been there done that! weve been together 5 yrs and have two kids - so hes not just another boyfriend either - i know how you feel - but take my advice - if hes got a "secret" account that you dont know about you can bet your *** theres something going on that he knows you wouldnt approve of. dont waste your time stressing yourself out over this - get out before you waste years hoping he'll change.
2007-01-15 10:37:10
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answered by kd baby 5
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I have a secret yahoo account too. It's THIS one. I brought up to my boyfriend the fact that I have an account on Yahoo Answers. He probably had no idea what I was talking about and doesn't really seem to care much. LOL.
I go here to help people. I also come here if I have any personal questions of my own. And I don't want my boyfriend seeing the personal questions I'm asking. Because... it's PERSONAL!
You've just got to learn how to trust that boyfriend of yours. You yourself said he's not just some boyfriend... you've been together for 6 years and are engaged. Shouldn't you be able to trust him by NOW?
2007-01-15 18:34:41
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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If you have been together for 6 years and are still just engaged, drop him, go out and find someone who loves you enough to not keep secrets. If your serious about finding the account set your video camera on him and the computer, then leave and he will show you he snake he is or isn't?
2007-01-15 18:39:58
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answered by Jaxanne 1
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Someone you've been with for 6 years and are engaged to should not have "secrets" of this kind. Sounds like this is a bad situation, but if you really want to know...Obviously I say ask him about it, but if you want to be sneaky, go to jamiewhite.com. She used to be a DJ and she was always telling girls who called in asking the same things to go to her site and download a program that gives you access to everything that's typed on the computer. So, if he types in yahoo.com, then whatever he types after that should be his ID and password. Like I said, sounds like a bad situation...hope it doesn't blow up in your face, especially if there's nothing there anyway. Wouldn't want to ruin a perfectly good relationship over unfounded insecurities.
2007-01-15 18:38:04
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answered by graybear 4
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Well if you're engaged he shouldn't be keeping secrets from you in the first place. Why would he keep an account secret from you unless you two have trust issues? If you do then you should see a relationship counselor.
2007-01-15 18:34:28
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answered by Carolinii 2
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you would have to know the account name and from there it would be easy just go to for got password and put in all the infomation if you know it and depending on if he has the account set up to give the password if you know his secret answer it should come up. But like I said you would need to know the account name.... Wait go to ur profile and where it says search change that to members by name and type in his name hopfully it should come up with something if not find the account name. and go from there god speed :D
2007-01-15 18:38:02
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answered by neisha G 2
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I think you should be talking to him about this "secret account". If you have trust issues than maybe marriage isn't the best thing for the two of you! You should seriously have a talk!!!
2007-01-15 18:36:30
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answered by Mandi 2
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who says it's a secret yahoo account. it's probably some old account that he doesn't even use. and if you are so insecure about this, you have no business even getting married. the only way that you will find it is if he wanted it listed. if not, you'll never find it.
2007-01-15 18:34:05
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answered by redpeach_mi 7
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why don't you just ask him??? if you're engaged and have been together for 6 years, you should be able to talk to eachother, and he shouldn't have any secret anythings. something's not right in this situation
2007-01-15 18:34:12
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answered by Anonymous
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if you don't trust this guy, you should re-think the engagement....also...he obviously can't trust you, as you seem very sneekie to be wanting to do what you are trying to find out how to do so maybe you should give the guy a break and end it before you really hurt him sneeking around like you are.
2007-01-15 18:34:28
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answered by Anonymous
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