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I usually go out with friends, but I'm thinking about going out alone to see who I will meet.

2007-01-14 11:35:03 · 20 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think in this day and age you can pretty much go anywhere by yourself. It shows that you are comfortable and secure if you can go out alone and not feel weird. Sometimes when you go out with a group of friends they create a sort of barrier for someone who otherwise might approach you if you're on your own. I have friends like that. We have such a good time together we forget about other people around us. I mean that's great but it does sometimes hamper social interaction. For me it's worse when i'm with them because I'm the oldest in the group so guys will check them out first so if I'm out alone I might have more of an opportunity to get a guy to notice me.

2007-01-14 11:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by jesshispet 3 · 0 0

I don't think it's weird to go out alone, but don't underestimate the dangers of being alone even in a familiar place. Weird things happen....just make sure someone knows where you are and that you use extreme caution with anyone you meet!

2007-01-14 19:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by isabelle archer 2 · 1 0

I go out alone all the time. It is a little awkward at first but will build your self confidence which will attract people. I started doing this years ago to specifically build my self confidence. When you can take yourself out for dinner and drinks with out feeling uncomfortable then you can tackle anything!!

Just make sure if you are in a larger city that you stay around other people and be very careful.

2007-01-14 19:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 2 0

no, nothing wrong with going out by yourself. A neighborhood bar is a great place to go alone...


Have fun!!

2007-01-14 19:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0 0

it's the best thing!! when i moved to a different state i used to go out by myself and, because i'm a bit shy, i'd have a shot of tequila and soon i'd be talking to everyone that seemed nice! i made good friends at the bars and even though i have moved back to brazil, we still keep in touch. i say go ahead and you're sure to have lots of fun!

2007-01-14 19:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I go alone all the time. Of course I'm a guy, which is a little different than your situation.

2007-01-14 19:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There's nothing wrong with it, just be careful like don't drink too much and make sure no scumbag has a chance to slip you some date rape drug. Don't do a Natalie Holloway and get into a car with 3 jerks you don't know.

2007-01-14 19:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by cartiphilus 4 · 0 0

Well, depends on the neighborhood, the bar . . . and who you meet. In other words, use your head, stay sober and you'll likely be fine! Have a nice evening.

2007-01-14 19:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by worldinspector 5 · 1 0

Plenty of people go to bars alone, it's nothing weird.

2007-01-14 19:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by BrownSugar811 2 · 1 0

sometimes its better to go alone than with friends to go meet new people

2007-01-14 19:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Latin H 1 · 0 0

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