Singles & Dating - 4 January 2007

2007-01-04 17:53:40 · 31 answers · asked by Luke T 1

My boyfriend and I are really serious about our relationship. We enjoy being together, and sometimes we cant control our hormones and we get really intimate...we simulate sex without actual penetration -(manual stimulation). We both decided that we were going to wait to have sex after marriage...because we both believe that true love waits. I just want to know if manual stimulation always leads to ending up having sex? That way i can be more aware and able to prevent any mishaps and to save our virginities.

Thanks.

2007-01-04 17:53:19 · 43 answers · asked by rock_on16 2

first of all... if you give an answer like... "lose weight cow" or something smart @ss like that... i'll report you ;-) i want actual real answers

men... be brutally honest. --- how important are looks when you're looking for someone to date? i've always been chubby... and it's never really bothered me... but does it bother men? i'm not ugly... i'm actually very cute... just fat i guess... lol. i'm not obese or one of those people who can't fit through a door or something.... im just overweight. i'm 21, i have a perfect smile, beautiful eyes, great breasts, i love sports... mostly football... and i actually know and understand the game and can name stats, players, etc... lol. i dress very nice, always in nice clothes, usually heels. i'm not controlling, not clingy, not needy.... i'm just a simple fun loving southern belle! Would you date me?... or is the weight thing a problem?

2007-01-04 17:51:40 · 14 answers · asked by lost soul 1

I haven't seen him in 5 years. He is 23 yrs old and I'm 31. I had plans to take him to a Red Hot Chili Pepers concert that is coming to Nashville, here it comes the infamous "BUT" the jerk of a friend that had the tickets has been very decieptful towards me lately and I had to get rid of him for awhile until he can get his act strait. So now I have to find something importaint that we can do together so that I don't feel like such a jerk. Really can't afford the tickets that are now $120 and up a seat, that we had before. I also don't know where to find the same good looking date that I had lined up for him that I told him about. We've only been togehter twice since he was 10 years old. I took the wrong path for awhile at 16 and he ended up taking the brunt end of it from our father who doesn't even talk to him to this day. So you can see why I feel a litte motivated to make this trip special for him. I need some advice please.

2007-01-04 17:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by Chad F 1

i wud just like to say plzzz help......

2007-01-04 17:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by DIVYA M 1

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2007-01-04 17:48:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you want her to have a life of her own and meet yours from time to time or only under some aspects, or do you want her to share everything to you, to be as one, to trust her not only with your life but with your soul also? I mean the one to share your life to, not one night or one year relations.

2007-01-04 17:48:40 · 2 answers · asked by mjordach 1

2007-01-04 17:48:03 · 2 answers · asked by shankar l 1

my boyfriend is a t.b.i (tramatic brain injury) he got into a car accident, has been in a wheelchair for 3 years now......he said he wants too marry me, we had our share of problems but im so insecure i dont know why, everytime he says something sweet like "i love u" or "i wanna marry you" i get theses doubts that make me not believe him and im always thinking he will cheat on me what should i do break up with him because my biggest fear is he will leave me i love him so very much but the only thing from me believing n e thing he says is that fear,

2007-01-04 17:47:17 · 20 answers · asked by babygirl00087 2

ok the hottest guy in my middle school called me! but theres a twist! ok he sent me this email about these peoples dreams coming true, wishes what ever u call them.and it said bla bla bla...scroll down make a wish and it will come true the number of age minutes u are.and at the very bottom of the email he put the phone will ring right after u do this. so the phone rings (but im not home!) and his number was on the caller id so i knew he called. anyways the next day at school on the way to the buses(i was walking with him)and i asked him if he had called and at first hes like "no"(by the way the whole time he was looking at the ground blushing) so i waited for him to say something then hes like "oh yeah, i called." we were still walking and he looked like he was thinking then hes like "well uh i uh though u called me" i said "no" so then we didnt say anything and then my friend graved me and i went with her. what do u think he called for? please help. iv been trying to figure it out!

2007-01-04 17:47:11 · 7 answers · asked by hannah1 2

one of my friend did that but is it normal, i mean ,you know ,fine to do that.

2007-01-04 17:45:25 · 12 answers · asked by d.mi3 2

2007-01-04 17:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by theascheick 1

Hi everyone, I have dating my b/f 4 months now and we r living together. we started living together the second month we dated.
Ok, he is 30yrs and I'm 31yrs old, and I have never been marriage but he married twice (both short married) and have one child. he divorced about 2yrs ago. When we start dating, he was exciting and talked about "when we get married,.." , so I was kinda rushed him alot cuz i wanted to settle down. and Now he never talked about it anymore. Now he says he's not ready and he want us to take our times and will see. I'm agree with him and it's true that we have living together not that long anyways and need to get to know each other more. But I'm still little afraid about what if he will never consider to marry me later, or not open his heart to me 100%, and get tired of me easy cuz we r living together? And also I need your answers that how to open his heart more and more and accept me as his future wife?How can i do to let him get ready for me?

2007-01-04 17:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23, an African American, whos sexy but is also intellectual.

2007-01-04 17:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by ejfefe 2

What does the phrase mean "My eyes are on heavenly things"?

2007-01-04 17:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1

My fiancee is jealous and insecure about the women friends that i talk to. i have a lot of female friends. I talk to them. don't want to sleep with them. I don't go out unless i am with her. i go to work, church then back home. i don't have time to hang out because i am in fear of being accused of cheating. so all the women i talk to i let them know first and foremost i have a woman and i am in love with her so if you try to get in the way of that, i can no longer be your friend. I am no no weak man. by all means, i am a strong, edcuated, college degreed black man with a career and benefits(lol). what should i do?

2007-01-04 17:36:20 · 17 answers · asked by depblkman 1

2007-01-04 17:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am asking this b/c I am trying to sort out true feeling that I have for my ex. Sometimes I feel like I want to be with him, then I don't, what makes me want to be with him is that he is really good with my son, he is a very nice person and will do anything for me, he has a really good job so he has stability but on the other hand he is very insecure and very sensitive I cannot give him a honest answer w/o him getting bent out of shape about it, I sometimes wonder what his insecurities with me will lead to, maybe posessiveness or something, I care about him and I told wanted to be with but am I just settling? I dont want to look back and regret it any choice that I make. I feel like I will never meet someone with the things he has to offer. This is the first man that I have dated that has had their **** together so my feelings are all over the place. Im almost thirty and winding up alone scares the hell out of me!

2007-01-04 17:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

During Christmas, my girlfriend of almost 3 years, upsettingly told me that she feels that her feelings are different when we are away at school. She explained that when we are back together for a long school break, she has the feelings again, but she feels that lately the long distance has made her feel different than she normally does. Though she knew it would upset me and actually didn't want to say it, she felt that we should take a break, so she can figure out what she wants. She tells me she loves me very much and would want to talk to me every day like we always do, but we would not see each other. I don't want to lose her, but will this break possibly end our relationship?

2007-01-04 17:33:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan 1

my boyfriend hates one of my bestfriends, and i dont know what to do! should i break up with him or let them work it out? the only problem is, she's tried. but he's to stubborn! HELP!!

2007-01-04 17:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok ummm my earlier question heart broken. srry but i was too freakin SHY to say yes b/c i didnt think he liked me and he did!!!! and ummmmm wut i meant was does anyone have any advice on how not to be SHY like that around guys anymore!!!!!!

2007-01-04 17:31:31 · 3 answers · asked by bethanydoodle 2

It is difficult to get her to do it sometimes, then wen we start shes crazy for it and into it, and after she tells me she knew it was gona be amazing and knows she shuld have been eager to do it. how can i get he to feel that way before hand?

2007-01-04 17:31:19 · 9 answers · asked by AV3NG3D 1

i love this boy. but i just cant get over him. we went out on and off last yr. i was the last person that broke up w/ him. the main reason i broke up w/ him was because of his immaturity. a yr passed by, we both dated other ppl. now we are best friends and those feelings are coming bck. he has a gf that he has been dating 4 about 6 months. i told him that i liked him again. he said he likes me 2 but he cant just break up w/ his gf. now i think to myself, if he really wanted to be w/ me, he would BE W/ ME no matter what. but i guess he is w/ his stupid *** cheerleader gf, so he doesnt want to be w/ me. anywayzzzz.. what should i do?

2007-01-04 17:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by Brazilian Chick 1

like if she has the innocent look........roundish face.....wide spaced but big (not too big) eyes......button nose.....cute chin ?

2007-01-04 17:27:04 · 12 answers · asked by gcrowders 1

can the expectations of others ever be satisfied or just passified

2007-01-04 17:26:23 · 4 answers · asked by donny2knives 2

iight, i have a problem in keepin a girl interested in more then a month lol, i recently found out by an ex gf that i have a problem given affection, everything else bout me is perfect. so as i hear affection is number ONE for gurls.. so i ask of u people out there to give me a few pointers on how i can change myself and being lil more touchy and cuddley. especially when i first start talkin to a girl. girls usually wait for the first move and im shy and i cant seem to really KNOW if the gurl WANTS me to go in and cuddle or WANTS me to kiss her...wat kinda signs should i look out for that is COMMON for a gurl to show? and how could i start workin in showing affection?

2007-01-04 17:25:19 · 1 answers · asked by D.G 1

Me and my boyfriend were trying, at least i thought we were, to work on our relationship. When I asked him what he wanted he said he didn't know what he wanted and that he loves me but is not in love with me. So then I tell him to stop calling me and telling me things he doesn't mean, but I did it in a nice way. He says he don't understand why i feel that way. I have to move on with my life. I can't keep wanting something that doesn't want me. So now he's assuming that it has to be another man, which isn't true. He thinks i'm in such a rush to be with somebody else but i don't understand if he doesn't want me whats the issue. We have a child together but a child doesn't make a relationship.

2007-01-04 17:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havn't dated in more than a year!!! I'm a freshmn in highschool and I'm going nutz! I can't choose! But first, about me. I'm charming, got a nice tan, always give good advice, not the best of grades (I try though), I love art, very intellictual and incusitive, and I've never been drunk or high.

Bachelorette #1 - Smart, gets good grades, very sexy, great smile, great hair, great laugh, always looks out for her friends, and overall a nice person to everyone.

Bachelorette #2 - Not as smart, gets C's + D's, very sexy, great smile, great hair, great laugh, and always looks out for her friends, sometimes opinioated and a little ditsy.

Please help me.

2007-01-04 17:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I have liked a lot last year and we do talk on occassion, maybe once every 2 weeks. Everytime I call him he says my name like, "Hi Sue" how are you doing? so I know he has my number programed in his phone. My questions is if he didn't like me why would he keep my number in is address book? Also he does text me sometimes. A person told me if a guy didn't like a girl he wouldn't bother with her. What do you think?

2007-01-04 17:21:40 · 10 answers · asked by Kemma 3

I am a college student with a full time job and no time to date need some advice and some tips on dating.

2007-01-04 17:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by whitley 2