I want to kiss my boyfriend but im scared..what do i do??
2007-01-12 14:43:17 · 17 answers · asked by K-Rad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal to be nervous, some women think men should make the first move, but if he is taking so long then maybe you should make that step. Anyways, I think you should just lean in slowly and if he moves back then you know he is not ready, but if he doesn't lean back then just kiss him lightly on the lips and see what he does.
I am going to tell you a story of my first kiss in my relationship. I was just like you, I wanted to kiss my girl friend but I didn't know how to go about it or when to do it. At the time I had been dating her for quite some time so my friend said I should make that move on her. So when my friend/ her friends boy friend, her friend, my girl friend and I went up to a cottage we stayed the night for a couple of days. One night when my friend and his girl friend were sitting on one couch and my gf and her were sitting on the other were watching a movie just being with each other hold each other close. Anyways, my friend and his girl friend went to bed and my gf and I were still on the couch, eventually we thought it was getting late and should go to bed so she got up and I got up, as we said good night I leaned in to kiss her on the cheek but we ended up kissing on the lips instead, I couldn't believe but was happy about the whole thing.
My point is you may be nervous but I say you should just do it and wait for the right moment, if you think it is the right moment or just feel like it, go for it! Good luck.
2007-01-12 14:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. I know what's going on in his head. You're nervous? He's probably more nervous! He's worrying about whether you want to kiss him or not. That's one thing you don't have to worry about. He definitely wants to kiss you! I know this because he's a guy and so am I. Hell, I'd kiss you and I don't even know you. Just do it.
2007-01-12 22:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. That was me yesterday. After school. I know exactly how you feel..but it's worth it!! He's your boyfriend, he won't make fun of you if he's a good one and to a guy (I've learned) every kiss is a good one...
TRUST ME...as long as they get it, they'll be happy. my boyfriend was really happy yesterday. he even told me he couldn't stop smiling afterward when he started walking home. so yeah, just do it. It seems hard, but it'll come to you naturally. =) Just hold his cheeks in your hands and kiss him and smile afterward...
and he'll loovee you foooreeevverrrr haha.
2007-01-12 22:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, be gentle and he'll return the kiss if he loves you. You are showing him your committment, don't worry about sending the wrong message--your kiss won't do that. Good luck.
2007-01-12 22:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him. Softly and quickly at first. Then watch for his reaction. If he likes it then kiss him some more and hope he kisses you back.
2007-01-12 22:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav the same problem i want to kiss my bf but i dont know if i should but on tuesday im going to do it who cares if he get mad or not if he luv u 4real then he wont care u should kiss him i am cuz now i no im not the only one wit dis problem
2007-01-12 22:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by honey chavez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him. I bet he is thinking about the same thing.
2007-01-12 22:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by winterstorm23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in love and war. Here's the deal:
Get off his turf (his house, parents hosue, whatever), and get him to your house, or a place comfortable for you. That means you are in charge. He'll do it (no guy wouldn't) and you'll feel safer and more comfortable.
Enjoy!
2007-01-12 22:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by funtasticfool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you take him out on a date then start a conversation and when you take him home or something say bye i love you and then KISS HIM!!
2007-01-12 22:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay
hes your bf right, just wait untill you fell confterblue then kiss him cuse hes yours
2007-01-12 22:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋