i'm 17 n i've been datn this guy for 5 months now.we both enjoy makin out(well i thought so) n have been contemplating on takin things further...u know..having sex...till recently he told me he feels he has been havin things too easy n i should play hard-to-get.now i feel so embarassed n silly.first he wants to go deeper now this....i just dount understand hi and now i feel like i don't ever want him to lay his hands on me again and neither do i wanna yet i love him so much n jus dunno wat to do.....guys!!(sigh)..help!!!
2007-01-14 03:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by lovesexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this one--he's a virgin and is afraid to have sex, so he's trying to put it on you. Just go slow physically....don't be kissin on him all the time. Won't hurt to wait and the sex will be better in the end. he's just not ready
2007-01-14 03:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get laid?
Why do you think that by having sex with
this person, he will be yours forever?
Listen to him! He's telling you something
every young girl like you needs to hear.
Play the game. Do play hard to get, be
coy and keep the relationship interesting!
He doesn't want a loose woman.
When he's ready, he will ask you. Don't
force the issue.
Love him for telling you that. It's not a
rejection. He is being responsible towards
you and himself. He doesn't want you as
a trophy, nor does he want to take advantage
of the situation.
What's going to happen if you have sex with
him and things don't work out between you?
Are you going to say he used you and now
you are a victim of his??
Take it easy. Love and lovemaking will come
when it's time.
I want you to be glad you have a boy friend
like that. Good luck to you both.
2007-01-14 03:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by citizen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 17. don't have sex. He sounds like not only he is a virgin, but maybe he doesn't know his own sexuality. His inexperiance is okay and so is yours. You need to worry about school and work, have several boy friends and learn by watching what mistakes your friends make, and after awhile you'll know when your in a relationship what you are willing to put up with. I know it's advice you can take with a grain a salt, it is your life.
2007-01-14 03:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by lynnm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yours is quite an interesting case,but i wuldn't really blame the guy cos we guys like to do a little bit of work and if your man has been having it going all too easy then he might get tired of that relationship quite early but you try and show him you're not too easy has he thinks(but don't over push it)and you'll find him doing all he can to get you back.Goodluck
2007-01-14 03:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has dual standards, he wants to have sex but also wants you to be a challenge. I suspect he does not want to think you are easy and may have had other partners. He sounds immature, you need to decide if you want to continue the relationship. If you give in too easily he will lose any respect for you.
2007-01-14 03:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty complicated, I'm sure if it'll help but I'll try anyway.
From the sounds of things i can think of a few different reasons, maybe he met another girl, and he's starting to like her, but he WANTS to like you, so he wants you to act hard to get so he'll want you more (guys want wat they can't have blah blah blah)or maybe he just wants to have a more flirty relationship, maybe he feels that other ppl get things hard and he wants to see what it's like not having everything handed to you, as i said there can be a bunch of different answers.
If this doesn't help gimme an e-mail and i'll see wat i can do
corinthius99@hotmail.com
Good luck
2007-01-14 03:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Corinthius99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is scared when it actually comes down to it. Sometimes the fun part of a relationship is the chase, it gives him a chance to test his "skills" at getting what he wants, or thinks he wants. Maybe you should slam the brakes on him to see how he reacts.
2007-01-14 03:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by CARLOS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-31 02:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry my poor ewe lamb :)
of course it's geek and I understand why do you feel so silly or maybe stupid too , cause you didn't expect it . so stupid , you know!
but you mustn't feel sorry or embarrassed at all , cause there wasn't something so so wrong in your words or maybe something so vulgar or indecent!
sex is normal thing ,he's just not ready for it. guys lie and kind of stink.
just forget about it , it wasn't your fault or sin.
relax ,everything 'll be okay and awesome ,if not with him , so with someone else who 'll really deserve you! :) :)
2007-01-14 03:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like this guy needs help you sould most defintly NOT take things further with him, it seems like he has mulitple personality issues, you should leave him he sounds coo koo, good luck:)
2007-01-14 03:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋