Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

So I had sex with a man right before I left on a retreat where I'd be cut off from outside contact. When i return, a note "welcome home - come over to my place to watch a movie?" I was on my period, but I wanted to kiss him & make out a bit (but not have sex). But I thought, if I go over to his place, & tell him once we start making out that we can't have sex, he might think "Yikes she wants a relationship". If I told him over the phone "I am in my period", he might think "Well, isn't she just a little too fast, who said we were going to have sex". So, I told him I was too sleepy & had a lot of work, & then he ignored my calls the entire week. Did he feel turned-off? Or rejected? I want a relationship, don't need sex that bad. How do I get out of this mess when I finally meet him tomorrow? Tell him why I didn't go over that day (or that I want a relnship) & risk being told I'm just booty? Or keep my dignity, don't shag him again & never try to find out if he wants a relnship?

2007-01-14 04:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this boy started liking me last year in feb 06. He been ignoring me for a while this year. now he kinda acting like he like me now since my friend told him i like him he just smiled at me in jan. he smiled at me this year in dec 1 and last year in mar. he been looking at me then looking away quickly. he gave me this dirty look the next day. he been looking at me for a while. one time we were going to take a break in 1 pd so i went to the b-room with my friends. he was looking at my friends running down the hallway he saw me come then he quickly looked away then turn his head back and kept looking at me. Then when it was time for home he look the direction i was coming he look away then kept looking back and forth at me. He used to be outside but now since the stuff i you told that happed he been coming outside later than. Also last year he been coming late than me when he liked me. He would somtimes be outside and somtimes be in the school. Please help! thanks have a great day

2007-01-14 04:07:06 · 4 answers · asked by Incredible 3

2007-01-14 04:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 and he is 18. everyday i wait for the downfall because i have never had a relationship be as real as this one...Flowers, jewelry, kisses, and saying "I love you" all the time,talking about marriage and children after i turn 18, everything is perfect...i've never found perfect until now. Could it be for real or am i a blind fool? We both are very in love, it seems to good to be true, but i am soooo happy. So is it real, do you think?

2007-01-14 04:01:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's the opposite ladies, for some reason I have no problem attracting ladies and doing well you know...LOL, however, when we hit it off and the fireworks get to sparking. I'll call back and they avoid me as if I was just a one night stand. I'm not looking for a relationship neither ladies. I just want to be lovemaking buddies(politcally correct for saying...well you know.LOL... Don't want a violation e-mail or question removed.) Yes, I'm greedy, I want more, I like to come back for seconds, and thirds even. However, they never want to come back for more like I do. Females, why is it that a one night stand is better than sex partners for you ladies? Especially when we are both upfront about no relationship, just sex partners not just a one night stand?

2007-01-14 04:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend let me check his text messages one night and i was horrified to find texts from more tha 5 different girls. One was a picture of his ex girlfriend but was sent more than a year ago and the others were during our relationship but were fairly innocent. what should i do? i'm finding it hard to trust him!!!

2007-01-14 04:00:37 · 49 answers · asked by Darling_Bud 2

I met her through an online dating website. I didn't think the site would work and it seemed stupid until I met her, anyways...

Last night I talked to her on the phone for 6 1/2 hours... up talking till 4 in the morning.

I think she's interested because no one would talk to someone that long on the phone if they weren't... she's also a really really nice person and i'm really interested in her.

Problem? She lives in CT and i live in Long Island, New York. That's a 2 hour drive or If I take a fairy over to CT from LI, it's an hour boat ride for me an hour drive for her if she picks me up... a little out of the way, I know. But we're adults so after meeting each other, if we're comfortable, I won't mind staying at her place for a weekend or she staying at mine but what my question is...

Is something THIS long distance worth it? Its hard to find nice people in my area whom I like so maybe I should go for it. What do others think? Has anyone else been through this before?

2007-01-14 04:00:14 · 11 answers · asked by X Anonymous 1

Have you ever bet that you could get a guy to ask you out, sleep with you, buy you something, etc.? Have you made any kind of bet involving sex?

2007-01-14 03:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think im the prettiest girl at my skool am i concieded

2007-01-14 03:58:09 · 34 answers · asked by katies 1

what makes women irresistable to you?

2007-01-14 03:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he breaks up with me - is taking me to court to say that we are married...and then sends me an email to tell me he has a christmas present for my son....i told him not to contact us....will he ever leave me and my son alone?

2007-01-14 03:55:47 · 15 answers · asked by regis 1

after a few discussions and tensions with my girlfriends who seemed to make me miserable after she meets another guy while we were in a relationship , and seemed to compare me with him and outlines the better quality of this guy has over me ....and then does everything she can to make me jealous so I can initiate the breakup so she can be free herself to go to someelse ...the day after the breakup she was already with that guy, giving no space for renegociation and coming back ..!! but, the question , I am aking , what she totally right to move on to another guy, because, I do breakup with her , ..? or was she being kind of evil, because , the day after she was already with that other guy and give me no space to work out anything ..? although i didn't regret, it was the best decision at all, but I am just wondering about what you think about her behavior ..

2007-01-14 03:54:47 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1

I am 16 my friends think she is ugly as a duckling but I like her think she is cute Should I ask her out with risk of losing my crew? I am just totally confused right now!

2007-01-14 03:54:38 · 48 answers · asked by Joshua 1

2007-01-14 03:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by sanam_rglover 1

Well this prob seems lieka dumb ? but Im not 100% sure what it is....I know 1st and home run...I can prob guess what 2nd and 3rd are but I dont know if im right....random question i know, but thanks!!

2007-01-14 03:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 03:50:54 · 4 answers · asked by whtmt501 1

2007-01-14 03:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by philisophical 1

We all have pet peeves and habits.

2007-01-14 03:50:21 · 18 answers · asked by Goodfella 1

My b/f is in ohio visiting his Family he really didn't want to go...he gets back the 16th and than he leaves for training in missouri on the 18th he won't be back til april and this was the last weekend we had to see each other . Before he left he told me "if you want me to stay i will I told him to go because i would go if it was my grandma. Well he went out with an old friend from high school and he told me about it i was fine til i found out it was a girl i didn't let him know it bothered me. I trust him i just don't trust other women. I knew he would go out and hang with some of his old friends but should i have told him i wanted to stay? I mean we won't see each other for almost 3 months

2007-01-14 03:49:57 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

I kinda let myself go over the last few years. I use to have rock solid abs but now it is more of a keg looking gut......I am not obese but need to lose about 30-40 lbs.....does it matter to you women? I am very clean and smell good.

2007-01-14 03:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

lis it looks?? personaity?? ......u tell me

2007-01-14 03:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by kate m 1

Seems like I always end up being the nerdy-type guy and having emotions...I wanna be stronger like some of these other guys I see

2007-01-14 03:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by Greg S 3

2007-01-14 03:45:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My GF asked a smooch from me . . .. . .. and this wud b my first time and may be hers tooo.......

I wanna know should i start smooching her .. . . .. .

2007-01-14 03:37:38 · 25 answers · asked by Aki 1

My boyfriend of 3+ years has been working overnights for the last month and some. He's hated it, and he finishes the overnight stuff in the middle of February. We are already getting a nice hotel room to spoil ourselves for Valentine's Day, and he's taking the week off to enjoy being on a normal schedule.

But I want to do something really nice for him. I don't care too much about price (well, something under $150 ideally), but I was thinking something less material.

Yes, I know. A bj is always an option.

Ideas? Guys, feedback? He's a computer nerd if that helps any. He's also in his mid-30s, so no ideas good for teenagers, please.

Thanks!

2007-01-14 03:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well theres this guy that i met during the summer and we were wicked good friends. We like had like a really special bond together(as friends). Even when he found out i had a crush on him everything was the same. But then school started and he never talked to me.O ya were both in 8th grade. My friend asked him on the bus if he liked me and he said he did a little. Though even when i walk right by him he never says hi. During february vacation i'm going to the camp where we met in and i'm afraid how hes going to react. What should i do to get him to really like me?

2007-01-14 03:35:48 · 2 answers · asked by singyourheartout =) 1

cos am too quiet and he is not use to girls like dt

2007-01-14 03:34:40 · 14 answers · asked by Wey 1

I've been talking to this guy (he lives on Long Island, NY) and I live in Erie, PA. He's really sweet and we're in a relationship. We've been talking on the phone and communicating online since Dec. 22nd. First he said he'd be able to visit me in Feb. Now his parents wanna go skiing, so he said March. (He said March like yesterday or the day before). Today, he says he can't come visit until May or June. (I can't drive due to my severe vision impairment and he knows this.) If I could, I'd go to him and visit.
What should I do??
He's almost 20 *in Feb. and I'm 24.)

2007-01-14 03:33:16 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6

I love this male and sometimes I feel warmth in my heart. It is/feels like someone is thinking about me and loving me.

Can it be that the male I love (he loves me too) be thinking about me at that time?

2007-01-14 03:31:56 · 7 answers · asked by sj 1

and what was it about the first date that was so rememberable??

2007-01-14 03:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by hazel2nuts 3