HELP boy problems?

Question

So since the first day of school ive had this MAJOR crush on this kid named steve, at the last dance every time i looked at him it seemed that we was looking at me but i wrote a note to him saying that his friends told me that he liked me and it wouldnt be a bad thing if they were tellin the truth (Evean tho they did not really say this) he wrote back that he doesnt. I would talk to him but he is kind of shy and i dont no him that well. WHat should i do

Answer 1

First, it was really smart that you wrote that note...he's probably saying no cuz he's so shy and doesn't want u to know he likes you.

You should just be casual around him, maybe talk to him some. If he's shy, chances are he has a crush on you too...espcially if he seemed nervous when saying "no"

If he doesn't like you, he's not the one. And probably not good enough for you anyway. There are so many more awesome guys in the world.

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Answer 2

well, this would take a while but it should work out pretty nicely.

First be firends with him simply by talking about things both of you can relate to.

Then as time goes on, more casual conversations may lead to deeper understanding and relationship between the two of you (at that point it would be more than just friends)

This is a gradual process but it's less likely that your hopes are crushed.

Hope this helps

Answer 3

Well if he told you that he did there's a 50% chance that he wasn't lying. But there's still that other 50% chance that he does indeed like you. So my advice to you is too keep playing the field and talk it him a little bit and get to know him. But it's not always good too get to know a person too well or it might be awkward to try and date him if you two end up being good friends.
So talk to him a little more and see where you think he see's you.

Answer 4

hang out with him, as friends, show no signs of a crush, not yet; not until you get to know him. So be assertive to make him a friend, let it play out for a while; and then, before 'you're just a friend' comes around, tell him how you feel and see where that takes you. Of course if during the friendship, he shows signs of interest, take the opportunity. Git 'r Done.

Answer 5

Trial and error.

Become friends with him...then try again. Why give up? But keep your options open, don't focus all of your energy on him. Keep it cool and be friends. The best relationships happen that way: first they're just friends, then they have a relationship.

Don't bring it up too soon. If he's shy, you'll scare him off.

Get to know him.

Hope that helped.

Answer 6

It sounds to me like he is intimidated by you. Most boys run a mile if you chase them. If you want him to like you, don't make a fuss in front of other people, don't show off, don't tell him lies. When you see him just say Hi, smile and continue on your way. Try to show him that you are not going to embarass him so that he may begin to trust you and let him make the next move. Good luck.

Answer 7

OMG I HAVE ALMOST THE SAME PROBLEM!! anyways lol well i didn't write him a note but yea you should just try talking to him or smiling at him if you meet eye contact.....i could say a lot more but i don't want this to be long soo e-mail if you wanna talk more or have more questions!

Answer 8

If i were u i would march up to him and say look steve i really like u and im not afraid to show it so if u wanna go oout w/ me its now or never!

Answer 9

Just smile and say hello, and begin to talk to him about little things, until the time is right then ask him.

Answer 10

write him another note that tells him a lil about you and tell him you want to get to know him, be a friend first dont move too fast alright