My girlfriend is doing speed...i'm shocked...i smoke weed but i've never done ANY other drug...she told me she did it twice and Friday she did it because she was VERY UPSET...what do i think? SHE THEN went on to tell me she has feelings for ME and ANOTHER GUY....should i just end it now?
2007-01-15 10:48:52 · 46 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you should try and find out why she is taking drugs that would harm her and try to help her to stop. If she still insists on harming herself by taking this drug; which could eventually kill her - you should let her parents know somehow. And definitely end the relationship.
2007-01-15 10:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Unless you want to spend the next few months wondering when she's going to rip you off or when (not if) she's going to leave you for this other guy because he's got drugs and you don't. That sounds very harsh, I know but, drugs are a dead end. Speed isn't a recreational drug and if she's doing drugs to medicate because she was really upset, it's not a bubble gum habit. The last thing you should be worried about is if she has feelings for you or some other dude. Get away from her and her habit before you go to jail with her. If she goes to rehab, great, but in the meantime, take care and protect yourself. She has no respect for her body or her well being so don't expect her to have any for you. Good luck.
2007-01-15 10:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes end it, you need to get some help for your own drug habit and if she is underage do the right thing for her and tell someone what you just told us...drugs are a bad business all around and anyone doing them needs help. Right now she has turned to the harder stuff because she's emontionally upset and turning to another guy is just the beginning of a long problem for her, so help her while you still can
2007-01-15 10:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can decide that but you.
However speed is a nasty drug cos it makes you feel so good and is really really hard to give up. using speed makes you selfish cos u become a slave to the drug. You can only care about having enough money for your next hit etc.
Im sorry that uv had such a shock, but it is really good news cos its better to find out now rather than later. Now you can figure out what u want to do and go from there. dont be scared to take ur time and have as much space as u need to sort it in ur head.
Also without trying to freak u out, YOU NEED TO GET TESTED for sexually transmitted disease (just incase) and blood borne viruses such as hepatitis and hiv. especially if she has been using and sharing needles.
Hope this helps.
P.S U will sort it, hang in there.
2007-01-15 10:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are. But whatever the age your girlfriend is. Speed is a bad drug. It changes the person, bad in fast.
. Drugs are nothing to laugh about. To be honest with you if you don't do drugs you shouldn't be with someone who does. Am not saying weed is good for you, but its not a narcotic.A narcotic drug will get you put in jail in can be charge as a felony. In guess what if your with her in she has some on her or your driving her in she has some on her or she puts it under her seat. Guess what your going to jail too.Even if your walking with her and she has some on her in the cops decided to look at you and ask what your doing in decides to check you out.In they find that on her more then likely your going to jail to Why be around a person who does and you don't. Its not wroth it.
2007-01-15 11:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is OK for one should be allright for the other. If you do weed and perhaps she doesn't like weed so she has something else that she likes.
As for the othere guy I would realy wach out for that kind of thing going on. She may be just seeing what you have to say about the othere guy.
2007-01-15 10:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for her , your going to fight for her. For her to use speed when shes upset , is not great for her. Try to help her and try to understand why she is using. You should also try to find out about this other guy as well. Dont fight with the guy or anything but find out why she has feelings for this guy. Maybe shes lying to you and doing drugs more then once and thats the guy she is doing it with.
2007-01-15 10:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to get out of this before it starts costing you. Most people who do drugs will steal to get these drugs. I am an alcholic in recovery for 2 years now sober. I know what can happen. Unless you wanna get her help and go through all the headaches then i would get out before you get to deep.
2007-01-15 11:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lying. You don't start doing speed because you're upset. She's probably hooked and lying through her teeth. But hey, at least she's being honest about the other guy (probably the guy who gets her the crank), walk away now that you have a good excuse.
2007-01-15 10:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by guicho79 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you should spare yourself the heartache of dragging the relationship out. You should probably just end it. She is doind stuff that you do not agree with, so you will end up arguing over it.
Also, if she is telling you that she has feelings for someone else, then that's your sign that your relationship is fading, and probably won't last.
Sorry this is so harsh. Goodluck to you.
2007-01-15 10:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋