Singles & Dating - 8 January 2007

My boyfriend, and soon to be fiance is the love of my life. I couldnt have found somebody that fits better than me and him do. He is my best friend, and i feel so blessed each day. But heres the catch. He USED TO smoke. He smoked pot, cigars, cigs. And i have spent my life as being somebody who is completely against all of those activities. He never let it get the best of him though, he thought as long as he keeps up his grades it was ok to do it. And even his family knew but didnt make one effort to stop him. And that to me is just a bunch of lame excuses. Even though hes stopped for me and for good, it still bothers me that when it comes to that topic we dont see eye to eye, since its always been such a big deal to me. And i hate that he still doesnt regret it. How can i get it to stop bothering me..Every time i think about it i get so grossed out..

2007-01-08 04:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

like if we think we're ugly we will see ourselves as that

2007-01-08 04:46:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi my name is lizz and i dont kno what to do but this is the hardest thing i ever had to do was i broke up with my best friend my lover for almost two years because i found him cheating on me it hurts bad all i did was love him and give him what he needed and now look were iam at single lonly and i miss him but i dont want to take him back for what he did!!! and i sucks because everytime iam with a friend iam fine but asone as i step on foot in the door i start crying and going in sain what the hell can i do!!! could you give me some tips on what to do!!! thanx for the help!!!!

2007-01-08 04:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by lizz 1

basically i saw this guy in a wedding yesterday,

hes from the us,

hes staying in a house near me,

2day i went to the house and asked 4 him, but he wasnt there :(

i onlii have 3 more days...and after that i'll never see him again..

do u think i should go 2 the house + ask 4 him again??

I really wanna see him again..he might have been at a different house, but i cant go again cos all the people recognise me..they know my mum well, so should i go with a friend??

please help..i cant stop thinkin bout it..:(

(it was like love at first sight :P)

2007-01-08 04:46:02 · 2 answers · asked by bad to the bone 5

Ok so me and my friends went to a nice strip club by our college like we do every xmas break. I was sitting there and a beautiful dance came up to mea nd we talked for like an hour or so and of course my friends were mad because they say i take all the girls everywhere i go but i just tell them that they come to be which is true. So anyway she gives me her number after a lap dance and wants me to call... i call her and me and my friends went and partied with her and her friends all night and i eneded up hooking up with her that night. She is like starting to like me now that we talk a little. What do I do cause that night was like something you only see in hollywood but it happened to me and iam confused.

2007-01-08 04:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by aaylan58 1

do you think i should get checked? we did it in all the positions. but i never used a condom.... i was a bit drunk at the time. but boy you cant beat sex without a condom. its heaven!!

2007-01-08 04:44:21 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with her, i made her laugh, we did everything together for 2 years... Then she went to college... we had some arguements about pictures we went on a break...From there it was all up and down... On and OFF


her first reason for justification was " i dnt wnna compromise my career" her second was "i dnt wnna be in a relationship"


she even told me i could hook up with other girls (does this mean shes guilty of something?)


despite the fact that when i caught her in a lie she asked me if there was still a chance of US,

despite the fact that we still kissed through out this whole period,

despite the fact that she kept saying i love you (i stoped recently)
(i told her to do the same too cuz it doesnt mean anything)



Ahh... I never met i girl i could be my self around and now i dont even know where i stand... what the hell... saying I love you but then lieing to me about hanging out with another guy when shes back in town... sayingu love me but not wnting to go out

2007-01-08 04:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by zach b 1

she's doing one of these type of things:

Ribbon
Elephant
Dead dog

(yes, that one sucks
but you get the point)

2007-01-08 04:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by cool_flattop 2

2007-01-08 04:41:40 · 25 answers · asked by Nikki B 1

I have been chatting with this guy on and off for about 5 years he seems perfect. We get along great talk on the phone for hours. Is it safe to fall in love over the internet? Has anyone ever met some one online and had it worked out?

2007-01-08 04:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Licha 1

...what would it be and why?

I'd change my breasts. one is much smaller than the other and I would even them out :)

2007-01-08 04:39:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband like takin me by my back & hurts no matter wot he does to make it slip easily it still hurts lot
he has a huge dick
i don't know how to tell him to stop takin me by the back
can someone advice?

2007-01-08 04:38:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it okay to like a guys who is no longer single?

2007-01-08 04:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by girly2012 2

the guy told me he loved me but then goes 2 his ex (my best freand) and she gives him a ******** in the middle of mc donalds

2007-01-08 04:38:13 · 31 answers · asked by Ashley S 1

Can you be in love with two different people at the same time.. Is this ever possible ?

2007-01-08 04:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by MIA 3

2007-01-08 04:37:04 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i have a boyfriend who i've been with since may of last year and i still like him, but there's this other boy who i really like and me and him hooked up..i was gonna break up with my other boyfriend but i've been told to wait (for what i don;t know) but i've thought about it and i don't wanna break up with either one of them. so what i'm really asking is should i keep both or just one?

2007-01-08 04:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by drena 1

Trying to keep this PG....when you are alone...and do something by yourself...some type of pleasure...what do you think of?

2007-01-08 04:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by *~loveyouall~* 1

i like this girl we went out a couple of times like friends shes very shy ! I told her the other day that i liked her and she has a thing for me two so we wanted to go out again, now what do i do coz that was the first time i told her i like her she thought i just wanted friendship but she was doubting her self so do i kiss her take her out somewhere she wont forget it ? what do i doo?do we just talk about things? Please what would you do in this situation ?

2007-01-08 04:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by LeonZe 2

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk? HELP!

2007-01-08 04:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by matthew 1

2007-01-08 04:31:18 · 13 answers · asked by sunseedgirl 1

2007-01-08 04:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my gf have been together for about 5 months now. It was love at first sight. The problem is, all was fine until about month ago when she met this guy at a party. Now she talks to him A LOT, he's ALWAYS calling her and telling her how much he loves her and always trying to break us apart. She swears he's just a friend and I believed her for a while, but now things took a pretty bad turn. Yesterday they went to the movies and afterwards he went back to her place. She says that he tried to do a lot of things (fool around with her) but she stopped him. She also says that she did kiss him once and was kind of "teasing" him and cuddling with him and stuff.

She swears that's all that happened and that she did stop him but I don't know what to believe. She tells me he's just a friend and doesn't want anything with him but acts the opposite. I have talked to her about this but that's no help. Any suggestions on how to approach this better and maybe sort it out?

Thanks in advance!

2007-01-08 04:28:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 04:27:31 · 26 answers · asked by jessica_stay 1

i put my real life picture up on here and this girl was obsessed leaving me comments about how hot i was and i was really cute but i told her to leave me alone because she is very ugly. i took my pic of now and told her to leave em alone but she still sends me email.s AHH what shoed i do

2007-01-08 04:26:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please I mean no harm in mentioning this but don't reply if your aren't in a relationship or have no experience with this similar problem.I have had a shakey relationship with my boyfriend and when he got back from Iraq I surprised him with a get-a-way trip to Las Vegas for New Years'During the trip, we had some disputes and problems and on the night of New Year Eve we had a fight in and he left me in the parade to go back to the hotel room.Well I eventually went back and was devastated that we missed the fireworks and the bliss of that night.I told him that I wanted to break it up because this relationship has reached its peaked and I don't want to enter New year like this.He begged and then his attitude changed toward me when his baby mama called our room.They were laughing chatting and we were having a relationship crisis. We managed to patch things up after Vegas but my daughter told me last night that while I was sleep he went into the den to talk to her secretly.Should I be aware

2007-01-08 04:25:46 · 6 answers · asked by sunny d 1

My boyfriend and I have not been dating very long.... the sex is ok but not earth shaking... how important is it anyway?

2007-01-08 04:24:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and me have been together for about 3years and recently he had to moved about 3hours away from me to be with his mum, we split up for a short time, but now we are back together and are feelings are much stronger then befor, we started plaining him moving back in to my house. But then last week he applied for a plumbing corse which means hehas to stay where he is now. And now he cant moved down here for another year. Im so upset, he tells me he wants me so much but he has to do this forst. please help

xxxx

2007-01-08 04:24:13 · 28 answers · asked by xxpeachsoftxx 2

Suppose both of you are living in a big city where public transportation is available. Just curious.

2007-01-08 04:23:34 · 27 answers · asked by hhfe 2

Ok, so theres this HOT guy that I've known 4evr a friends, and I wanna go out with him. But how do I tell him. I'm in 7th grade and he will b my first. Dont gv me the too young to date thing, i dont want the fuc*n guilt trip.

2007-01-08 04:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by cgirl279 2