I really wanna make him fall in love with me. Can you offer me words I can tell him that will work . How should I act if he was my first and slept with me on the first night. Should I act frustrated, pretend nothing happened or how? from psychological prospective what strategy would work????
2007-01-12 14:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now you want a strategy? Your strategy options were blown the night you slept with him. Learn and grow, do not sleep with anyone right away, its foolish and dangerous and love had nothing to do with it.
2007-01-12 14:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just feel what you feel. You should act the way you need to act. However, you don't have to worry about how to act around him because you're not going to hear from him.
And you would be a fool to contact him yourself.
You made a big mistake. Don't make any more. I just hope you used protection.
You can't make someone fall in love with you, and why would you want to? You deserve better. Don't lower yourself.
2007-01-12 22:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you cannot make someone love you. and if u slept with him on the first night and he hasn't called yet there are 2 possibilities. 1 all he wanted was sex. or 2 he is scared. try calling him and asking what is up and if u don't like the answer move on.
2007-01-12 22:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jablomei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have slept with him on the first date, you know the saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? well consider it a lesson learned. Look for a nice guy who doesnt want sex on date one. You should respect yourself more then that.
2007-01-12 22:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how do you know you want someone to fall in love with you after 1 date? Second, he used you for sex and that is it. Move on with your life, meet someone else, and don't have sex with them on the first date.
2007-01-12 22:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't ACT anything. That won't bring you any closer to him, it'll just create invisible traps for later on. Be YOURSELF, tell him exactly how you feel and don't make anything up, and you're setting yourself up for the best possible situation.
2007-01-12 22:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it was not a one night stand and otherwise all you can do is wait until he shows up or call. Anything could be wrong just wait cause he gonna call or show.
2007-01-12 22:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No strategy will work. He has no respect for you because you did the dirty deed with speed. There is no hope for making him fall in love with you.
2007-01-12 22:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you really wanna make him fall in love with you? he just used you, sweetie. you let your guard down and he took advantage of that. if he really was into you, he would have called you after four days.
2007-01-12 22:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nut shell he used you and you must learn from this and move on.Remember your body is a precious gift,don't give it away to just anyone.
2007-01-12 22:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by april d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋