Recently i was dating a guy, and we were together for 15 months. Last summer, i met up with a guy. He is everything i want. a good guy, nice treats me right christian, but not saying my boy friend wasn't. well after that summer me and that guy decided we were just friends. I was scared to leave my boyfriend, i needed him. Well now I have broken up with my boyfriend and My friend is inlove with me and i love him, but my ex- thinks and has it set that i will come back. But My friend has confessed to me how much he loves me and i cant say i dont love him more! He was talking about proposing. I dont know what to do i'm young. I love him. i think i'm ready but is this right?
Please help!
2007-01-18 03:51:15 · 9 answers · asked by LilTennGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to figure out your feelings before you worry about marriage. Don't worry about your ex thinking you will come back, if you have no intentions of going back. He will have to deal with it. If you really love this new guy and want to be with him, go for it. If he proposes and you're not ready, tell him that while you may want to marry him one day, you're not ready to make that decision yet. If he loves you, he will understand. Good luck
2007-01-18 03:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have the good sense to question a situation...Then the time is NOT right to make ANY decision. NEVER make a decision when your emotions are in control. Or you feel pressured to do so. Good decisions require good judgement. Take your time, do ONLY what you feel comfortable with. NOTHING should EVER be decided speedily! Rushing into anything usually leads to problems down the road, when ya come to your senses. There's no reason why you cant DATE both. In that way, you may actually discover your true preference.
2007-01-18 12:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well about the age part. that just depends cause if you are under 18 then i dont think you should but if you are over 18 then that is not young at all. young love is so cute. yes i know it does always last long but its still cute. if you feel like its right and your are making the right decision then do it. but make sure you think about this alone for a couple hours. think about the furture and other people.
2007-01-18 11:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't jump into something too soon, that's a big step. Talk to him about it, tell him how much you care for him, but also let him know that you think that the two of you should wait for such a big step. If he really cares alot and wants to be with you, he should be willing to wait until you are ready.
2007-01-18 11:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, im trying to decide wether i want to stay with my boyfriend of 4 years, to leave him for someone i have a crush on. i love him but i just feel i need to see what else it out there. good luck and stay true to your heart.
2007-01-18 11:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WaY .......u r too young to get married . Making plans for future is ok But take it very slow!!!!!
2007-01-18 11:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're 40 years old, then ask this question again.
2007-01-18 11:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
definitely actually date your friend before you get married
2007-01-18 12:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a go...time will tell
2007-01-18 11:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋