next question, please do try not to write in Ebonics its very difficult to read and understand, just a small positive criticism is OK..
2007-01-18 04:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's waiting for his friends to approve. They might think you're nothing special, and tell him that. So then when you're in public he wants some space so that everyone doesn't think he's falling for you.
2007-01-18 04:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by MarauderX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a headache reading this so I am gonna take the 2 pts and run!
2007-01-18 04:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you got an A in Ebonics
2007-01-18 04:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your boyfriend need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk.
2007-01-18 04:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by tigerlily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your just a girlfriend for convinience to him
2007-01-18 04:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋