he stays with me, he dosent lif a finger around the house, i do all the house work and work a 25 hour job, he gets upset when i ask him to watch the baby while i go and take care of buissness (pay bills, grocery shopping) he dosent keep the baby when i am at work, then when people ask him why he dosent, he says "well she's the one that sends him to daycare" he is always gone when i am at home then comes home anytime between 2-6am he dosent work . i've asked him if he was sleeping with someone else and he said "no" but he is always getting drunk with this girl and is always then 2 together , i really havent seen any evidence that he would be cheating (yes, ive smelled his dick when he came home,) but i'm still unsure what should i do?
2007-01-08 05:57:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do u really need him for other then being a father to the kids? You can still be a father away from home without the everyday stress. You are worth a lot and u do not deserve to be disrespected by anyone especially not a lover. LET HIM GO. HE NEEDS HELP. MAYBE HE IS UNHAPPY WITH HIMSELF. IF HE IS UNHAPPY, HE CANT BE A COMPLETE AND REAL MAN, FATHER OR PROVIDER IF HE DOESN’T TAKE CARE OF HIS ISSUES!!! Does he drink or smoke?
You are his suga mama and u are allowing it....
2007-01-08 06:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up . what kinda of self respecting women would allow such nonsense form a straight out bum, get a back bone and kick his a@@ to the curb. he is a bum by all means and your not helping him by letting him stay with you and living off you . all your money should be for you and the baby. damn he won't even watch the baby, girl let the zero go and get some respect for yourself you deserve so much more and if not for yourself think about the baby . do you want to raise your kid around someone that won't even help raise him . and if you have to degrade yourself by smelling his penis then you are the one that needs help , how nasty.(what you think he won't wash before he comes home)
2007-01-08 06:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I intensely dislike (my mom suggested do not use 'hate') the full toddler mama/toddler daddy component. this is rooted in irresponsibility and chaos even as a baby suffers. stay faraway from the full mess! this is extra effective to haven't any guy in any respect than human being who's continually on the prowl for yet another toddler mama to improve his ego. And sure, it truly is the worst danger of all, that you'll change into one extra 'toddler mama' to characteristic to his chain, it truly is his existence's objective.
2016-12-02 00:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by england 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The end is a little disgusting but has this girl that he drinks with been his friend for a long time? If so you have nothing to worry about. If she's new then knock the b itch out
2007-01-08 06:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by SideStrike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't help out around the home then he's a burden and he's expendable. If you get rid of him it will be one less baby to take care of.
Do yourself a favor and get someone that really cares.
2007-01-08 06:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.
2017-02-16 19:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lucille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation. i would leave him now. because if you dont, it will only get worse. your baby doesnt need a daddy like that. then you should file for child support and make that asshole get a job!!! good luck!!
2007-01-08 06:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by its just me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like somebody that needs to get up and grow up and take care of his responsibles. even if he is not cheating he is somebody that you need to separate your self from he is not doing anything but causing you stress and grief.
2007-01-08 06:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? Dump him to da curb girliefriend. That man aint no good.
2007-01-08 06:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Misty B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A father who isn't home at night with his family is a LOSER, there is no relationship.
2007-01-08 06:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋