Singles & Dating - 12 January 2007

im 18 years old and have beeen having sex since i was 16. i've only ever been with one person.i was expectin my first time to be painfull but its now been two years. everytime i have sex it really hurts for a good while especially when my partners penus is first going in and it ruins it for him cos i keep tellin him to go slow and stop and sometimes even cry. after a while the pain eases but still to this day a get no pleasure what so ever from it. im still really tight and im afraid im not 'broke in' right. could this be the case? my friends say that you know when your broke in cos you feel like a 'pop' or somethin and you bleed. so far ive felt no pop and havnt bled and ive been having sex quiet often and my partner has tried his very best to brake me in, and he fits all the way into me so whats wong?

2007-01-12 14:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Broke up with ex in the beginning of september. We have both had a new relationship since then. I am out of mine and she is stll in hers. We ended up going out to dinner last week and we ended up sleeping together again. She said it was a one time thing and that it can't happen again. The whole time she was over she was hanging all over me like when we were together then she just shut off those feelings the next day. I really don't know if it is a wise idea to hang out anymore. If it has happened once I don't really think it won't happen again. She also wasn't telling her boyfriend we were hanging out. She finally told him we went to dinner this week, but nothing else. Should I just stay away. I actaully still have feelings for her and she knows this. I don't honestly know what to do. Any advice would be great.

2007-01-12 14:52:34 · 3 answers · asked by john 2

Anyway's when I try to talk to him about our problem, he always gets so mad at me, says its not my problem that I stay so excited 24/7 that its his problem because he stays so tired. But me I think its me, that I am not good enough for him in bed or something, is it too soon to be in a relationship with him, he was in a serious relationship 2 years ago and his girlfriend died in the car accident, is it that he's still not over her, cause he asked to go visit her grave, what should I say to that, what should I do, I really don't think he likes having sex with me, is it me?

2007-01-12 14:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by babygirlshafer251 1

I really wanna make him fall in love with me. Can you offer me words I can tell him that will work . How should I act if he was my first and slept with me on the first night. Should I act frustrated, pretend nothing happened or how? from psychological prospective what strategy would work????

2007-01-12 14:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Megan C 1

okay so me and this guy are talking.. we've been together throughtout the last 3 weeeks and we like eachother we hold hands and all that stuff... but recently i told him i don't want a boyfriend.. do you think hes upset that i told him this? i told him the reasons why he seeemed fine with it but he still brings it up why i don't want a boyfriend...ehh i don't know..what do you think?

2007-01-12 14:52:12 · 6 answers · asked by simplexdisaztr 2

15 IS THE AGE FOR ILLEAGL SEX, BUT IF YOUR 16 OR ABOVE IT's LEGAL. SO HERES MY STORY: My friend he's 30, and he's my boyfriend, we've been dating for about 4 months. I don't know how they put him in jail that night they have to set a hearing, but I know he didn't do it, positivethe problem is, I have a friend whos friend is also 16 and she got pissed off at her boyfriend so she told him she was ******* around with the one guy which was my friend, he got jealous and told his friends who told her mother, who told the cops, this is the second night in jail, I just found out today when I got no call from him yesterday because he always calls me I knew something was wrong. His bond is 50,000 dollars straight up, If she is 16 then could he get in alot of trouble? I'm 16, and I'm his girlfriend, and I know it's not true that they were messing around because whenever he's not working he's with me, when he gets his schedule he tells me so I know he's not lying. I'm young but I really do likehim

2007-01-12 14:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 14:49:46 · 24 answers · asked by Sarbear 1

2007-01-12 14:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Jubilee 2

I like my best friend's guy friend they are just friends that don't like each other that way.........but she is like best friends with him too and she is going to ask him a bunch of questions to see if he likes me too should I let her do it

2007-01-12 14:49:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

See i was dancin n then i felt a ***. It felt good so i start booty dancing to it and when i turned aroung it was him. Now everyone make fun of me. :( what can i do

2007-01-12 14:48:33 · 11 answers · asked by LIza L 1

i'm 13 n i dont think i can ever be mature. like where do adults learn things like certain names of alcoholic drinks, how to have sex, how to be responsible, etc? is there some sorta adulta book that teaches them how to do adult mature things? plz xplain.

2007-01-12 14:47:18 · 8 answers · asked by revengeofthemisfit 2

First they show interest in u and later on they won't even talk? Why is that? Why are they so stuck up? They are not even that cute.

2007-01-12 14:45:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend told me about a site called chaching.com but I can't find it and it has pics of ppl with advertisements of parties and stuff.

2007-01-12 14:44:23 · 1 answers · asked by Diva L 1

I want to kiss my boyfriend but im scared..what do i do??

2007-01-12 14:43:17 · 17 answers · asked by K-Rad 2

So what are some logical reasons why guys are sometimes so nervous when it comes to talking to girls? I am a year younger that this guy and he has told me that he gets nervous when he is around me. So why do guys get nervous?

2007-01-12 14:43:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I the only one seeing this? Where is the lady who is confident and optimistic and could be comfortable at a formal Embassy function or military ball? A lady who has the engaging mind of a writer, a love of romance and a passion for GOOD music and the arts and the sea- and does not judge others by their race, religion, age, politics, location or education but instead looks within? A lady who knows the intrinsic value of laughter and thinks that fitness is something that like friendship requires real attention and so they do not smoke, drink, take drugs or bar hop. There must be one lady like this in the world...or am I just dreaming?

2007-01-12 14:42:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says it's bcuz he got outta shape, we have it too much, and the "thrill of the chase" is gone.

should i just pretend like i dont want s3x anymore? soo he could want it more??
i dunno im confused lol

2007-01-12 14:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4

I've been noticing my b.f likes to mouth feed me a little bit too often when we go out to eat. Why the heck do guys do that though?

2007-01-12 14:41:51 · 3 answers · asked by Diana 3

I am 25 years old and have been single my whole life. Guys are never interested in me other than as friends. I don't mean to sound egotistical, but I really don't get why SOMEone wouldn't be interested. People always tell me I look like Angelina Jolie. I'm fit, I'm intelligent, I'm wordly, I'm opinionated. I study esoterica. I play in a rock band. I have a job.

I have tried asking friends to set me up - this has NEVER worked. I've never found ANYone compatible via online dating systems. (One actually told me based on my preferences, it had no matches. I actually got a refund.) I tried Craigslist and that was a dead end as well. Whenever I am with a new group of friends who are single, I am always the one who ends up still single in a few months. I get along with people very easily and no one seems to understand how it's possible that I'm single, let alone never had a boyfriend. Every time I ask a guy out/make any move, I get turned down flat. What should I do?

2007-01-12 14:41:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

In brief but rich descriptions, can you tell me how you met the love of your life and if married, how they proposed? No reason for the question, it's just that I'm a college student, single but hopeful, and love to hear these stories-they're so cute :)

2007-01-12 14:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by abby j 5

2007-01-12 14:40:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone had an off & on relationship that lasted over several years. How did it work out in the long run? How do you know if it is right or if you should let it go?

Thanks in advance!

2007-01-12 14:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 14:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by xdaveyxmetalx 1

Why is it that I had a wonderful date with a girl and I havent heard from her in almost 3 weeks?
I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also b. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".

We were supposed to go out again and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a few weeks now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.

I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?

2007-01-12 14:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by heymanchase 1

looking for the height difference...me its 5 foot one and 5 foot 9 or 10..is that bad?

2007-01-12 14:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1

Would you ever consider taking off your pantyhose, stretching them over a guy's face and rubbing your crotch up and down it?

I saw it in a movie. Does that sound hot at all?

2007-01-12 14:35:27 · 13 answers · asked by heymanchase 1

we just became engaged 4 mons ago.about 2 weeks after tom asked me to help pay off his debt.this dept is not from a medical emergency but from guilt.he cheated and left his wife and child for a old gf(not me)and when he did he gave his wife everything(bank accounts,stocks,car,house,ect)which along with a huge child support payment left him in debt.i know this sounds mean but i have worked hard for what i have and feel i should not have to pay for his "mistakes".i know he thinks i'm selfish for not helping him but i feel he made these decisions that put him in debt.plus after 6yrs he still feels guilty for what he did(rightfully so) and his exwife uses that guilt to get what she wants.so if i pay off his debt i feel that will just free up more extra money he can give her.he already pays her child support/health/daycare cost.

2007-01-12 14:35:02 · 29 answers · asked by gigi2winters7 1

Been going out with this girl for nine months. first two months we had some disagreements but the sex was great... never had it like that before; I could say I finally lost my virginity with this girl. But for the ast three months she has been depressed...and tried to kill herself twice. She claims to love me but needs time and needs to be alone... I cant live without her and dont know whats going on... may be I should leave....

2007-01-12 14:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Don Mario D 2

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2007-01-12 14:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by cool_dude 2

2007-01-12 14:29:50 · 37 answers · asked by corryminder 2