Singles & Dating - 8 January 2007

2007-01-08 05:46:15 · 45 answers · asked by elrod_dominique 1

okay so im a virgin but i've had three opportunities to lose it.for some reason when we are about to get sexual i can't seem to do anything right,either i can't find the right position or i just can't get it in...two of these girls were virgins so i jus let it slide thinking they were too tight and that's why i couldn,t get in but the other girl positioned it and was experienced so why wouldn,t it go in then?now i have a new gf and she wants to "do it" on valentines day but im scared because not only do i not have any experience she is a virgin too and i'm scared of embarrasing myself and driving her away from me because im not experienced enough.i really need some help. like how to get up, get in, and get it on. WHAT SHOULD I DO. any suggestions would help and i'd be eternally grateful

2007-01-08 05:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by IisIam 3

We all know what men are like. If you dress like this, the hot guys AND the not-so-hot guys will both look. So why get mad at what you KNOW is gonna happen?

2007-01-08 05:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean, they will generally go with you if you make it available. but you as the woman will never feel that you are special or were "chosen", and will tend to feel that he is with you because you were convenient at the time. does this make sense or am i being "insecure"?

2007-01-08 05:43:25 · 25 answers · asked by jay dee 1

anyway I have been with my guy for about a year and a half he is 30 and i am 29...and in that time he has two strikes against him..the first incident i can get past..now this second incident I dont if I can forgive or forget..he texted a girl that he used to mess with and told her he wants to sleep with her..I spoke with the girl she told me that they have messing around for quite sometime now..and that she saw him the week of christmas..he slept with her..on saturday i asked him about the girl..he told me that nothing happen they are just friends..she has a crush on him.he told her to leave him alone...I know that part of what he says is not true..simply because i went through his vm and teaxt messages..I know that I need space from him..I can t stop thinking about hem together..and so on..I love my man so much and would do anything for him..but i just dont want to go through the pain and hurt that i will suffer..i have been hurt before and the pain is to much..why am i holding on.

2007-01-08 05:43:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

been seeing her for ten years, we both say we love each other but she will not leave her husband even though he treats her bad. Should I stay or should I go?

2007-01-08 05:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy at a bar and he pointed to his car out in the parking lot. I thought it was the red 2006 Mustang but when we went out to the parking lot, he actually owned the big ugly white van next to the Mustang. How do I let him down nicely?

2007-01-08 05:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man and I have been going through some problems latley. We've never cheated on each other or anything, but whenever we fight he accuses me of cheating. Thats because he hit me before so i took off on him for the weekend a couple of times, to have drinks with my girls. He hasnt hit me since and I havent taken off on him. Now he says he wants me to act like his wife and not like his girlfriend. What does that mean? I am his girlfriend. We are not married and he has no intention of marrying me yet so why does he say that? He said that someday he might want to get married, but i dont understand.Whats does a girlfriend act like and why doesnt he want me to act like his girlfriend? I dont get it....... HELP!

2007-01-08 05:41:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are college students, and this would help greatly with my time management. But I feel like then I would be stifling him or making him feel crunched for time. Like what if his buddies want to hang out spontaneously on one of our planned dates? I'd like to be supportive and let them hang out, but I'd also miss our planned thing. What should be done? I am really in a time crunch this semester. Thanks!

2007-01-08 05:41:29 · 8 answers · asked by reba 1

I sent this guy i like a text message, but erased my signature and callback number. it said
I notice you a lot and I like what I see. Don't quit doin what your'e doing.

2007-01-08 05:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3

I want to know if hes a virgin but it's and akward question to just ask out of the blue, what should i do??

2007-01-08 05:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...I dont want to lose him so what do I do to get him back?

2007-01-08 05:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 2

I met him at school and just all of a sudden we hung out with each other all the time we never left each others site then one day me and my family go to the races and i called him to see what he was doing he said nothing and i told him were we were and he asked how long we will be there i said till its over then he said can i come hang out with said sure so he came we hung out then it was time to leave and then he asked me out and i said yes and every day we always with each other even after school we would hang out at my house then when he went to leave we always ended making out with each other. As time went by he ended up buying me my class ring which was $240 and he was spending money on me most of the time but not all the time but anyway about a month later he come up to me and said i don't think we should be together any more so i was like fine and cried my eyes out after i left so plz tell me what you think and soory if this a long

2007-01-08 05:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

get back together. Right now we are broke up. I kicked him out of the hsoeu cause a girl he dated while we broke up before started calling him again. He gave her his new number two weeks ago.

Yesterday he came to my house, wanting sex and wanting to move in again told me he loved me etc etc.
I ended up maing him leave again cause he said he and her dont talk that much - when id ont want them talking at all! He knows I would have him if hed drop her and he wont.
So today I was like why did you come to my house telling me you loved me and he said he does love me just wants to be away for a while. I really think it should be over and i was almost over him until he came by yesterday telling me he loves me.
Why is he playing mind games with me and how do i get him to stop?

2007-01-08 05:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to see what it was about? Do any real women go there or is it just a front for adult sites?

2007-01-08 05:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by wayne 4

This girl calls me, right? Well, we will be talking about world problems and then she will go into the sex she had with previous boyfriends. Then she wants me to get a "hard on" and do stuff over the phone. It happened more than once too. Right in the middle of our phone convo she just says she has to go to bed! what is going on?

2007-01-08 05:37:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 05:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She emails me this...

Today is January 8, 2007
Today we cut loose all the baggage of the past and start new,
There is no security there are no guarantees, there is no future in mind,
Today I met you. Although I know things about you, as you know things about me, neither one of us know if the other is someone we truly want to be with,
We are willing to meet anew (with who we are today) and see if we see anything in each other that is worth pursuing.
There is space for introspection who are you, who am I, what do we want out of life individually
There are no rules, just two people meeting again
There are no fights or things to harp on from the past as there is no past, it's a clean start that won't necessarily lead anywhere.
Our communications are fresh,

What is this? What do you make of it and what do I do?

2007-01-08 05:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

and also that she hed no job and was totally financially dependent on him. it makes me think, what the hell was he doing with THAT?, i must be too good for him. is this normal or a form of jealousy?

2007-01-08 05:36:33 · 19 answers · asked by jay dee 1

The guy I like was sitting next to me in church and my stomach was growling really loudly. Do you think he found that completely disgusting? Would you?

2007-01-08 05:36:11 · 22 answers · asked by beth d 2

I go with this guy and i love him him so much...and he knows that..and he tells me he loves me back but how do i know if he is telling me the truth or how do i know he really means it.

2007-01-08 05:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by fnhdjksgfi;u 1

we talking about if something like this happen he said he was pro life. now i have emailed him called him and sent texts no answer as of yet. he has gone back home to the UKWhat do i do? How can i get him to answer me what can i say please help a am freaking out.
i have even sent a text saying simple abort or not what else can i do?

2007-01-08 05:34:21 · 23 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4

2007-01-08 05:34:19 · 6 answers · asked by lizzy 1

2007-01-08 05:34:18 · 28 answers · asked by Tony 1

A BIG BANK ACCOUNT OR A BIG PENIS

2007-01-08 05:34:04 · 16 answers · asked by michael b 5

....unless you're his official girlfriend is that just a strategy to get in your pants or does he really like you?

2007-01-08 05:33:59 · 14 answers · asked by coochie1 2

is it cause you can throw em round more nd feel more masculine??

2007-01-08 05:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my bf havent been out on a date for 6 weeks now(since his daughter was having probs and stayed at his). He sent me one txt saying she was staying and that he could'nt see me. I txt him a few times after that and he didnt stay in touch. I saw him at work and he just says 'hi' now,we dont even have a conversation anymore. I thought things were over until the xmas meal he was flirty and could'nt stop staring at me and said he will see me in the new year,yet again he's silent again. Should i give him time because maybe he's having a hard time or am i being taken for a prat?

2007-01-08 05:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was with my x for five years, her whole family came down to texas with us when we had our kid, her sisters loved us together and were on my side when we broke up. it wasnt a bad break up, we dont hate each other, still good friends. so why now when i see her sisters in public they act like they dont know me? how can i be family for five years, then just because im not with their sister im nobody? whats has changed, cause i know i didnt

2007-01-08 05:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy who i like likes me. We've made out and there is a definate attraction there, the only problem is, he says he doesn't want a relationship. He has made it clear he likes me as more than a friend, but has recently come out of a really heavy and serious 2 year relationship and he says hes not ready for another one. We both suggested a 'bit of fun' and i'd be happy to do that because its better than nothing and i am really sexually attracted to him, plus he is off to uni soon, so a relationship probably wouldnt be worth the hassle, i just dont know if i should go for it. He invited me round to his house and i said maybe. I really want to just have 'a bit of fun' but i dont know if i should. I may get too attacted to him but i want to so much! What do you think i should do? I was just curious as to other people's opinions. thanks. x

2007-01-08 05:32:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous