I have this friend, and she never stops complaining about her boyfriends. She complains about every boyfriend she has. I even see girls asking questions on here all the time, about their boyfriends. OMG it annoys me, because I think all these women do is complain as if they like it!!!! I know men are idiots sometimes, but there not all dumb and I think most guys do try with relationships but some girls don't know when to shut up and it ruins the whole thing!
With my boyfriend we make sure everything is 50/50 and we try to make everything equal and we actually discuss our problems, so I usually don't need to ***** to my friends about him. I'm sick of listening to my friends relationship CRAPOLA. URGHHH!
Do any of you know what I mean?
2007-01-08 05:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to leave him or stop the bull sh!t
2007-01-08 05:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by faithfullyyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not happy unless they get to complain about something - 'Drama!" Calls attention to them, makes others feel sorry for them since they are sooo mistreated. Yea, there are some really lousy guys out there but there are some really mean girls too!
I've learned to remove negative people from around me. I don't need them dragging down my happiness and my life. Hey, they don't like what they have - get out. Just because they complain all the time doesn't mean you have to listen to it. Let them know you have already heard it once and that was enough for you.
Enjoy a great relationship - communication is critical and it sounds like you two are already doing that.
2007-01-08 14:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that women who always degrade men really don't know what they want in life. It Could be because they are young or it could be that they have been in many relationships that have turned out for the worst. But i also do feel that if they are always bad mouthing men that they are insecure of themselves as well. If they where to find the one man that wont treat them like crap and wont do anything t hurt them they might just not feel that way.
If you are one of these women who degrade a man due to your previous failed relationships you should look elsewhere for a suitable mate. Because there are many men in this world such as myself and many other that would love to find the woman that we can spend the rest of our lives with and give them a reason to not trash talk about a man unless he really needs to be trash talked about.
Women keep your heads up and never give up cause you will find the right man.
2007-01-08 14:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep,know whatcha mean. Complainers- I figure either they've been burned once, twice, too many or don't get enough lovin'- sexual and otherwise- and feel the need to bring everyone else down.
As far as the peeps asking questions/advice...filling in a little backstory is helpful and commonly can only see their side of it- hence seeking a removed,non biased view. So props and some grace for those should be applied.
2007-01-08 14:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do know what you mean. It does make one wonder why some people date (men or women) because they seem to spend a LOT of time complaining about their boy/girlfriend.
Some people just aren't content unless they have something to gripe about, and picking apart someone else helps them feel superior (low self esteem people). What's a shame is their partners often don't know of this constant complaining to others...if they did, they'd probably end it and move on (I sure would)...
2007-01-08 13:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly! and why do men always complain about women? Women are annoying sometimes, and men are clueless a lot of the time, so why can't each sex just suck it up, or become homosexual if you can't deal with it.
2007-01-08 13:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why women complain. Maybe they just haven't found one like yours that listens and is willing to put in that 50%. Looks like you got a good one. Hold on to him. :-)
2007-01-08 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have made an excellent point and I do agree but people could say the say to you - why bi*ch about your friends - just tell them you don't want to hear it or find new friends
2007-01-08 13:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know what you mean. Guys are pretty much the same way too.
2007-01-08 13:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by supercyberfest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my relationship is similar to yours and the mainstay for us is that we respect eachother. i dont think it is your friends fault that they do that. it is a behaviour that is handed down from generation to generation. what were your parents like to eachother? did you learn from them or learn from their bad habits?
2007-01-08 13:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋