Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

My partner says his the boss, everything goes by him... tells me what to do when to do it...but there is one thing i dont like is that only rarely when he is in a bad mood...if i say can i have a hug or kiss he says no and thats final [but the reason for his moodiness is from his family, and because of that he would treat me like sh*t even though i told him i had nothing got to do with it, his family is very controlling]..but then its okay for him to kiss me and hug when he pleases, and acts like nothing happens... what is the meaning of this treatment? I care about him alot and i have put up with alot... please help

2007-01-14 11:52:48 · 16 answers · asked by *LuckyStar* 1

Basically i'm deployed overseas in Iraq. Some idiot asked my girlfriend to go to prom with him knowing she was with someone else. She had a kid early on and never got a lot of the high school experience but she kind of wants to go to Prom. Me and her are getting married when I get back, and to me I feel prom isn't just a little friend thing, it seems more of a "date". Especially since I don't even know this guy and she has never mentioned knowing him until now. She asked what I thought about her going and I said I wasn't comfortable with it. Am I right for feeling this way? Or am I worrying too much? She means everything to me and she's all i dream of out here. And she seems really pissed that I said no instead of letting her go. A couple of days ago too she told me she wasn't going to hang out with guys anymore because she though it wasn't right and we will move when I get back anyways so she won't really talk to them after that. Any advice? Please?

2007-01-14 11:52:32 · 15 answers · asked by Clay 1

2007-01-14 11:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by ilovedadq 3

Sometimes it is hard for me to stay motivated to eat well, clean, and complete other activities I associate with family life. I am getting tired of living alone and I am starting to feel desperate. I can't imagine living like this forever. I feel like I'm waiting for something to happen and it's not going to happen.

2007-01-14 11:50:22 · 15 answers · asked by ahhihello 2

I have a crush well his bestfriend and him we're walking up to My crushes bestfriends granma's house. Ok my crushes name is joseph. His friend is Anthony. Well anyway i asked anthony if we could talk fer a minute. He asked how long would a minute be? He was in a herry. i understand that. well Anthonys my friend too but we're like far from friends.Well i told Anthony " I love Joesph, im sorry." Im almost crying now because i said that. Please help. I was nervous.

2007-01-14 11:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2

well see we never really talked much over the last two years and suddenly she is like so happy around me always talking to me she is on the bball team when we play basketball when i help out at there practices its just.... u see i would of never thought about touching her and yesterday we were pretending to box and then i gently put her in a headlockaand we had a long laugh and thn when i walk in the gym earlier that day she started jumping up and down waving at mee then one day i was talking to her and she was waiting for her ride and she said she was not sure if it was coming so i asked if se needed to use my phone she said yes so i ran and got and when i came back she was geeting up to go her ride came she was like oh my ride is her thank u anyways and the she started laughing so... is she flirting with me does she like me and should i make my move and how and winter formal is on the 27th should i ask her to it

2007-01-14 11:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Tblacklegacy 2

She used to work as a nurse in London,I belive she moved to Ramsgate.Iwant to know how is she doing ,I really missed her very much .Here name KIM.M.BEVERLEY THANKS A LOT FOR HELPING ME

2007-01-14 11:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by Khalid 1

im 15

2007-01-14 11:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by amber j 2

tend to put up with more abuse and that from than women who have good self esteem. if you respect yourself you shoudl not put up with people who do disrespect you but if you come from an abusive home then a person has not learned to value themselves.
i just think i put up with too much from men, what is enough and what is not enough though. i don,t want a man who thinks nothing of me, but i don,t want to be a perfectionist either what do you think.

2007-01-14 11:45:20 · 16 answers · asked by denise g 2

i know this is long, but please answer both questions so i went on a cruise and i met this whole group of guys. me and my friend hung out with them every single night of that cruise. the first 3 nights i had noticed this one guy, but nothing was happening between us, we just hung out really as a big group and talked a lot. the 4th night strolled around and me and this kid were hanging out and we went to my room and talked the whole entire night. he had mentioned to me ahead of time that he didn't want me to think he was gay because he wasn't going to do anything with me because i had already hooked up with his brother. so i was fine with that, and the whole entire night we talked about so much. i started to have more than a physical attraction to him, and before we even hooked up that night he had already kissed me on the cheek and when he had to go to the casino he promised he'd be back in 20 minutes to hang out with me, and he came back in 10. then we talked some more and by the end of the night we had hooked up. he slept over my room, and he had asked me before we hooked up if we were going to be hanging out the next day. the next day my friend got him from the casino, because he was always there right after dinner, and she asked him if he wanted to hang out..so he said yes and he came to my room right away to hang out. we had talked for a little while, and then he asked if i wanted to go to his room, and we went and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally in the moment. it was amazing, although he didn't talk much, it was as if he was focusing really hard and concentrating. he did everything to me, and there was a lot of foreplay. after we had sex, we went to the casino for a little while, and i told him i was going to go back to my room to lay down. i wasn't expecting him to come back that night, but he came knocking on my door to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me to hang out, but he thought i was with another guy because i was hanging out in a room with another guy, but nothing happened between me and that guy. so now he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. eventually we met back up again, and he explained to me how he thought i was with another guy. i cleared it up for him and told him that i was not with another guy at all, and i wouldn't be. that night, him, me and my friend hung out the whole entire night talking, until this other guy came to hang out with my friend. and then me and this kid had sex again in the moment, which was even more amazing the second time. he was so caring, and seemed to be more comfortable. he was constantly asking if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop. he slept over again that night and we layed together. earlier that night he had pulled my friend aside to ask what the deal with me was. and he said that i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and if i lived where he did after the cruise we'd be together. it just so happens that i am going to college where he lives. the last night we hung out once again and talked a lot, and he kissed me goodbye on the lips. after the cruise, he commented me right away on myspace, and we talked a few times, but it's really hard to talk everyday, and it's not easy to get involved in a long distance relationship, because those hardly ever work, plus we never really talked about it. at one point he had been really busy, but i thought he was avoiding me..so i left him a message saying, i'd still like to be friends or at least talk for that matter, but if you don't write back then i'll know you don't want any part of me. sure enough, he wrote back, and told me that of course we're still friends, and let me know that he didn't have a girlfriend or anything. i surprised him one time and he was really happy to see me, he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise, and kissed me on the lips goodbye. he told me to call him next time that way we could actually meet up and hang out. he wanted to make sure i was definitely coming to college there also. it was a really nice visit, and after the visit, he had commented me asking me how the rest of my trip was , and telling me to call him next time i was in his state. we haven't talked in awhile, and for right now i'm moving on, and so is he..he has a girlfriend which he just got recently, and i'm sure i'll find someone new, but hopefully in the future this might work out. p.s. i never did anything to him such as giving him head or a hand job, and he wasn't with any other girls on the cruise.

does this sound like he really liked me a lot, and maybe we have a chance in the future?

2007-01-14 11:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by lauren c 1

I've had girl friends before and stuff, but I can't really have sex. If really effects the relationships, I really want love in the future...but i feel like I'm not going to be able to...

What do i do? will i find someone? I'm 22 too

2007-01-14 11:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by darkenurheart 1

2007-01-14 11:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by ilovedadq 3

If not, what is? Please state your opinion! =)

2007-01-14 11:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I go to clubs and stuff, I can never find a good guy! I dance, drink, and even make-out with tons of guys, but I just can't find the right guy. Anyone know a good place to meet good, hot guys? I don't!

2007-01-14 11:40:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'ved dated the same person for over 5 yrs know.And I feel like this is it.But I still wonder if I should stay or leave.

2007-01-14 11:38:11 · 21 answers · asked by 021 1

In September I started liking this guy and he and I became kinda friends. He was nice, sweet, and funny. So my friend asked him out that month. He said no. But then he told me he felt akward talking to my friend. It has been 5 months, and i still like him and we r still friends. Then his ex gf. told me she broke up because he never talks to her in class or like ANYWHERE, yet he talks to me all the time, though this other guy (i have no idea why) tells him to quit but he keeps going anyway. I wanna ask again but i'm not sure. What do u think? And please tell u would actually do yourself.

2007-01-14 11:37:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know people's opinions. When choosing a life partner should one, or should one not, consider the views of their parents/siblings/close family and friends? I know it is best to follow your heart and do what feels right...But can you really chose a life partner knowing that all of your family and friends detest him/her? How much should their advice matter? Who here listens to the advice that your loved ones give to you? After all they only want the best for you, right? Or is it crucial for people to make decisions like that on their own? It just seems that people outside of the relationship can see things that the person who is in love might be blind to see initially....

2007-01-14 11:37:27 · 5 answers · asked by Yul'ka 3

but i'm not 100%
what do i do?

2007-01-14 11:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by erin♥ 3

If a woman comes off the pill should she tell the person she is having sex with for a number years that she has done this. And is it fair that she only advises this fact after she becomes pregnant..... BEFORE ANYONE SAYS IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO ...... IT'S NOT AS IF SHE WAS INEXPERIENCED SHE IS 32 YEARS OF AGE. Or is it that her clock was ticking and she knew I would never agree to have a baby and made the decision to trap me. Could that be discribed as form of male rape.

2007-01-14 11:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by justinoc1 1

So here is my problem, my boyfriend of three years tells me he loves me and he doesnt want to lose me but then the next day he will tell me that he is fed up with me and that he wants me gone but he still loves me, how to i fix this with him? Also he has this friend who calls me a b***h because one day I didnt say hi to him when i saw him a the street one day, and also he thinks i am bithcy all the time how to i make it so his friend doesnt think that of me and with this same friend all he does is call and call and call about the stupid things how do i talk to my boyfriend about him calling all the time and when to tell him to give up on the calling how can i talk to my boyfriend of these things without my boyfriend getting mad at me?

2007-01-14 11:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by unknown 2

I usually go out with friends, but I'm thinking about going out alone to see who I will meet.

2007-01-14 11:35:03 · 20 answers · asked by ahhihello 2

just wanting to know

2007-01-14 11:34:18 · 7 answers · asked by gamer_king_2007 1

2007-01-14 11:33:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a woman comes off the pill should she tell the person she is having sex with for a number years that she has done this. And is it fair that she only advises this fact after she becomes pregnant..... BEFORE ANYONE SAYS IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO ...... IT'S NOT AS IF SHE WAS INEXPERIENCED SHE IS 32 YEARS OF AGE. Or is it that her clock was ticking and she knew I would never agree to have a baby and made the decision to trap me. Could that be discribed as form of male rape.

2007-01-14 11:33:29 · 42 answers · asked by justinoc1 1

So since the first day of school ive had this MAJOR crush on this kid named steve, at the last dance every time i looked at him it seemed that we was looking at me but i wrote a note to him saying that his friends told me that he liked me and it wouldnt be a bad thing if they were tellin the truth (Evean tho they did not really say this) he wrote back that he doesnt. I would talk to him but he is kind of shy and i dont no him that well. WHat should i do

2007-01-14 11:32:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

well peeps have say that i should be emonically scord, cause when i was 6 this guy who was like 12 or 13 had sex w/ me, then when i was 9 my best friend raped me he was the same age, then when i was 10 or 11 i almost got kidnaped,then one of my ex Bfs has tried to kill me last year i was 12, and i'm 13 so should i be in a mental place????

2007-01-14 11:32:05 · 1 answers · asked by Kallee n 2

2007-01-14 11:31:43 · 10 answers · asked by monique 1

Need some more opinions on this. She dumped me a week and a half ago (mostly my fault). She texted me a week after saying she misses me. I called the next day to see if she wanted to meet. She didn't reply but sent me a text saying "i don't know what i want to do. Just give me a while. I'm sorry". My response was "No worries. If you give me a chance to show you change rather than tell you that would be great. If not, that's okay too. Sometimes you get one shot and if that's the case here than there is nothing i can do. I hope you let me win your heart. take care.

Did I do the right thing here? I don't know if she will come back? Is she playing games? I am moving on regardless. I hope she does give me a shot but I don't know what else to do. I don't know if she is with another dude but i guess i can't control that either. What do you guys think? Good response?

2007-01-14 11:31:18 · 27 answers · asked by D 1

did anyone feel weird when u saw couples making out when u were single? i kind of did. now i have a boyfriend and im very happy with him. he's a good boyfriend. he has 2 jobs and he goes to school. when i saw couples making out at school or in the movies at the mall or wherever it made me want a boyfriend more. as i said im happy with my boyfriend. has anyone else felt this way?

2007-01-14 11:31:14 · 9 answers · asked by Melanie P 1

I had a great guy friend in high school, we are 3 years apart. I havent seen him or talked to him in almost 10 years and through a friend of his gave him my email. it's been about 2 weeks, and his friend said he gave it to him, but I have not hurd anything. I get butterflies everytime I think about him, but does him not emailing me mean that he dosent want to talk to me or is he just nurvous?
I know he's not married or in a relationship so that's not a part of it...

2007-01-14 11:30:25 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer N 2