Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

It's not always just a matter of being more self-confident...i'm generally a fairly friendly person towards others. However, when I'm around people I don't know that well, especially guys, and especially guys i'm interested in..my mind goes blank, and I can't think of anything to talk about...I end up coming off as shy and awkward. any pointers?

2007-01-14 03:02:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 17 n i've been datn this guy for 5 months now.we both enjoy makin out(well i thought so) n have been contemplating on takin things further...u know..having sex...till recently he told me he feels he has been havin things too easy n i should play hard-to-get.now i feel so embarassed n silly.first he wants to go deeper now this....i just dount understand hi and now i feel like i don't ever want him to lay his hands on me again and neither do i wanna yet i love him so much n jus dunno wat to do.....guys!!(sigh)..help!!!

2007-01-14 03:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by lovesexy 2

i cant get a man

2007-01-14 03:00:50 · 6 answers · asked by HOMESICK 1

hey everyone, i am 18 and am sensitive to future life. I dont know when will i really live life?-by going to foreign countries(now in india) or getting a job or women..just very unsure about my life as i wanna make the most of my life(its only one) and dont know for what purpose we are all born just pls guide me how to live each and every moment of life..and i am not kind of stressed out and all...just experiencing whatever it comes from every day i get up in the morning till night and it goes on..i dont see any fun in this..and ofcourse would like to make cool new friends thnx

2007-01-14 03:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

To hit or push your mother? Better explination- My friend got into a fight with her mother and hit her last night. She came over crying and really upset but she said that she could not take it anymore. My friend is 24 years old. I did not know what to tell her because my views is if you hit me i hit back mom or not Can anyone help on advise to give her?

2007-01-14 03:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

6 months ago I met a really special girl. I'm not very good with women and havent had many relationships. I have a real confidence problem.

I met this girl at my local dominoes club and we clicked straight away. We've been out on a few dates and have had some heavy petting but we've never slept together. She's putting pressure on me to have sex and I really want to. But I'm so scared. She doesn't know that I have an incontinence problem.

How do I tell her that I wear nappies?

2007-01-14 02:59:34 · 16 answers · asked by citrusbingbong 2

My guy friend has no self confidence. He's 24 and has had it very rough, being homeless, money trouble etc. He has no family around and only a couple of friends. He is really trying to get back on track now, even giving up smoking which i am so proud of him. But like he says he'll never get a girlfriend cos these days they only want a guy with money and top jobs etc. I keep telling him that is not true but he won't have it. Thing is i have developed strong feelings for him but daren't say anything cos of the way he is. I also believe he really likes me but he won't say anything either cos of it too. He's often said if i say i like a famous guy that "he wouldn't be good enough". I know he feels confident around me, he's always mucking about an joking etc and he talks to me openly which is good but how can i make him see things differently? I think i've also made the mistake of flirting with him a bit too much but it was only to try and make him see i like him, what else can i do?

2007-01-14 02:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She hates when I go out on her but in reality shouldn't I be happy and if she doesn't like it then she needs to learn to.

2007-01-14 02:57:30 · 28 answers · asked by randall 1

2007-01-14 02:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by andrei b 1

like get a hair cut that makes me look my age (20, i look 16) wear make up, dress up a little, will guys notice this? I think it will also help my confidence. I know im cute (not conceited at all) but I just dont put the effort in

2007-01-14 02:55:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Short story. I am 40
My ex hid porn around the house for 15 years. Even though I was ok with being in the house. He had the desire to hide it.
My new bf talks to girls on IM behind me back. He knows I have a big issue with hiding things.
I know he has female friends on the game site he plays but some are not. I have asked him if he has nothing to hide to do it in front of me. He won’t. He never opens Yahoo IM or Yahoo mail when I am around.
He asked one of these girls out to lunch last year but that “girl” was me and he was busted.
He is talking to another girl now he met off the hi-5 website.
I can check when he logged in last but other than that I have no idea what is going on. I asked him about it and got no response. She is also his friend on Yahoo 360 so I am sure he has her on IM also
Is this cheating?
Again it is not the fact he has female friends it all has to due with him doing this behind my back.
When I am at work my friends check and he is on Yahoo IM

2007-01-14 02:55:09 · 25 answers · asked by G L 4

I always thought the embarrasement of being reject by girl when i express my feeling, what should I do to minimize those feeling?

2007-01-14 02:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by rudy d 1

2007-01-14 02:53:15 · 4 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1

I don't have any curtains in my kitchen. I keep giving the old guy next door a peep show. Is it ok not to tell my bf? Or should I stop before I kill the old guy?

2007-01-14 02:53:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 02:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1

my oppinon is that I havent even tryed all yet..but the colour isnt important..its who and what he do that mather...

2007-01-14 02:51:54 · 21 answers · asked by sofiaa_k 2

it is amazing how you think you know someone but really don't. I have met so many beautiful women who have weird thoughts and strange strange behaviors after I get to know them. Are there any NORMAL women left in this world?

2007-01-14 02:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 02:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by cool nerd 4

2007-01-14 02:47:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 02:46:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in a rural town with a population of 400, and this girl lives just out of town. For those who have fancy resaurants or theaters to go to on a first date, we don't have this stuff here. I'm 14, she's just a few months younger. I don't talk to her much, just a "morning" in the morning at school, most of the time. What should I do to get her to have more feelings towards me?

2007-01-14 02:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by Chris W 2

2007-01-14 02:45:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 02:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 weeks before Christmas, me and my gf split up due to me lying to her. The lie was only meant to protect her. Basically she walks her dog in a field behind her house, there had recently been a string of violent sex attacks in the area, and I was really worried about her being there alone and in the dark every night. We spoke about it, but she didn’t take any notice of me and carried on walking the dog their, saying that she could handle herself. I wasn’t happy with this so, told her there had been another attack. When she found out I was lying, she threw me out, saying it was all over.
A week later, we meet up to resolve things, but because I was drunk when she turned up, things didn’t go well at all,
Its now been over 3 weeks since we met and have been through xmas without each other. But not a day has gone by when we haven’t been in communication through either talking, email or text, and most nights we text each other to say goodnight with a kiss.
Were now trying to make another date over the next week or so to meet again. When I ask she says she wouldn’t be meeting unless she didn’t want to see if we could make it again, and that she is curious. But things will not be the same again and that I cant go to hold her hand or kiss her to begin with.
How should I act? What should I do?
I love her so much and know that things are going to have to go at her pace for a while, but I just so want her back, and need to feel loved and wanted too.

2007-01-14 02:42:39 · 4 answers · asked by matt_o_skipper 1

For example, I am writing a song titled "All I need". It is basically about how when A girl is dating a guy and she every thing but she cheats on him and she is saying she has everything but notihng at all with out him.

2007-01-14 02:42:10 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmyne H 1

2007-01-14 02:41:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He threw me a surprise party. I don't want to do the same, but I still want to get all his friends together for a party. The only thing I can think of is get everybody together for dinner....which sounds pretty lame considering what he did for me. I'm also on a budget!

2007-01-14 02:41:49 · 11 answers · asked by Bobbi L 1

i know dating outside the race is not much of a problem but dating outside your own religion and faith is a tricky one.

what are your thoughts and anyone who has been in that kind of relationship . do share

i'm sort of stuck in the situation

help

2007-01-14 02:40:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cause we all know, make up sex is the best!

2007-01-14 02:40:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you stop at a red light when there are no cars on the road for miles and you can see both ways or do you just drive on through gayly foreward?

2007-01-14 02:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by lowroad 2