Ok, there's this asian girl in one of my classes that's really cute. This is a huge class though w/ like 200 people. she sits on one side and i sit on the other w/ my friend. if i wanted to talk to her or something then it would be kinda weird seeing as how I've never sat on her side of the room and if i didnt sit w/ my friend he's start asking questions. what's the best way to approach this girl in a stealthy kinda way? when i say stealthy i mean like without making a scene. Any advice is appreciated. But for female answerers what would u think if u were the cute asian girl if were to just show up out of nowhere? Keep in mind, I dont know if she even knows I exist. I mean unless she's caught me lookin at her across the room which i dont think she has. thanks for the help.
2007-01-18 04:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, trust me: stealth is not your friend here. Boldness is, and being bold will be the key to getting her to notice you. The best maneuver would be to wait until everyone sits down and is quiet (but maybe before the teacher shows up)... get up from your seat, walk over to her in front of everybody and confidently ask her out. Most women will be unable to say no in a circumstance like this if they haven't already formed a negative opinion of you.
If that's too much to begin with, then catch up with her in the hall before or after class and just straight-up ask. It is *always* the best way.
Trying to find a stealthy way to do it will only communicate to her that you lack confidence, and that will automatically stack the cards against you in her mind.
2007-01-18 04:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Wondering 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The basic flaw in your premise-that atheism requires faith-is in the way you have chosen to view atheism. By your standards, you have essentially made atheism a belief system of non-belief...which is logically impossible. Atheism is nothing more than the lack of belief in any type of god or deity. The link between atheism and theism is that they both flow from personal interpretation. A theist is only a theist because at some point in his life, he has interpreted some events/experiences (or series of them), phenomenon or data as being real, accurate and true because, and ONLY because, there is some god or deity making it so. Thus, what follows this interpretation is the beginning of theistic belief, a great deal of which resides in the province of faith. An atheist is simply someone who has never made any such interpretation. Without such interpretation, no theistic belief is possible. Hence, such a person lacks theistic belief. Perhaps the most accurate statement an atheist can make is: "I have yet to witness any event, experience or phenomenon or be shown any data that I could interpret as being true, accurate and real because, and ONLY because, there is some god or deity behind it." Such a statement does not rely on any kind of faith. I do not have faith that faeries don't exist...I lack belief in the existence of faeries. Now, if someone was to say that he has absolute proof that it is absolutely true that no such thing as a god or deity exists, I might call that a matter of faith. The reason for this is that such a statement would require absolute knowledge of absolute reality....and that is something beyond us... ...for now =)
2016-03-29 03:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a wuss and approach her and ask her out geeess
2007-01-18 04:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋