Singles & Dating - 15 January 2007

My girlfriend is doing speed...i'm shocked...i smoke weed but i've never done ANY other drug...she told me she did it twice and Friday she did it because she was VERY UPSET...what do i think? SHE THEN went on to tell me she has feelings for ME and ANOTHER GUY....should i just end it now?

2007-01-15 10:48:52 · 46 answers · asked by Mike T 2

and I found 4 different messages over a 2 month period from a girl he used to work with. I know she is married and is a good friend of his family but he never mentioned the fact that they call each other (only from her work phone to his work cell phone) The messages are very sweet and he saves them for days. When i confronted him about it he says he told me that they call each other and its no big deal, we left it at that and havent talked since, only 1 day. Where should i go from here, i really feel that he lied on top of being sneeky. (please no smart *** answers i know i shouldnt be checking his voice mail in the first place)

2007-01-15 10:48:20 · 23 answers · asked by stargazer 1

We still talk and I can't figure out if it's an unhealthy thing or if there is still something there and that's why we can't say goodbye. He says he wants to keep a friendship with me. How do I do that?

2007-01-15 10:47:52 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa S 1

I think I want to be with him but I like to get attention. I am very pretty.... guy always are hitting on me and some are cute and sometimes I let them take me out. I am really into sex. This guy is GREAT in bed, he makes me go nuts, but he does not have a lot of money, he only makes like 40 thousand. He is nice but a little lazy and does not drink or go to clubs like I like to do. What should I do I like him but he is 32 and has 3 kids.... I am 27 with no kids. I dont know what to do.... I dont want to commit to him and then screw up and meet someone else.

2007-01-15 10:47:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-15 10:46:34 · 2 answers · asked by Samantha R 1

i was with this guy and we were in a relationship, and we had sex for the second time, and i was in a lot of pain..and i constantly ask him if he has a condom on to be 100% sure, and he said to me "do you want to try it without the condom for two seconds"..i know it's bad to have sex without a condom, but is it horrible that he asked..because most guys don't want to use it right..and then he said "only thing is,you might have to give me head"

2007-01-15 10:45:48 · 13 answers · asked by rachel a 1

Hi ladies (guys feel free to reply also),

I worked with a girl i fancied the pants off 3 years ago when i worked at the same place as her. She worked in personnel and i was in one of he offices and she emailed me after afew days to see hoe i was getting on and before i knew it, she was giving me lifts home becauses she lived nearby and also would text me asking to go out for a drink with me. She was showing signs of interest and we became good friends. I was happy but i wanted to tell her how i felt about her. Forget lust i was in love. I was 21 then, I am 24 now, almost 25.

Over time though we lost contact as she went on to work at another place but i have never forgot about her. One of her friends the other day told me that she now worked for a careers advice centre called conexxions. I am looking for work at the moment and so it wouldnt be a bad idea for me really to go there to see if she works there and u never know, we could become close again as friends and see whats what

2007-01-15 10:45:27 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 male, new to canada, lonely and looking for a female friend to share our interests and more. Can somebody help me?

2007-01-15 10:45:21 · 4 answers · asked by KayJay 1

I like this fine girl dont know how to let her know i like her

2007-01-15 10:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by Just a guy 1

2007-01-15 10:44:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a hard time coming up with things to talk about when I am on the phone with someone that I like. What should we talk about to keep a conversation going or start a conversation.

2007-01-15 10:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do girls ask guys out? Guys, how do u want to be asked ot by a modest girl?
Ok I think I might like my best friend. How in the world do i ask him out (if I decde to) or how do I drop hints that I want him to ask me out? I dont really want to ak him out because every tim its ended badly. Remember I am a modest girl and 13 so..... ya. Anyway, thanks 4 all your help! :D

2007-01-15 10:43:03 · 13 answers · asked by lauranakf 2

2007-01-15 10:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by Samantha R 1

I met the most perfect guy. I never entended to get as close to him as I am now but now that I have feelings for him it makes my situaton worse. Im sixteen and he's twenty two. I turn seventeen this year. I love him and he loves me and he's really nice and caring. I want to be with him but I know that it's wrong in some ways. The age of consent in my state is sixteen but im still worried about whether or not I should be with him. We decided to stay close friends until im ready and I told him that that may be when im out of high school which is next yr. He said he's willing to wait but I dont know if I believe that. I dont look sixteen and im very mature but I know being with him will be difficult. If I decide to be with him is this wrong? Should I tell my parents or should I just wait until im out of school.

2007-01-15 10:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by Beautiful 1

should i show him and if so how should i show him like give him a *******

2007-01-15 10:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by Guitar heroez 1

If you tell a guy you like him, can it somehow make him like you back?? I mean, if girls say that to a guy, doesn't it make the guy to think about the girl even more?

2007-01-15 10:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 1

my ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago. i was supposed to wait on him, and i did. but when he wanted me back i told him i coulnd't put my heart through it again because i know what would happen. now i like this other guy, and we're getting to know each other. therefore, we call ourselves "talking" how long should i wait until i start officially "dating" him?

2007-01-15 10:41:26 · 29 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1

ok everyboy loves me even the guys that my friends like so my friends are rely jelous so know what do i say to them

2007-01-15 10:41:25 · 5 answers · asked by tallnpretty91 1

How soon does it take to love someone? In your opinon...

For eg:

a day, a week, a month, 6 months, a year and so on...

2007-01-15 10:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by hello hello! 3

hi, im 26, never had a girl friend, been rejected so many times i've lost count. i have a great job, a great career, my own apartment, all the fundamentals that a guy can ever need. i dont have an image problem as i am ok looking and have a fine dress sense. i have a great personality& a great sense of humour, i just don't understand it, why dont girls want me? people say the right girl will come around, but she never has, people say im young, but my 50yr old mate has heard that one ll his life yet no1 came around for him. Do i have to be a jerk in order to get girls? i dont want to be something im not. Is it coz im a nice guy that im a loser in today's society? 'Someone will come along' ??? well, people only say that to get rid of you. Why do girls only call me after they get pregnant and they rejected me prior to that? What have i done wrong?

2007-01-15 10:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by vanilla 1

because they know they aren't gonna get laid, or do they date them because of the challenge, or is it neither and it really isn't ALWAYS about sex.

2007-01-15 10:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4

2007-01-15 10:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by ilovedadq 3

is it the same as a car? middle or the side. should i have posted this under bus category. no smart comments are you will be reported to the powers that be at yahoo. we will take away your answer privileges.

2007-01-15 10:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3

I have a friend who is a player and I realize I cannot trust him. We have never gone out but he gave me the impression that he like me but I realize he really does not. It has been really hard to get passed because I liked him but he is so immature when it comes to women. Should I continue being friends with him? Common sense tells me not to but it would not be right. Just would like another opinion or so.

2007-01-15 10:33:12 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

My girlfriend of 10 months who is 27 (russian) and lives at home wants me to come in and say hello to her parents everytime i pick her up or drop her off. Its important to her that i be close to her family because she is. I dont have a problem with it every now and then but i feel it is a bit unusual and reminds me of when i was 16 years old. I keep telling her to be more indepenent and leave the nest. Am I wrong?

2007-01-15 10:32:53 · 23 answers · asked by slumlordo 1

please i need tips best tip gets fav. pick!

2007-01-15 10:32:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was with my bf and we were making out in my room
and for the first time he took off my shirt and started feeling under my bra and stuff. and so i took off his shirt.

so we're like kissing really getting into it and he picks me up while we're still kissing and starts like carrying me to different places in the room and also on the floor rolling around and stuff. he didn't take my bra off but lifted it up and stuff and felt. and when we were on the floor he was feeling down my pants and stuff.

so when we stood up and everything i reached for his pants like to feel down there and he kept moving my hands. but he was getting really into me still and everything, more passionate than ever. what does this mean?

2007-01-15 10:30:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive tried everything. he's not just some bf, we've been together for 6 years. and Engaged. so im really nervous to even find out anything.

2007-01-15 10:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by mickeys_babe 2

2007-01-15 10:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will the experience they have to bring to the table be beneficial to create a solid relationship? Or are there older women that are still just out for a "good time?" How can I differintiate between the two types?

2007-01-15 10:28:09 · 17 answers · asked by ilm03 2