Singles & Dating - 8 January 2007

i have found myself to have a better comvo with girls i'm not instrested in i'm not shy or anything i'm a paramedic in the bronx and come across girls all the time. but the good looking ones i don't have anythign in common with. why is that

2007-01-08 06:02:25 · 16 answers · asked by italianemt2 1

She told me That she Liked this guy and when i saw him he was the hottest guy and i couldnt take my eyes off him and now i am madly in love with him but i dont have the guts to tell my friend and she still likes him

2007-01-08 06:01:08 · 11 answers · asked by Hummm... 3

I need help coping.

2007-01-08 06:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by susie 1

Who should be the one the goes for the move...the man or the woman?

2007-01-08 05:59:45 · 14 answers · asked by air1990 1

My bf and I have been living together for a year and my father was paying the rent I am about to be 25 so of course dad had enough and now I have to pay the rent. I have no problem with this I am grown dad is not going to take care of me forever. the thing is I am having trouble getting my bf to pay half. His half is only $250 I think if he lives there he should help. I told him if he wont pay half he needs to move out. He told me that it would be stupid to kick him out because then I would have to pay the whole rent with no help at all. I just feel that he is using me am I right or is he? He lives there all his clothes are there why should I pay more i feel it should be equal.

2007-01-08 05:59:33 · 34 answers · asked by Jen 3

um so there was this boy, and he asked me out but i said no caz i didn't even know who he was, but its been about a month now and I still feel bad for saying "no" I feel SO guilty..I see him every weekend caz he comes into my work and i can't forget about it...

2007-01-08 05:59:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

talkin to a girl is not easy but anyways there is this girl named haley she is a sophmore and i am a senior a lot of girls consider me to be really cute and i'm not conceded but i am also really shy and don't no what to say to haley when i see her but i can't stop thinkin about her how do i let her kow i'm into her...and it's not like it's a sexual thing i could wait however long she wants to sorry so long but please HELP ME!!!

2007-01-08 05:58:48 · 3 answers · asked by Jay-C 1

well i do, there a waste of space in our world.

2007-01-08 05:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by STILL2FAR 1

he stays with me, he dosent lif a finger around the house, i do all the house work and work a 25 hour job, he gets upset when i ask him to watch the baby while i go and take care of buissness (pay bills, grocery shopping) he dosent keep the baby when i am at work, then when people ask him why he dosent, he says "well she's the one that sends him to daycare" he is always gone when i am at home then comes home anytime between 2-6am he dosent work . i've asked him if he was sleeping with someone else and he said "no" but he is always getting drunk with this girl and is always then 2 together , i really havent seen any evidence that he would be cheating (yes, ive smelled his dick when he came home,) but i'm still unsure what should i do?

2007-01-08 05:57:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

To make this brief:I met someone on the internet,3yrs older.we were penpals for months and now we like eachother more than that...u know what I mean,so anyway,we are supposed to meet up in summer..we've seen pictures and webcam and stuff,so thats ok.The thing is,he is obsessed with sex and I'm a virgin fo life...ok not really,but till I get married and my parents are very strict people..VERY and am tooo young.he knows all this and has absolutely no problem with it...he is not mad and said he will never pressurize me,but the thing is,he doesnt like his obsession either,but just can't help it and he knows if we are 2gether and I dont wanna get down,he won't be able to control himself and we'll have problems there,so we don't want sth like that to happen,and we dont wanna break up as well.He understands me,I understand him,so what should we do since we are so different? If we turn back to just friends,it won't feel normal...friends can't be sayin "I love u"its not straight! what do we do?

2007-01-08 05:56:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sweety pie 1

Tell me any good or bad experiences you may of had that might sway you one way or the other!

2007-01-08 05:55:45 · 16 answers · asked by sackingsfan 1

when they dont give much off and you cant tell if they like you or not ie mixed signals ie hot and cold. The thing si im confused with him is he being nice or over friendly as hes been telling me stuff i dont necessarily think he tells everyone and if i make a comment hell try and think of something to agree on. Like ill say oh xmas is like any other day and hell be yeah i know or ill say i wish i had a drumset as a kid and hell be like me too. He also tries to cheer me up when im miserable

2007-01-08 05:55:38 · 28 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

2007-01-08 05:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so I THINK I like this guy who is really up himself just because hes quite good looking and girls flock at him all the time and he really really annoys me coz he teases me all the time saying that I absolutely adore him and that it is inevitable because of how absolutely "perfect" he is. The thing is hes really sweet on msn and he tells me personal things all the time...its really confusing...i dont understand...does he like me or not? And also I like his best friend who is also quite good looking but instead of being brash and up himself, he is quite shy but is funny once you get to know him...i really actually dont know what to do and I need help.

Any advice????

2007-01-08 05:54:06 · 8 answers · asked by funky_chick09 2

I want to show this guy I like him, without being the freaky- stalker type. I have his phone number. now where do I go from here? we work at the same place, and are around each other a lot. Soooo...

2007-01-08 05:53:23 · 15 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3

Ladies: Name some attributes/characteristics that make you sexually attracted to a man.

2007-01-08 05:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 05:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by Hakim N 2

play hard to get

2007-01-08 05:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by Sammyo 2

2007-01-08 05:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by sofftychick 2

2007-01-08 05:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by sammy 2

The guy I've been dating said I am closed minded and strange for the following reasons:

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 because I wanted to be in a serious relationship first.

I have never tried drugs and don't want to.

I want to be in a committed relationship and wouldn't accept him saying that we are both "free."

Does that make me strange and closed minded??? I never said that other people couldn't do those things...

2007-01-08 05:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-01-08 05:51:06 · 18 answers · asked by Hakim N 2

I have this friend, and she never stops complaining about her boyfriends. She complains about every boyfriend she has. I even see girls asking questions on here all the time, about their boyfriends. OMG it annoys me, because I think all these women do is complain as if they like it!!!! I know men are idiots sometimes, but there not all dumb and I think most guys do try with relationships but some girls don't know when to shut up and it ruins the whole thing!

With my boyfriend we make sure everything is 50/50 and we try to make everything equal and we actually discuss our problems, so I usually don't need to ***** to my friends about him. I'm sick of listening to my friends relationship CRAPOLA. URGHHH!

Do any of you know what I mean?

2007-01-08 05:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by Blondie 1

2007-01-08 05:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.
So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

2007-01-08 05:50:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why dont they ever initate convo instead just act a nervous wreck around you

2007-01-08 05:50:25 · 4 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1

Im debating if i should go on a date with my ex its been 3 months since the break up and i havent talked to her in a month or so she called me and asked if i wanted to be her date to a party for her work i want to make a good impression on her but not too much and do you think she still cares and maybe work things out i want her back not sure if this is a chance or not

2007-01-08 05:49:05 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1

We went to this festival with my mum's relative (tourist) and while we were looking @ a stall this guy came & he started showing us things and all that. I thought he was a tour guide of the festival but then he kept chatting to me and he even asked for my number. Altho i have a phone i lied and said i don't have a phone. He wanted to give me his number though but i said no. He followed us to the car park then my lil' bro ran to the car and locked the doors. (We were with my mum and the relative then tho)

THinking about this is making me feel sick and i refused to eat 2day's dinner. i don't want to tell my parents. Whenever we go out i always worry that i might bump into that guy. Pleeease help. How can i get over this??!

P.S I wouldn't have minded if the guy was still young but that guy was OLD!! Like double my age!! (I am 13 and i think he was in his 30's)

2007-01-08 05:48:24 · 22 answers · asked by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3

you know when your hopes are too high, and you know you shouldn't get them too high, but you do it anyway, and then something comes and smashes everything and you feel like an idiot, but then you tell yourself that you shouldn't jump to conclusions too fast, but you can't help but feel that everything is smashed when it might not really be the case, and you still are annoyed and you want to confront the person, but you think it will make things worse, but you're still not sure that this will happen, so you lay in your bed thinking and can't get enough sleep and you feel that your head and chest will explode ? that's how i feel right now. it sucks. worst feeling ever. what should i do now? should i just get it out of my head? it's overwhelming!!!

PS sorry for the running statements. i just needed to get it off my chest :(

2007-01-08 05:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like there are psychos, babies and jerks in both genders. There are relationships where the women expects the man to be psychic but there are also relationships where the man expects the woman to be psychic. There are relationships where the man is inattentive and insensitive but there are relationships where it's the woman. Know what I'm sayin?

2007-01-08 05:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous