Why dont they ever initate convo instead just act a nervous wreck around you
2007-01-08 05:50:25 · 4 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Knees knocking together.
2007-01-08 05:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot help but laugh because it's ironic that most men act big, tough, macho like nothing scares them except one thing. Females. For a lot of men they could swing from a tree by a rope sword fighting not afraid of being hurt, cut, killed or whatever but they meet a girl and their knees go weak and they start bumbling like they were born yesterday and get stupid. Different guys react differently but for the most part if he's acting an idiot around you like a nervous wreck, that should be a sign right there. If he's not a nervous wreck and can actually hold himself around you than believe me when I say he'll let you know he likes you because he's so confident he'll be coming onto you like a freight train. Girls, especially beautiful ones can be very intimidating to guys, guys just don't like to admit it because it bruises their ego which everyone knows can be very fragile, that in itself is a joke if you ask me. I hope this sheds some light on the subject for you
2007-01-08 14:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys give out the same signs as louder guys, we just get there slower. And shy guys are usually more mature and loving. When we do speak, we have thought about what we are saying. We may be more work, but I think we are worth it.
2007-01-08 13:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by hbk13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.
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MORE INCLUDE
Signs that he likes you He blushes and sweats. You intimidate him.
He stares at you. (He can be a stalker, beware)
He does things to deliberately gain your attention.
He stutters when he speaks to you.
His pupils dilate when you are up close and you see them... Beware, pupils dilate when it is dim, mostly.
He waits for you. He looks out for you.
He laughs at your jokes when no one else does.
He teases you because he wants you to remember and notice him.
He listens to you and actually remembers little details.
He notices slight changes in your appearance.
He seems sad when you ignore him.
He seems jealous when you are with another guy. Whoo.
His friends all know you when you don't know them.
He smiles back when you smile at him.
He often stares at you and when you catch him, he does that cute head turn, very fast!
He performs sweet acts for you. He defends and protects you. He tolerates you being mean to him.
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STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you? STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same. STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction. STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek? STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms. STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
2007-01-08 14:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋