ok my bf wants to know if i will ever give my virginity to him and i said yes eventually. However he feels as if i will never and so he constantly nags me about it. i asked him if he ever asked his ex's and he said no it was a waste of time. Why would a guy not ask a girl if he can make love to her. I do not come off as being a ho or a slut ....so i dont know why he would say that. (oh and we are both virgins)
2007-01-18 04:14:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all dont give in. the only reason he's saying "oh you're never gonna have sex with me" is cuz he wants you to get so aggravated that you prove him wrong. and i'm 99% sure he's lying when he says he never asked any of his ex's. so you can write that one off as BS.
if this issue gets too big.. just break it off with him. you wont regret it. how old are you anyway?
2007-01-18 04:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you both. Second, I am 16 and therefore relatively unexperienced besides the fact that I have a 4.0 GPA and do not lack common sense. He is probably asking you because like most young males, they are eager to let there turtle out of it's shell (lol). You should give him a timeframe that is actually longer than it would be. For example, tell him you will in 6 months (or whenever) just to see if he is willing to stick around with you for that long, which would mean he is actually emotional attached to you as well as physically. If he is emotionally attached to you, time shouldn't matter to him.
2007-01-18 04:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by egyptianwizard77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's weird that he's making a huge deal about you giving your virginity to him if he never asked others before, not to mention the fact that he's a virgin himself. I've never heard of that. Tell him that you'll decide for yourself when the time is right to give yourself to him and that his nagging won't help the situation.
2007-01-18 04:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he needs to chill. If he keeps on bugging you about it, you should dump him. There are better guys out there that don't care about having sex, and just wait till it happens. Not only that, YOU should wait for a while before you have sex. Wait until you're older and it will be better. Stay a virgin for as long as you can little girl.
Peace.
2007-01-18 04:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressure from a guy for sex is a big NO NO
I can almost guarantee you that if you give in, he'll break up with you shortly after.
Guys like that need to be dumped before you make a mistake you will regret.
2007-01-18 04:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by sewmouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT have sex until you are ready (and preferably married). If your boyfriend loves you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, than honey he's not the one for you and you deserve better. Sex should be shared with the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. It should be special and a memory you'll want to remember forever. Having sex with your b/f because he wants you to - doesn't sound too romantic. Just take your time and wait until you're ready. It'll be worth it, I promise.
2007-01-18 04:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to stop nagging you could scare the shite out of him by giving him a stong look when he keeps asking and say something like "I don't think you can handle what I'd do to you" and grab his *** very hard
2007-01-18 04:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Strangeismyname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend may be spending time with you just to get into your pants. A relationship that is all about having sex, will only ever be about having sex. If you can't get along with him without having sex, what makes you think that you will get along with him after having sex? If you are close without having sex and you enjoy each other's company ALL the time, then it is entirely up to you to decide when you will "give it up."
2007-01-18 04:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has the right to pressure you or ask you if you are going to give your virginity to them. If he loved you and cared about you, then he wouldn't be so concerned about that...
2007-01-18 04:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you both need to remain virgins until you are both more mature to discuss this topic.
2007-01-18 04:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋