2007-01-18 03:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope that's good. u should have them over for an orgy, share and share alike.
2007-01-18 03:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it is. If he's only dating you, then he should not talk about another ex. I'd tell him to stop talking or take a hike on down to his ex's. He'll get the message that you'll not put up with it or if he's very disrespectful he'll keep on. Anyway, have respect for yourself and how your WANT to be treated and demand it! If he trully cares he'll change. I think that most men don't respect a doormat. They respect a woman that will not let them treat them as one. Could also be that he's not only thinking about you but the playing field and is not ready for a serious relationship. At the start of a relationship men spend time with a woman just for companionship-so they want have to be alone and it's usually the woman that wants to move things forward more quickly. A man can still be thinking about the other new "cars" that he may be missing out on test driving. That was told to me one time. I just didn't have the maturity or the wisdom to catch on.
2007-01-18 04:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by anjoek5859 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Tell him you're sick and tired of hearing about it. If he's not into you enough that he doesn't ramble constantly about them, he's not worth the time and effort. He's not serious. An occasional tale isn't a big deal. For example, I told my husband about how me and my ex got in trouble with the cops for doing something stupid (riding four-wheelers in town) and the cop made me call my dad for breaking my curfew because I was 17 (but a freshman in college). Those kinds of things are fine sometimes. However, and everyday discussion is a bad sign.
2007-01-18 03:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I DONT THINK ITS OK...well at least if my boyfriend would talk about his ex everyday i would be mad and i would tell him right away that i dont like that...so if you dont like that you should tell him...who does he care about anyways you or his ex....so you should really thing about that
2007-01-18 04:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definately annoying isn't it? Don't stoop to his level and talk about your ex. If it's bothering you then yes it's bad. Ask him why he needs to bring them up. If theres nothing between the ex and him (ex kids) He should leave them in the past. If they are around and do something to piss him off. He should ignore it, they are in his past.
2007-01-18 04:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,my ex did the same .Honestly I did not like it one bit.
So I started talking about my exs.
2007-01-18 03:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by ricacosita_76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! People need to focus on WHO THEY'RE WITH NOT WHO THEY'VE BEEN WITH!!!!!!!!Tell him that you are tired of it,if that don't work start talking about the men you've been with.See how that jerk likes the turn around.
2007-01-18 04:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder be upset.. He's obviously disrespecting you and he needs to get his head out of his buttt.. Have you asked him about this??? I would sit him down and tell him how you feel.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 03:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know what you are saying. my bf says something like its okay that you are a little crazy cause ive been with crazier or please dont cheat on me and i will be like dude i wont and he would say well all my other girlfriends have so i cant stop thinking about that. i dont know if it is a sign or not.
2007-01-18 04:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's very rude you should talk about your ex's and see how he takes it he's being an A$$
2007-01-18 03:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How annoying and disrespectful! Maybe he is stuck in the past! Maybe he is not over them!
2007-01-18 03:57:29 · answer #11 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋