Why now when everything is going so good in my live is he trying to miss with my head?
2007-01-15 08:29:09 · 37 answers · asked by Redhead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's upset because you have been able to "move on" without him. It doesn't matter why he's calling or what he wants, only you can allow him to "mess with your head".
You deserve better than he's shown you, continue moving on and don't look back. Good luck.
2007-01-15 08:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men don't know what they want. My guess is things became monotonous in the relationship and he wanted something more. Now that you have established a positive life for yourself he wants to get back with you so he can feel these feelings for himself. He probably realized that the grass isn't greener. This is where your decision has to be made. Do you want to be with a man that is such a flight risk? Why did he actually break things off? Get all the questions answered by him that you have and take a little while to think about everything and then you can let him know if you'll take him back or not. If you think that you can have better then go and get it!
2007-01-15 08:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, when a guy wants to break up he wants to break up.. and he does not want us to cry and bother them and ask them why.. they think its annoying and they feel like they are in total control.... They got you just where they want you.. In there power BUT, then we let go. We move on with our lives, we stop the crying and the hurting and we pay them no mind... Guess what! They come back, starting off slow, with some calls, some visits and all of a sudden they want you back. You wanna know why. Its called being powerless. They no longer can control you, you have moved on. Now what are they suppose to do. There back up plan is gone. If it did not work out for them on there own, they had you. But not anymore. And if I were you, I would keep it that way.
2007-01-15 08:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few possible reasons, he has seen that you have moved on and does not like it cos ur not chasing him, err his bored and his life is rubbish at the moment, err he just wants someone to tuck him in at night and tell him nice things, BUT not wanting to get bk with you like before so in other words his lonely. or he has missed you and does want to get bk. what i would be thinking is do you want to get back with him? and if you do i would be very alert as to the reason why does he want you, as it could be one of the above reasons. i believe everyone deserves a 2nd chance but if i were you i would be verrrry careful if you do get bk with him as it could be for his own needs and not him thinking about a new start for the both of you.
or on the other hand if ur over him and not fussed dont risk it and carry on doing what you have been doing since you split up.
be strong and you make sure you are the one in control, dont lose ur cool cos you could regret it if he does not turn out to be genuine.
2007-01-15 08:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by ice_castles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy, and the girl he met after you probably gave him the shaft, so now he's crawling back. Every man has made this mistake once. Don't give him a second chance,. He'll do it again. He just really needs to feel wanted right now, and once you give him his confidence back...off he'll go. Trust me, I have that trick down to a science.
2007-01-15 08:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by ADMAN_LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has dated other girls and has now realized its you he wanted all the time. As the old saying. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. In other words he thought he could do better.This could possibly be his reason for calling you.
2007-01-15 08:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thought he could do better than you, and when he went out in the real world he found out he ain't that hot. Probably got rejected a few times. His ego got bruised. He thinks you are still in love with him so he wants you to boost his ego. He's an asss.
2007-01-15 08:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please ignore him if your doing so good! He just wants to get in your pants(more than likely) and use and abuse you once more. You will once again be in the same spot or worse when he told you to move on the first time.
Be careful. You only have one heart to give it's no good to share it if it's going to be or is shattered in pieces!!
2007-01-15 08:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by STARS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can not do anything only what you allow him to do. Yes men play games so be aware of the situation and don't place yourself in a hurtful move. You are stronger than you think.
2007-01-15 08:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sees that you have moved on and doesn't like it. Don't be fooled this doesn't always mean he wants you back it means he wants his cake and to eat it. It's all about keeping you where he wants you. He will try to control you through sex. Play him at his own game now your are forewarned.
2007-01-15 08:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋