I think I want to be with him but I like to get attention. I am very pretty.... guy always are hitting on me and some are cute and sometimes I let them take me out. I am really into sex. This guy is GREAT in bed, he makes me go nuts, but he does not have a lot of money, he only makes like 40 thousand. He is nice but a little lazy and does not drink or go to clubs like I like to do. What should I do I like him but he is 32 and has 3 kids.... I am 27 with no kids. I dont know what to do.... I dont want to commit to him and then screw up and meet someone else.
2007-01-15 10:47:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's fair enough. I know exactly how you feel. There's a couple of guys at the moment trying to pressure me into being in a relationship. They keep trying to convince me that I need a man.... I don't see what's wrong with my life as it is... Im happy being single and partying and having a different guy every week!
My advice is be honest. That is the fairest thing to do. Tell him the sex is amazing but you are simply not ready to settle down. His ego will probably get a little crushed so add something along the lines of: "I still consider you very special to me and I will always be there for you as a friend but unfortunetly, I can't be any more than that. Its just not possible."
If he's happy to keep seeing you as a friend with benefits, that's great, if not - accept it and move on.
If you don't want to be with a person 100% , then you shouldn't be with them in that way (relationship). And don't feel bad, coz you are obviously perfect. So you deserve to be with someone who is perfect for you to. This perfect guy will come along one day! In the meantime, keep having fun.
And don't listen to what any of the other cave men, people living in the last century, judgemental idiots on here are saying. There is nothing wrong with a chick having fun like you are. They need to get with it and stop being so shallow themselves coz u definetly deserve credit and be proud of your lifestyle!
2007-01-15 11:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are this uncertain, it would be a disaster for you both to stay together.
You just have to lay it on the line to him, you want him, but not exclusively.
With his low pay and three kids to look after, and with your lifestyle, it just isn't a good match. So I would say the ball is in his court, once you tell him what you want.
I'm sure you won't be sad for too long, if he leaves. Sure you will miss the great sex, but with your record, I'm sure you will find a guy to replace him, soon enough.
At least, he will be able to find a woman, who will be happy to accept him as he is.
2007-01-15 10:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are shallow, or what?
He's good in bed, but a bit lazy and only makes 40K/yr - doesn't drink or go to clubs - I'm guessing he doesn't do drugs other ---Gee, what a shame.
Leave him. He doesn't need you and neither do his kids. Let them find someone who is mature and will be a good role model when they come to visit.
Go, club hop, and continue with your self absorbed lifestyle. Keep looking for that "something better." You'll find you'll always find "something better." Or so it will seem.
Move on, and don't look back. He deserves "something better," too.
2007-01-15 10:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse is a grown woman, she willingly had sex with the guy, so that's not fullyyt his fault. at the same time as i in my opinion do not agree mutually with his movements, it does not propose that he should be punished. attempting to damage him is basically going to reason you even more desirable complications than those you're already dealing with. If I were you i'd divorce your spouse rapidly. He did not rape her. He did not drug her. He did not mind wash her. he's not to take the full blame. i'm sorry if it sounds harsh yet its the chilly, immediately, ahead truth- your spouse had a call and now we may be able to work out her determination. lower back, i do not imagine he merits to be punished and neither your spouse. you should exercising consultation your themes in case you experience like it yet i'd propose a divorce and shifting on mutually with your existence. solid success.
2016-10-17 01:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont commit to him if you cant be faithful. respect him.
i know how it is to get attention from lots of men, but i still would never cheat on my man. some guys are ballers who try to get in my pants, but my man is my man. it takes a lot to do it and if you are not ready then dont.
the fact that you are aware of the proper thing to do is good. now you have to decide if you are ready for a change or not.
2007-01-15 11:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Koko Kandy Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you looked in the dictionary for the word whore your picture would be there
if you looked under the defenition of ***** your name would be there
bob would say no, the man wants commitment and bob dont think you are ready for that. It will hurt him more if you go with him and end up sleeping around which is 80% chance of happening.
2007-01-15 10:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit to him, you're totally not interested. You're too shallow to be into a nice guy. Let him off the hook because you're seriously going to hurt him if you say that you'll stay faithful and don't.
2007-01-15 11:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by graybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical Whore, I agree, Never satisfied
2007-01-15 11:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a whore, theres your advice
2007-01-15 10:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you aren't going to be young and pretty forever get mature and get it together.
2007-01-15 11:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋