why is it that i have more in common with the girls i don't wanna be with but don't with the girls i do wanna

Question

i have found myself to have a better comvo with girls i'm not instrested in i'm not shy or anything i'm a paramedic in the bronx and come across girls all the time. but the good looking ones i don't have anythign in common with. why is that

Answer 1

Relationships are like magnets, opposites attract.

Answer 2

It's the old adage opposites attract. I myself have that same problem. The girls I like don't like me and the Girls that I i don't like like me alot. Also When you like a girl alot of time is spent thingking is this ok to say? Would she be offended by what i feel? Also you don't have anything in common with the good looking ones cause most of the time theres nothing to be in common with unless youre one that everyone thinks is good looking...Most of them have been told they are cute buaetiful ect all the time and has become for many the defining attribute in their lives....So they are all models or anything they do is based around some sort of phisicality....Finally, If you think really hard about these women that you want, you;ll find that it's most of the time an issue of: "You want them cause you can't have them." If they were to let go and treat you like normal you might find them not so attractive anymre...

Answer 3

Maybe the answer is that you feel more relaxed and reveal more of who you really are to ladies you don't feel an immediate attraction to. Even the most outgoing, vivacious person (man or woman) can get a bit flustered and guarded when they are "looking for love."

If you're convinced that this is NOT the case, you may want to change your focus and your priorities on what makes a lady attractive to you. Remember: Looks are temporary, but great conversation and communication are the building blocks for finding the love of your life.

Answer 4

Because opposites attract silly! Keep looking - I'm sure there's a girl out there you have nothing in common with that will get your motor going. Besides, wouldn't you want someone that is a surprise everyday instead of something just like you???

Answer 5

You clearly are too wrapped up in looks. Looks fade, my friend. You yourself have said that you don't have anything in common with the "good looking" girls. You need to realize that it's not all about looks; it's about the ENTIRE PACKAGE which includes values, interests, intelligence (unless you actually want a stupid girl), hobbies, views, etc.

Answer 6

You are obviously very troubled at the fact that you have more in common with girls your not into. To some people that is not very important and then to some having much in common is. Ask yourself what's more important, there's your answer.

Answer 7

I think you know that answer. You have more in common with real women than fake ones. Im not saying all beautiful women are fake or all real women are ugly. Im saying that by you opening yourself up to all women you will see that whats on the outside doesnt matter. Its what is in the inside that does.

Answer 8

Maybe the reason is because when your around girls you not interested in, it's easier to talk about things. Lots of people have trouble with conversation around people they are interested in.

Answer 9

Maybe you arent always looking in the right place...you just have to keep looking for the girl that you are interested in you will eventually find her.

Answer 10

Because sometimes it is easier to make friends then it is to make lovers. The right girl will come along and you will know for sure!!

Answer 11

Perhaps you need to recheck your priorities..

Looks aren't everything..you know...

I rather date someone I have loads in common with then date a handsome face who bores me stiff...