Singles & Dating - 15 January 2007

How can I get a girl I like, to like me back without talking to her? And If she does like me already what are some signs?

2007-01-15 08:42:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mark J 1

We've been together since June 2005 and when we first got together we were HOT!!! Now it's almost 2 years later and we now live together and he told me recently and once or twice before that he feels like we are boring. Do you think this is a sign that a break up is near or that it's just time to spice up the romance? I tried to explain that we can't entertain each other ALL the time and that we need to be comfortable with just hanging out-what do you think?

2007-01-15 08:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by Searching4Answers 1

I am in a grey area with my ex-girlfriend right now. We were together for 5 years and split about 4 months ago. We had a really great relationship and it was only in the last year that we fell out of sync (she was starting graduate school, moved an hour away, and she wanted to spend time with new friends and doing work). We just felt we weren't making eachother happy anymore, so we split on good terms. Since then, I've made it clear I want a second shot at it, but she says she wants to take things slow and use this time to get over problems we had... but it's clear she wants to be single right now. We talk at least once a week and have met up maybe 6 times. She says I am her best friend and she loves me more than anyone besides her parents. I try not to call her to give her space, but she'll contact me. I am curious if she starts seeing someone if she will stop contacting me. How will she change? Do you try to hide this info from ex's that you care about?

2007-01-15 08:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by i like answers 1

ok here r da details. me and my friend a simple plan. 1 crazy @ss person (me) would do some kind of dumb stunt. that would be 2 pick up a total of like 25 people after school in a limo and go 2 da movies. then just chill out 4 a while. now me and my friend would each bring 12 people. ok he invites dis dude whose girl i like ALOT. she knows that i like her cuz of 1 mistake i made the i met her. he also invites her boy friend. he don't know that i like her. i gotta make dis choice by thursday of who is gonna go. should i take em and look like da nice guy while making things awkward 4 me or say no and avoid this entirely. your choice

2007-01-15 08:39:35 · 1 answers · asked by Lord Ultimate 1

who is interesting in playing Chess? I'm bored and have nothing to do.

2007-01-15 08:39:04 · 9 answers · asked by Alex K 1

I have fallen in love with this absolutely wonderful man, he loves me as well, but we can never be together. This is the first time I've ever been in love and it's just so heartbreaking to know that we can never be together. He lives in another country and the age difference (which is not much at all, but still does play a factor) matters because of his culture. He will always be dear and near to my heart, and I know we will continue to remain in contact as friends, but how can I get over this? I'm young, and as I said, this is the first time I've ever been in love, and I'm sure of it. Any advice I would greatly appreciate, thank you dearly. The culture difference is not an enormous factor, but it could play a role. I'm not counting on anything, but I am just seeking advice... Thank you..

Dana

2007-01-15 08:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by Dana 1

I can't stand quite a few of my boyfriend's friends. They're self-centered and unfriendly. I try to initiate conversation with them and they basically ignore me and focus on my boyfriend. One of them is his former boss, who pretty much has a man-crush on him. He's fascinated by him.The other is a girl who dated his former boss' brother-in-law. She is obsessed with my boyfriend along with this other girl who used to "date" (she said they went out a couple of times) my boyfriend. None of them have reciprocated my efforts to be friendly to them or even polite. His closest girl friend invites him out with her all the time without inviting me. It's really annoying and it really bothers me.
I've told my boyfriend that I don't particularly care for some of his former boss' mannerisms and attitudes on certain things and it came as sort of a surprise to my boyfriend.
How do I cope with this other than just talk to him and is there any way to do it tactfully to not drag him into the middle?

2007-01-15 08:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...he told me that he dreamt that I was pregnant and in fact showing. In the dream, my mom knew about the baby and I came out of my room, very depressed and he was happy. In fact, he said he kissed my belly in the dream. I understand it is a dream, but why would he dream this and tell me about it afterward. Help me out here, it is kid of scaring me.

2007-01-15 08:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by LOVER 1

i don't dress like a slag or behave like a slag. whenever i start seening someone they always end up being wierdly interested in wierd sex to a wierd extent? am i putting out a wierd vibe?! whats going on?

2007-01-15 08:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by dasistgut_15 2

2007-01-15 08:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by Holly 1

We were about to have sex and he got soft all of a sudden. What's wrong with him?

2007-01-15 08:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-15 08:33:36 · 26 answers · asked by baby_kitty43 1

My boyfriend got really pissed off on Saturday night. I called on his entry phone at 4am while I was out with a GIRLfriend. I just missed him... the club we were heading to is down his flat, my frien and I were a bit drunk and my boyfriend was sick at home and hand't seen him since the day before, when I was at his looking after him. But he got so mad at me and hung up. I tried to call him at home because he lost his cellular at Christmas when we were in Barcelona... Today haven't phoned, but this morning I wrote him an email saying I'm so sorry and I miss him. My friends have told me to be patient, now he's angry and he's really stubborn... but i'm so worried now. Should I try and call him for example tomorrow evening... or should I wait? Please, I need advice.

2007-01-15 08:33:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a muslem country, iam24!!!!!!and i have never been kissed it does not really matter but these days i think i really need to at least kiss sombodyoh god what should i do?

2007-01-15 08:32:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week I proposed whether I should cheat on my girlfriend this past weekend with a past "fling" who was in town.

Many of you were kind enough to answer my question so I thought I would give you an update.

Well I met up with this past "fling" and she was lookin pretty tempting, and as I mentioned last week she was making herself available for me.

Much to my surprise I didn't really cheat on my girlfriend. We just made out for old times sake, but when it came to having sex with her the thoughts of my girlfriend prevented me from engaging.

So does that still count as cheating?

I write a blog dedicated to this topic, Cheating on Your Girlfriend. If you are curious on how its done, read up:

http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-01-15 08:32:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ex:at the mall, school, e.t.c

2007-01-15 08:32:03 · 17 answers · asked by dukezone9 2

because you'ld like to keep in touch and if a situation had you in the same city again you'ld like to pursue a relationship, but not tell them that part...just that you're attracted to them, and you like them, etc. and you hope you could hang out if you were ever in the same place again.

2007-01-15 08:31:28 · 25 answers · asked by mary h 2

so you could experience women's orgasms. it sounds like they find sex a lot more pleasurable than us. maybe it is just me. i am a little strange after all. i mean i did once jack off a horse. but that is another story

2007-01-15 08:31:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

You use to see him everyday, talk to him everyday and u feel lonely without him there to talk to and be with..

2007-01-15 08:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by I KnOw eVeRyThiNg 1

Why now when everything is going so good in my live is he trying to miss with my head?

2007-01-15 08:29:09 · 37 answers · asked by Redhead 2

It's gotten complicated. I have a best friend (male) and we're closest friends as you can get without it being more. I've been thinking about it for a while n i've decided i'd like it to be more than a friendship.
We had a lot of drunken flirting at new year, but nothing happened from it. One minute he's hugging me, is all over me and i think he wants it to be more than a friendship too. Yet, the next minute he's treating me like we're just friends and nothing more and he couldn't care less about me - what do you all reckon - does he like me as more than a friend or not?
I don't know whether to say anything about my feelings or not - i mean, it would put our friendship at risk - and that does mean the world to me.

2007-01-15 08:29:03 · 17 answers · asked by Bella Donna 2

Guys only likes girls if they are hot, but how do I get a guy who likes me for who I am and NOT how I look?

2007-01-15 08:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by kimmz 2

ok its like this i like this guy at school and he likes me n we were kind of messing around but never had sex n i really like him but we end it because i was talking to another guy ... but i only talked to him twice on the phone for like 5 min each time... so i told the guy that i really liked because i wanted to be honest n he got really mad at me and now i want him back .. so how do i do it





p.s. i also have a problem because we go to the same school and before we started messing i knew he was the schools biggest flirt and i didnt really have a problem until i realized how many girls really liked him and how he would continue to flirt with the while im around

2007-01-15 08:25:46 · 1 answers · asked by da 1 u ♥ 2 hate 2

and get to level 4..........methinks not...... with all the thumbs down and reports........lmao!

2007-01-15 08:24:27 · 13 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

I had a guy friend who I thought liked me, who was my secret pal, and who used to look at me a lot but I found out gradually that he is a womanizer and has been married four times within the last four years. He can also be abusive. I realize he is a total jerk and can't be trusted. Now, I just try to avoid him if I can. Would a womanizer go through a lot of trouble to get women to like him and the be ugly to them in return by showing his true colors?

2007-01-15 08:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

I was dating this wonderful guy ( OR SO I THOUGHT) he was so kind,sexy,charming and in retospect to good to be true. We were going out for quite some time. I was talking to one of my friends and she was tellling me about this guy she was seeing. She told me about all the sweet things he did and said to her , meanwhile this was all sounding very familiar. She asked me if I wanted to go on a double date with her and the new boyfriend...I accepted and we made plans. I told my boyfriend about it and he said " sure sounds great" The night came for our double date and my boyfriend cancelled last minute. I called my friend and told her the news,she said come anyway. I was at the resturant before they got there. I sat and waited at the bar. To my otter shock my friend walked in and was with my boyfriend of all people ....yha, there was a lot of drama in that restrant that night and I haven't talked to that S.O.B since. So, ladies (and gentelemen) if it seems to good to be true ...IT IS !

2007-01-15 08:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by *Alice* 2

is it worth risking it? I really like her but is it worth becomming an emo to get her attention when she might not even like me then, I've kinda asked her out B4 and she said she was'nt sure ( that means no by the way) although i fancy her like mad wat should i do?

2007-01-15 08:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by immortal_god 1

that i love them and respect them and .........ohhhh......everything really nice and sweet?

2007-01-15 08:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

I have met a guy 3 months ago and we have started to get really close, we haven't slept together yet but things are moving forward and i want it to be special. I don't want to go over the top with candles e.t.c but i was thinking along the lines of soft music and seductive underwear. any idea's?

2007-01-15 08:22:51 · 9 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2

There is this woman that said she just got out of a relationship and wasn't ready to date yet. Three months later she says she likes me and wants to meet me.

When I meet her she says she's happy being free and likes that she only has to answer to herself. So I smile and asked her about FwB. She hugged me and said she really wanted to but she "just couldn't" Then she was afraid because she's never done anything like that before. She asked me to take it slow and be patient with her.

What do you think she meant by taking it slow and being patient?

2007-01-15 08:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous