im 18 years old and have beeen having sex since i was 16. i've only ever been with one person.i was expectin my first time to be painfull but its now been two years. everytime i have sex it really hurts for a good while especially when my partners penus is first going in and it ruins it for him cos i keep tellin him to go slow and stop and sometimes even cry. after a while the pain eases but still to this day a get no pleasure what so ever from it. im still really tight and im afraid im not 'broke in' right. could this be the case? my friends say that you know when your broke in cos you feel like a 'pop' or somethin and you bleed. so far ive felt no pop and havnt bled and ive been having sex quiet often and my partner has tried his very best to brake me in, and he fits all the way into me so whats wong?
2007-01-12 14:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not everyone bleeds enough to be noticed. Nothing "pops" there is a tissue that simply tears. Our bodies expand to fit anypartner we are unique that way. You must not be fully lubricated or "wet " when your partner enters. It may be because you are nervous. If this is the case you may be doing it for the wrong reasons and should consider your feelings first . Your time will come when it is the right time, the right guy the right feeling and you will be realxed which will help you with lubrication. In the mean time try a gel if you want to continue having sex . Be careful some women are allergic and it may itch if you are.If you are not dry it will not hurt and it will feel alot better for the guy too.
2007-01-12 15:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by SopranoCeciS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing a doctor is a good idea because it could be something serious. However it could be something simple like you are just not warmed up enough. Maybe you are just not wet enough when you first start try doing more foreplay and maybe something like ky gelly. I've been having sex for the last 11 years and sometimes I have the same problem when I'm just not wet enough. Try that first before you go to a doctor.
2007-01-12 15:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. You should definatly see a doctor and I would stop having sex until you do see a doctor. It could be serious and you don't want to hurt yourself anymore. Make a appointment with an OB/GYN.
2007-01-12 15:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by winterstorm23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no pop or breaking in,are you having pleanty of foreplay you may not be wet enough.or because you know its going to hurt you tighten up and this can make it painfull for you.talk to your dr thats what thier there for dont be shy.sex is a wonderfull thing for a couple to share and it should be good for the both of you
2007-01-12 15:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question...you get no pleasure at all from it and you are nervous and afraid...it is all about being ready....if you are asking questions about beign "broken in right" and your hymen being broken then the real question is...are you ready to be doing this in the first place?
2007-01-12 15:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by hujytuijk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him to go to a doctor with you.
2007-01-12 15:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try more lubrication while having sex and see if that helps.
2007-01-12 15:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know try visting the docter GOOD LUCK WITH THE SEX PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 14:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Aaliiiiiiiyyyyaaaaahhhhhh :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.......maybe you should go to a doctor. It sounds serious.
2007-01-12 14:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps that ache in your jaw is due to the fact that you dont ever shut up
seriously what is it with you people
call me
2007-01-12 15:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋