We went to this festival with my mum's relative (tourist) and while we were looking @ a stall this guy came & he started showing us things and all that. I thought he was a tour guide of the festival but then he kept chatting to me and he even asked for my number. Altho i have a phone i lied and said i don't have a phone. He wanted to give me his number though but i said no. He followed us to the car park then my lil' bro ran to the car and locked the doors. (We were with my mum and the relative then tho)
THinking about this is making me feel sick and i refused to eat 2day's dinner. i don't want to tell my parents. Whenever we go out i always worry that i might bump into that guy. Pleeease help. How can i get over this??!
P.S I wouldn't have minded if the guy was still young but that guy was OLD!! Like double my age!! (I am 13 and i think he was in his 30's)
2007-01-08 05:48:24 · 22 answers · asked by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should have quit when you told him no. You should have said that you are too young and that should have stopped him. If it is bothering you tell one of your parents. The one that you can confide in. it could be nothing but a pushy guy or it could have been a weirdo. The age 13 is a very sensitive age and you need to confide in someone even if it ends up being a misunderstanding. I was 13 and afraid to confide in someone once .then I confided in the wrong person and it was really a misunderstanding. I know you are afraid to confide in your parents for the same reason it went wrong when I confided in mine.
So feel good about yourself that you did the right thing at the time and nothing happened. Follow your instincts. Be proud of yourself and your brother. And never trust strangers-so much can happen.:) Take care. p.s. it wouldn't hurt to keep a journal.
2007-01-08 06:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of lying, you should have just straight up told the guy you were not interested. You probably (inadvertently) gave him the wrong signals...or he just ready your body language and friendliness wrong. Maybe it was the way you were dressed. Some times if you wear tight revealing clothing guys think you want them to come on to you. Now you're not telling your parents...what's up with that? You're doing all the wrong things. Like you said, you're only 13, you need to tell some responsible adults what's going on so they can help protect you. There's nothing we can do here on Yahoo! Answers...you know? Time to get smart.
2007-01-08 05:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NINA Y -> read the question properly...she didnt give her number!!
To be honest hun, this guy sounds like a pedo so, as unworthy as it might seem TELL your parents...and report him...before he hurts sum1...(if he already hasnt) I doubt you'll see him again, these kinda guys float about...never really same place for too long, but get it off your chest...i can imagine how scared you must have felt....you'll be fine and well done for being on guard and realising it was wrong!!
Never talk to strangers...as you know....
Look after your self...xx
2007-01-08 06:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, as long as he didnt follow, you , know your name, or whereyou live then everything should be ok...
Never give these type of people your information, no matter how pretty or ugly you think they are.
As long as he doesnt know where ou live theres nothing to worry about..... and if he worked at the festival then stay away from there.
Ok take care, i hope i helped.
2007-01-08 05:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something about this person really made you uneasy, I would tell your parents. I would doubt that there is much chance you are going to encounter him again, but you never know. Also, unless you look much older than you actually are, someone that age shouldn't be approaching you. Be safe, go with your gut & tell someone.
2007-01-08 05:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the world. You handled yourself pretty well actually.
personally I don't think you have to lie in the future- but always be very firm and assertive. Never give the dude a reason to think he has a chance.
Go ahead and eat, you'll be fine. It's good you're getting feedback on how to handle this situation in the future, I hope others can offer you more.
2007-01-08 05:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by MeaCulpa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents right now. First of all, you did nothing wrong. He asked for your number and you didn't give him your number. You were very smart and acted very mature in this situation. So, there's no way he can contact you. However, you need to talk to your parents about this, especially because it sounds like you could run into this pervert again. You need to protect yourself and to protect yourself, you need to tell your parents.
2007-01-08 05:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not normal at all. Do not take your poor critter back to that office again. Ask around to find a better vet to help you. The vet should be able to hold a hamster without fear of being bitten. I hope you little hamster gets better!
2016-05-23 11:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is a stalker for young girls,if he gives you more problems then you need to tell your parents and then call the cops,he can not be trusted.
2007-01-08 06:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to tell u r parents- that is not somethin to mess with. I doubt u will run into him again but if u do least u r mom or dad will know and they can help u!
2007-01-08 05:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Boo21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋