i love this boy. but i just cant get over him. we went out on and off last yr. i was the last person that broke up w/ him. the main reason i broke up w/ him was because of his immaturity. a yr passed by, we both dated other ppl. now we are best friends and those feelings are coming bck. he has a gf that he has been dating 4 about 6 months. i told him that i liked him again. he said he likes me 2 but he cant just break up w/ his gf. now i think to myself, if he really wanted to be w/ me, he would BE W/ ME no matter what. but i guess he is w/ his stupid *** cheerleader gf, so he doesnt want to be w/ me. anywayzzzz.. what should i do?
2007-01-04 17:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by Brazilian Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all being a friend is one thing u should not be trying to break them up. What does that say about your personality? 2nd of all that should show you that he is worth waiting on cause he is being faithful to the girlfriends he has now... All i can say is that you should continue to be his friend but don't pressure him into dumping his current girl. If its ment to be it will be. The best relatioships steam from friendship first.
2007-01-04 17:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him why did you dump him in the first place? It's really not fair to expect him to come running back to you once you told him you like him back. Looks like you're the immature one. He already has a girl-friend and you shouldn't say nasty things bout her just coz she's a cheerleader and she's with him. Grow up please. He's just being nice to you and maybe he really wants to be with her. Accept that and move on, you had you chance and you blew it, no point thinking bout it now. Look for someone else.
2007-01-05 01:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Manic Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i roke up with my boyfriend b/c of 2 things immaturity and his insecurities. But we are best friends to but i don't want nothing to go over board, because i need to focus on my GPA.
You shouln't have told him you have feelings for him when he have a girlfriend, because you know he had feelings for you and he will dump the other girl in a heart beat if she wasn't in love with him.You should've told him how you felt like when he was starting to go with her. Now it's a conflict but just let him go with the girl and if you want him, true love is worth fighting for. Flirt with him a little when she's around and get your man back, just think about it.*Do you want him* he may always be the same boy.
You know that.
2007-01-05 01:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, if he broke it off with the new gf for you, you would probably becomes disinterested in him again for the same reason you left him before. Granted, he may have matured quite a bit in one year, but the ball is in his court right now and he made a decision, regardless of the words he used. respect his decision and move on.
2007-01-05 01:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that always happen when you break up you become good friends sometimes that mean its still somethink there but both of you didny know how to fix the relationship. Just because have a girl friend doesnt mean nothing he said he still like you yall still share feeling so that mean you still have a chance. this time be friends before lovers move slow. Dont worry you will have him back.
2007-01-05 01:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by lucycrip2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just want him because he has someone else.Dont do that.Don't be a selfish person.Now ask yourself Do you really want him or do you just want him because he has a girlfriend now?Let him be happy.You would do that for him if you really cared about him.If there not meant to be together he'll be back for you but for now respect him and his relationship!You broke up with him remember?
2007-01-05 01:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be around you and enjoys knowing you like him, but doesn't want to commit because he has the same thing with the other girl as well. Walk away, you won't be able to get over him if he's there leading you on.
2007-01-05 01:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to leave someone, just because situations change all of a sudden.
just tell him to follow his heart. if he loves u, he'll be with you. why continue with his cheerleader gf, if he's not 100% with her and have feelings for u.
2007-01-05 01:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by arenania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance yourself from him. I doubt he is your "best friend"... he's hurting you. Let him make up his own mind. Yes, if he wanted to be with you he'd be with you. I think you can do better.. this guys is immature, you said it yourself. I know it hurts but honestly you'd be better off without him.
2007-01-05 01:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, he would if he wanted! Maybe on the other hand he is scared that you will break up with him again? and he doesnt want to take that chance again and loose his g/f?
2007-01-05 01:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋