because you'ld like to keep in touch and if a situation had you in the same city again you'ld like to pursue a relationship, but not tell them that part...just that you're attracted to them, and you like them, etc. and you hope you could hang out if you were ever in the same place again.
2007-01-15 08:31:28 · 25 answers · asked by mary h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have exchanged contact info. I mean do men lose attraction to you if you tell them, rather than just act as if you're not interested. Our schedules never allowed us to see each other more than twice.
No I don't expect him to ask me to stay and I don't want him to move. That is childish. I am moving. I ahve a good job and that's that.
Thanks.
2007-01-15 09:25:03 · update #1
Go ahead, do it.
2007-01-15 08:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, why not keep in touch, you never know what will happen.
I think most man love to chase the women and she seems more valuable if he has to work for it, but i still think that a man that loses interest isn't worth it.
Say you marry him eventually....then a man like that will lose interest for sure if he can't handle a simple 'i like you'.
Maybe show him instead of telling him how you feel if that will make you feel more comfortable.
Either way, you should really read "He's just not that into you", not because he's not but because it gives you a little info into a guys psyche and what to deal with and not. And it's so funny too!
2007-01-15 08:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let them know, but very casually. You don't need to mention "relationship" or that you're "attracted" to them - just send them an e-mail announcement and let them know your contact information. If they're interested in you, they'll keep in touch. Besides, you'll probably meet somebody in your new city. If I was relocating, I would keep an open mind about the future and not hang on to the past too much.
... unless your ulterior motive is to have the person ask you to stay put and not move ...??
2007-01-15 08:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by jjem09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really- what's the point? You're moving away, the guy is going to go about his life, and if you pop into town, he might be seeing someone, or be too busy to want to start something.
I mean, what would you say? "Hi, I'm leaving town, I like you, Wanna hang out if I ever return some day?" It seems pointless for him, and also for you to hang on to that idea.
2007-01-15 08:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always kept how i felt inside when it comes to attractions, even if i had a small feeling that it could lead somewhere. And I have always regretted never telling people how i felt about them. I think you should tell him and see what happens, better to have him turn you down then having to wonder for the rest of your life.
2007-01-15 08:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mark R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 04:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should defiantly tell them, and you should also keep in touch via e-mail, phone, send letters, post cards. tell them that you would like it if you two could stay in touch. If you don't tell them that you want to be in a relationship with them, then they might move just move on, and think that you don't want a relationship with them. But like I always say "If it was meant to be, it will be".
2007-01-15 08:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you pass a note to your friend in study hall to see if she has a friend who knows a friend of the guy to ask him if he likes you, then...
Oh, wait! You're NOT in junior high! You're freakin' 30-ish! GEEZ! Grow a set of balls, or a set of whatever you girls need to get the job done, and tell the man already! GEEZ! (okay, I already said that!)
2007-01-15 08:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Why throw water at a drowning man?
Why didn't you tell him before? It sounds like you were scared to tell him and risk rejection. You feel safe now that you are leaving town....
2007-01-15 08:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Allan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simply tell them that you're leaving the city and ask him how he's feel about keeping in touch
2007-01-15 08:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. The worst thing that could happen is that he won't want to keep in touch, but if you don't tell him, you won't have any chance with him anyway.
2007-01-15 08:35:27 · answer #11 · answered by MyQA's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋