If not, what is? Please state your opinion! =)
2007-01-14 11:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, some people say it's peace, honesty, but is love really the best part?
2007-01-14 11:47:04 · update #1
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Define Love...
Think about it for a moment. If there is no true, genuine, unconditional love in a relationship can you possibly enjoy any aspect of the relationship?
- Some might say its sex but if there is no love in sex is it really that enjoyable knowing that someone is using you for their own selfish satisfaction to fulfill their animal need?
- Could you possible enjoy time spent together knowing that this person might at any moment walk out on you because they don't love you unconditionally?
- Can you possibly and truly enjoy a relationship and invest resources, time and emotions knowing that this person doesn't love you but has another agenda on mind?
Without love and I mean true, genuine, godly, unconditional love you are left in a state of anxiety, stress, the need to meet expectations, the need to perform, the need to measure up, the need to do something in return for "love".
Conditional love is the cheapest form of love if you can even call it love and it just isn't fair that someone should measure up to your expectations in order to be loved.
Not even sex can be experienced to the fullest unless there is complete unity in mind, emotions, spirit and body. If its just the body that is united you are missing out big time.
Love is by the far the most important.
Love provides, love comforts, love covers all wrong doing, love is honest, love is gentle, love is kind, love is understanding, love does not boast, love is the greatest.
2007-01-14 11:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is one of the parts of a relationship, but is not the extent. Relationships consists on many things like trust , loyalty,honesty,compassion,etc. It is also what you make out of a relationship, and the decision to work things out if something bad happens.
2007-01-14 19:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the best parts are honesty and trust. I could stay in a relationship without love, but I couldn't stay with someone if I couldn't trust him, no matter how much I loved him.
2007-01-14 19:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dippy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,honesty and closeness is the most important things.I don't think you have to love someone just to enjoy their company.If the person is honest to you,and can make you smile,and you have a good time with them,that is the best.If you love them or fall in love with them,that is one hell of a bonus.
2007-01-14 21:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every thing about love is the best thing about love its the time you spend togather just talking its the time you spend just sleeping next to the person you love its making his favorite meals and every thing its every thing love is a emotion and love is also action and reaction its inside and its outside. i cant explain it better than that.
2007-01-14 19:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is definatly #1 but very closely followed by sex lol
2007-01-14 19:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. waking up every morning and realizing you like the person you are with is the best part.
2007-01-14 19:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by taowiccan1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....ya. Love & sex.
I've been married 36 years and for me, it's about being with her and sharing the things we enjoy. Sex is obviously one of them.
2007-01-14 19:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be if it is true love.that only happens maybe once in a lifetime.just have fun and and let your feelings develop without rushing it.good luck
2007-01-14 19:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is pretty kewl...another person caring about you...intimacy...sharing Life...there's a lot of good stuff...
2007-01-14 19:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋