So I had sex with a man right before I left on a retreat where I'd be cut off from outside contact. When i return, a note "welcome home - come over to my place to watch a movie?" I was on my period, but I wanted to kiss him & make out a bit (but not have sex). But I thought, if I go over to his place, & tell him once we start making out that we can't have sex, he might think "Yikes she wants a relationship". If I told him over the phone "I am in my period", he might think "Well, isn't she just a little too fast, who said we were going to have sex". So, I told him I was too sleepy & had a lot of work, & then he ignored my calls the entire week. Did he feel turned-off? Or rejected? I want a relationship, don't need sex that bad. How do I get out of this mess when I finally meet him tomorrow? Tell him why I didn't go over that day (or that I want a relnship) & risk being told I'm just booty? Or keep my dignity, don't shag him again & never try to find out if he wants a relnship?
2007-01-14 04:07:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing. If the guy hasn't called you because of that then he isn't worth it. I would forget about him and move on.
2007-01-14 04:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How long have you known him? Don't do what I did. Don't let him use you for sex. Personally, I think having sex with a friend is weird. If he's a decnt guy and you like him, its best in person to tell him. If he don't want it like that you can either be simple friends, or forget him. Is he a decent guy? Getting pis$ed that you're tired is bad. There's other guys. Don't feel bad. I'm single and stuck too. Don't have a "***** buddy".
2007-01-14 04:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him why you lied. Simply tell him the truth and what you were thinking. If he is a cool person then he will understand.
2007-01-14 04:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and find out if he wants a relationship....you might regret never finding out if you dont!
2007-01-14 04:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by laura r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
2007-01-14 04:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by binky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he liked you he wouldn't leave just like this
2007-01-14 04:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋