I am 16 and he is 18. everyday i wait for the downfall because i have never had a relationship be as real as this one...Flowers, jewelry, kisses, and saying "I love you" all the time,talking about marriage and children after i turn 18, everything is perfect...i've never found perfect until now. Could it be for real or am i a blind fool? We both are very in love, it seems to good to be true, but i am soooo happy. So is it real, do you think?
2007-01-14 04:01:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH no, we JUST kiss, no touching, he knows i'm saving myself for marriage!
2007-01-14 04:12:53 · update #1
I think you have found your match. Such gifts, love and affection from some one is an indication that he likes you and wants a long lasting relationship. Try be positive in thoughts and do not think of downfalls or any pessimistic views. Life is to enjoy and that too for the present. Neither you nor me know anything about the future. As far as marriage is concerned give some more time. This aspect needs to be dealt in a matured manner. Stick to him you are in your best phase of life.
Keep enjoying.
2007-01-14 04:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a blind fool, just young and inexperienced. Flowers and jewelry are nice, but are certainly not a true symbol of love. The fact that he is talking about marriage and kids is either being used to get or keep you sexually active, and to be honest should be a warning sign to you. You are both way to young to have any idea what you really want for the long term. I stongly suggest that you speak to a parent or an adult that you trust about this as opposed to hitting interenet forums. And if you are going to be sexually active always practice safe sex.
2007-01-14 12:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pete S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be the one...but you are soooo young....you have your whole life ahead of you.....one bit of advice, never move in with him unless you are married...keep your own space.....wait for a while and see how everything turns out....you both are young and someone may be out there for you that is better suited....he sounds like a great guy at 18...but he's still young as well....see how things go - but you are just a baby.....only 16....stay young while you can and he may be the one....just take it slow...if he respects you for that....that's a good thing....don't sell yourself short....you have a long life ahead of you and good things are in store for those that wait.....
2007-01-14 12:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by regis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have found a great guy so enjoy him. Not too many guys are like him. If he is giving you flowers, jewelry and being affectionate , I would hang on to him and yes he could be the one.
2007-01-14 12:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers and jewellery aren't what make love real. Enjoy it while it lasts but I think you will probably have many more loves in your life before you get married.
2007-01-14 12:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love. I was in the same situation with my girl and now after 6 years together she changed her mind about all that stuff.
2007-01-14 12:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask random people this question. Don't even think much of it. Don't worry yourself with all this crap. YOU know what's in your head. YOU know what you think about him. Don't dwell on worries about 'is it love or not' and don't dwell on "We're getting married!!"
=/ both are no no's
Just live life NOW.
See what happens later.
And don't you DARE rush anything.
Take your time.
Chill out.
2007-01-14 12:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty damn young to be talking about kids and marraige. Just have a good time while you don't have any responsibilities, there will be plenty of time for love, marraige and kids.
2007-01-14 12:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's real you just defined love but i'd wait til your A LOT older to marry at least in your mid to late 20's
2007-01-14 12:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if he is the one. Stop dwelling on any doubts and enjoy the perfection that is now.
2007-01-14 12:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋