but i'm not 100%
what do i do?
2007-01-14 11:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by erin♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do i tell her or not?
2007-01-14 11:37:48 · update #1
its best to make sure you are 100% right before you do anything ...just find out more information .....otherwise you might lose your friends ....good luck....
2007-01-14 11:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before you can tell your friend that he boyfriend is cheating on her, you should get all the facts and make sure that they are correct. Giving misguided information can get you in trouble. Once you know all the facts sit down with your friend and tell her what you know and how you found out and tell that if she wants to , she can do some of her own detective work. He won't know what hit him. It will however be her decision to leave him or make it work, since they are dating. You can however be there for her and let her know you will be there if she should need you. whne she decides to confront him if she needs a witness you could make the suggestion for you go with her for the support.
2007-01-14 19:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out for sure before you jump the guns.and if you do find out for sure then then definitely tell her.she might be upset at first when you tell her or she may not believe you or something .(some people are like that)but explain to her its the truth and you will be with her threw all the hard times cause your a friend and to not let some piece of crap guy upset her so much because he is not worth it and she could find much better.if he is cheating on her,tell her.don't let that guy hurt her feelings any longer.that's what friends do.they watch each others back.best of luck to you and your friend too.
2007-01-14 19:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by pippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to find out if it is true before you do anything cause you have to remember one thing. Whatever you do or say could end your friendship with your friend.
I know you are trying to be a good friend but sometimes minding your own business is the best thing.
2007-01-14 19:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your freind. Maybe she has had slight suspision and ignored it. Or, try an get some solid proof. Ask around, see if anyone else knows anything.
2007-01-14 19:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by *KK* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys? u mean she's dating more than 1? talk about a player, well first find proof then tell her k?
2007-01-14 19:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay out of it becasue what if your wrong you could ruin everything, i think you need to stay away from it be a friend and find out what is going on before you know alright
2007-01-14 19:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jaylynn's mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you dont tell her because you dont know!! leave it alone and let her find out if it's true or not.
2007-01-14 19:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by Savannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get prove then tell her
if she is a true friend she will belive u
2007-01-14 19:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by ryshekia_1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you have proof!!
She'll probably claim that you're jealous.
2007-01-14 19:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋