Why is it that I had a wonderful date with a girl and I havent heard from her in almost 3 weeks?
I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also b. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".
We were supposed to go out again and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a few weeks now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.
I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?
2007-01-12 14:37:31 · 18 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is probably not you. She may be sick or out of town. If she has moved on don't worry. There are probably lots of girls that would love to go out with you. Since you have tried to contact her with no response, don't call again. You will hear from her if she is int rested. If not, move on. She is not for you. Keep your pride and don't chase her.
2007-01-12 14:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a possibility that she is not ready for commitment, possibly she is scared to get close to you due to the fact that maybe she just had a broke up or hasn't gotten over from the last breakup. Another possibility she has a boyfriend that she didn't tell you about it. I had a friend and she did that, she would go on dates but was with another man, she just liked the attention of other men but she was committed to her boyfriend.
2007-01-12 14:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not all girls that are insincere. If anything, she's fears that it will turn into something and she's afraid of the commitment that it will take. Give her some space and if she doesn't ever respond, let it go. She probably wasn't good enough for you anyways.
2007-01-12 14:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
apparently something that occurred during that time - you may have misread a signal - she could be saying "NEXT!"
beet red a lot - did you embarass her?
on the other hand - she may be tied up with her new house
and problems in closing - don't push too hard - but stay in touch!
How did you set the date? through mutual friend? ask them?
is she ok - does she talk about me? Did she have fun?
best of luck!
2007-01-12 14:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time to move on. If she hasnt called you back she has move on. Maybe she never liked you. May be it was a pitty like or a dare. Or she like you a lot but got back with an ex. Who knows but let go and find a new lady.
2007-01-12 14:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She went home and was probably hit by reality. She was probably scared that you might be good for her. But there are people out there that don't want to settle down, they just to play the field all their lives.
2007-01-12 14:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is waiting for you to call her.
i know that i'm the kind of girl that hates calling other ppl but rather wait for them to call me.
wait a couple more days then maybe call her and ask how she is and if she would like to go out again.
2007-01-12 14:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are just flakey, they lose interest at the drop of a hat.i forget the site , its for David Deangelo & he sells programs for understanding women better. is it any good ... i dont know but it might be worth checking out.
2007-01-12 14:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by dracula d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something probably happened in her life, ex bf maybe came back
2007-01-12 14:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she problly going out with another guy seen it on tv so thts why she hasnt returned ur call s so good luck
2007-01-12 14:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by montanna l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋