Does intimate touching ALWAYS lead to sex?

Question

My boyfriend and I are really serious about our relationship. We enjoy being together, and sometimes we cant control our hormones and we get really intimate...we simulate sex without actual penetration -(manual stimulation). We both decided that we were going to wait to have sex after marriage...because we both believe that true love waits. I just want to know if manual stimulation always leads to ending up having sex? That way i can be more aware and able to prevent any mishaps and to save our virginities.

Thanks.

Answer 1

YES
If it were me...this week fingers, next week oral...doggy style by the following Tuesday; that's how i was. and once the challenge was passed, I could peer forward into their personality over the backdrop of horizon and i realized i didn't want a relationship with the girl...well I broke up for one reason or the other that I couldn't see through the singular mindset of the initial conquering.
You need to understand men that if we are not utterly sensitive to you rather than simply perplexed by your femininity, and slowly growing more obsessed with touching that essence, then perhaps there is something we need to get out of the way before we can truly even begin to contemplate that other person since they are already in that light.
The view of the future is best seen from this vantage for some guys like me that have gore on their minds more than one even of the self would hope for. this is just the way i am. I hurt a few people before being hurt twice myself before realizing the error of my ways.
relax, ur not a virgin anymore. spiritually where it counts its over.
the only significance of penetration is where a certain piece of meat goes that tends to produce offspring. if you are emboldened rather than scared of the prospects of slowly coming to fat over 9 months then bursting out a responsibility that will have you hemmed up and define your life for the next 18 years then go right ahead and continue this. Think if this is right for you at this stage of your life. More importantly, how good will your partner be to standbye during this time?
Your question should be self directed towards yourself here and with your man, not to the general public because it is intimate and yours and yours alone to do with yourself and your man. Every situation is different and there is no rule about this, but the chances are very good you will. Nothing to fret.
if you are not so sure then keep dating, and indeed! date other people. its your life. enjoy.

Answer 2

This depends primarily on the amount of self control you are able to exercise. Judging by your question it seems you are a capable woman who has already decided to wait. If you find one thing is leading to another then stop before things escalate any further. Manual stimulation does not always lead to sex, it only depends on the people taking part in the act and how far they are willing to go, which is entirely at your discretion.

Answer 3

To be honest it could very well lead to sex. Most of the time the couple does not set out to have sex but it ends up happening... that's how most people's 1st times go. In any case I recommend you go on the pill because getting pregant young rarely works out. It doesn't mean you have to have sex but it's a good precaution (and keeps your cycle regular). Just be careful, if you play with fire you might not get burned right away, but it usually will happen eventually.

To add to it... you're not really chaste if you're stimulating sex. You're just touching each other's sexual parts with other body parts... I mean you're not exactly pure and innocent either, not that that's a bad thing, but sex really is just the next step, not a huge progression (except for pregnancy-wise of course).

Answer 4

You're playing a dangerous game by simulating sex and arousing each other. If you're serious about staying chaste until your wedding night, then why put temptation in front of you? Some will tell you that what you're doing is not bad and that you can stop just in time, but really, it gets harder and harder (excuse the pun) to stop. And it gets easier and easier to push the boundaries. If you really want to protect your virginity, then avoid any sexual contact and always have a chaperone. Sounds old fashioned, right? but if you really care about waiting, then you'd do anything to protect what you have...

Remember that sex is a gift from Jehovah God to married people with the purpose of creating life.

Answer 5

Ok. So you decided not to have premarital sex, good, but listen up. It ain't easy. So consider some stuff.

1. Dont EVER be alone together in a room or house. You think you can resist sex with a whole hecka lotta hormones racin up everywhere?

2. I suppose intimate touching is alright.. if you guys are not alone together in a room. Although I wouldn't do it in public.. So just dont do it at all.

3. RESTRAIN yourselves save that good stuff for after marriage, it will be much better.

Answer 6

No it does not always lead to sex, my wife lets me intimately touch her all the time without any sex.It makes me crazy ,but if both of your libidos(sex drive) is high ,you may end up doing the tango.Its great that you explore all the other possibilities without penetration, its a marvelous idea, an will make both of you better lovers in the future if you stick to your guns now for whatever reason you choose.

Answer 7

well if your letting him touch skin and he's letting you stroke skin then that only means one thing. Have sex cause no need to wait for marrige. The sexual part of a relationship is 90+ percent of the relationship. Which means if you think hes crap in bed you wont look at him the same. If he thinks your crap in bed he'll wind up leaving you for some girl whos a freak in bed. So If you really love eachother that much and are both adults then have sex. But protect yourself. Get on the pill and make him where a condom.

Answer 8

Intimate touching is just that IF that is all you want it to be?Of course you both get sexually stimulated,this is natural.After-all,
you answer your own question in part.This FEELS good to you both and your physical excitement enhances BOTH your desires to ultimately SHARE your selves with one another by sexual intercourse. As long as you BOTH remain COMMITTED to remain as virgins until after you's are married, then you have nothing to stress/worry about.You sound as though you are an intelligent woman,and you and your boyfriend have made a vow, to SAVE yourselves until marriage.Vows or oaths of such with one another should NOT be taken lightly,as you surely know.
The best to you both,and your future marriage.

Answer 9

I think if you're strong and stick to your morals, then lust won't get the best of you. I beleive there's a fine line between "intimate touching" and sex, and it doesn't take much to cross that line. Just always be aware of what you're doing.
Hormones can be a horrible thing to control.

I love the fact that you want to wait till marriage, though.

Answer 10

hmm,i can not say no and i can not say yes, but what i can say when 2 ppl are alone togther the third will be the devil (famous saying from lebanon) so defenetily that will lead you to sex, but what i can say as well it's more individual,if u really like the guy or the girl you are touching i am sure you gonna end up by having a sexual relation..........ok if u need any personal assistant u can email me @ [e-mail],i can answer a lot of question about relations .......