Singles & Dating - 24 December 2006

I had met this young lady in a party and things were beginning to click with each other. We were kissing, touching, etc. We were planning on meeting another time to see if there was a deeper sexual chemistry. She had asked my age...to which it's 40. She then said that I was too old for her. I then asked her age...she said 24.

It baffled me because things were starting to go well until the age was disclosed. I'm not going to be dishonest and lie about my age to get to any woman (younger or older) but to those of you in their 20's, what is it about guys that are 15+ years your age that is a turnoff?

For that matter, another question, would you want to be with an older guy that would treat you nice or find a guy closer to your age that may have more agility sexually but doesn't treat you the way you want to be..

2006-12-24 14:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by ? 7

I need to clear out my mind (or feelings).

I've met this guy through texting (using cellphones) and we already met formally. Uhm... we already dated twice and ever since, he's always been in my mind from the time I wake up 'til I close my eyes (honest!). He already keeps telling me that he really loves me for me. And I think I love him too. Is that possible? We just have known each other for like 3 weeks yet. I know this may sound a little too soon, but we already kissed (and he's my first kiss), and I felt a spark from that kiss actually. I think I'm addicted to him now. He's not good-looking, for sure, but God! He's really caring and understanding, and oh my gosh! I'm in love with his voice especially when we talk on the phone... And his being there for me through ups & downs. He jokes around, but he's serious when he needs to (like when I have problems). He's always willing to listen. He always open his door for me. I just can't stop thinking about him. Do you think I got it bad?

2006-12-24 14:02:08 · 19 answers · asked by Chimchim 2

2006-12-24 14:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by borats helper 1

u no they will try really hard for one girl & i dont no i just want to no from u guys out there y u try so hard to impress us girls?

2006-12-24 14:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by I'm a lier, im ugly 1

2006-12-24 13:59:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating one at the moment.

2006-12-24 13:59:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a full figured diva size 16-18, well educated, hard working, loyal and loving with 1 son. I'm from Chicago and Did I mention I was fine as hell!!!!!!!!

2006-12-24 13:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2

How do you know if you like a guy?

2006-12-24 13:58:14 · 19 answers · asked by $ Ghetto Lady $ 1

2006-12-24 13:54:08 · 14 answers · asked by Rocker Chick 2

My situation is this. I had a recent boyfriend and eventually we broke up. But i don't know if he still have feelings for me. i broke him because i know we are not yet ready and the people around us still don't allow me. And here is a girl with a boyfriend that my EX wants. He keeps on flirting in from of me. I'm so jelous because he keeps on showing me how he wants the girl, and we are classmates and schoolmates. So i see them everyday. What should i do to get rid of this?

2006-12-24 13:52:20 · 5 answers · asked by Mari 1

ok, 10 days ago my bf broke up with me, i actually have been feeling very sad forthe loss of him and also because i feel guilty that it didnt work out, i think i demanded too much and dindt give much myself. anyway today (xmas day in OZ) i sent him an sms wishing him a merry xmas and he replied asking how i wasdoing, i asked him if he wanted to talk on the phone and he called me, we were talking normally but then i started to say that i miss him and that i would tryto make it btter if he came back, that we could negotiate thing so we are both happy, he says he needs to think about it, i asked him to see him so we are going out tomorrow for lunch, i also asked him if he doenst have any feeling for me anymore, he said" i never said that, no". so i dont know, i will go tomorrow definitely but i dont want to create my self great expectations, what do you think?

2006-12-24 13:48:21 · 10 answers · asked by saminita 1

I hated that "man", at least he vanished!

2006-12-24 13:48:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 13:47:59 · 25 answers · asked by Tellie 4

2006-12-24 13:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by astralprojector 4

Whenever I'm around average looking guys, I'm perfectly normal. I know how to talk and make people laugh. But whenever I'm around very good looking guys, I don't know how to talk. So, I just shut up and sit there or maybe just go and disapear from whereever I see attractive looking guys.

I don't know how to stop this fear. I don't want to be with a guy who I feel comfortable because his average looking. Can you guys tell me how to stop this fear?

2006-12-24 13:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi! I'm Jessica's lil' sis'. I'm 16. There are two HOT guys that LOVE me. One, I only get to see once a year. His name is David, but lately all his e-mails say is...um ok.... There is this other guy. His name is Jon, but he is really gross and everybody will hate me and think I'm gross if I go out with him. Both have asked me out, but I just don't know! David is nicer, but Jon I see more and he has given me stuff and flirts all the time. I don't want to pick the wrong guy. I really love David, but I don't know about Jon. David I can easily talk to and Jon, I'm almost scared of what dumb thing I might do around him. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2006-12-24 13:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when a guy says he loves you but then he loves a girl and would die for her but she doesnt feel the same for him.So what am i supposed to think ? ( ive asked this before but not good enough answers)

2006-12-24 13:37:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

At 195 lbs., I have a little tummy, but I am not fat. I don't make much money. I consider myself a gentleman. I open doors for people, I help others, and try very hard to be a decent person. Sometimes, I make errors in judgment, but I want you to know that I care about others and do try.

2006-12-24 13:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by rasckal 3

please help and i know there are tons of ways but how would u do it or should i get to know him more!?

2006-12-24 13:36:01 · 11 answers · asked by gatoroak 1

basically he told me that he thought this person in a movie was beautiful and i told him who i thought was sexy(an actor)and then he went quiet on me for the rest of the day.does this mean anything

2006-12-24 13:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2

2006-12-24 13:34:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Made a dramatci entrance! I did last night to a party. A slinky brown dress and 4in high helled leopard ankle boots, I looked hot! The girl that hates me was glaring, her recent ex was staring and her new bf (the guy I liked) was getting excited LOL. So have you? TELL ME ABOUT IT?!?!

2006-12-24 13:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a party last nihgt and we played "Never Have I ever", where people go around and say something they have never done and if anyone in the circle has done it they lose a point and say "oops". So it started off easy with boys saying "never have I ever worn a bra" and girls saying "never have I ever had a penis" but then it got dirtier with stuff like "never have I ever been fingered", "never have I ever had sex", "never have I ever hooked up" and a bunch of related ones. I'm 16 - is it weird that I was one of the few 16 and 17 year-olds (and I mean FEW) to have never done these?! I felt really, out of it all by the end of the game learning my friends weren't virgins and quite frankly, sexpots...

2006-12-24 13:31:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 13:31:24 · 2 answers · asked by MARCiiA 2

Ok theres Billions and Billions of people all around the world and your telling me that there is only ONE other person destined to be with you??? anyone really believe in that b.s??

2006-12-24 13:29:35 · 20 answers · asked by Goodies 1

I grew enough courage 2 talk w/ her last year like in nov. since i liked her. I talked to her like everyday @ skool, i just loved talking w/ her since it was kinda the only reason i looked forward going to skool for. then i gave her a present which she didnt want cuz she said she didnt deserve a present(still cant understand wat that means)she took it later on n the day and opened it later (necklace).then over x-mas break she hooked up w/ her close friends bro which ruined my life. well i then "gave up" on hooking up w/her so during vacation i was looking 4 a girl but 0 satisfied. well once i got back in skool and talking w/her, the way she smiled and laughed wen i talked w/her made me realize that shes pretty much theonly girl im really into. well i gave her a present not 2 long ago along with a letter saying how i liked her and that she should try new things(like me)she hasnt really said much since so wat should i do? i sent her sum msgs cuz im scared2 call, she hasnt replied since

2006-12-24 13:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by Christian G 2

2006-12-24 13:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is supposed to be the hoiday season but I'm so worried. My fiance is coming to see my family and they despise him because he's Italian-American, and treat him rudely. When he came to dinner for Thanksgiving out of all of my 15 guests who were in my family, no one would speak to him or serve the food...I was so ashamed and stunned. I never knew they would do something like that and I didn't think that marrying an Italian person was a big deal theses days but in my traditional WASP family it's like I'm doing something awful. My whole family keeps calling my fiance slurs DIRECTLY and acting like he's another species, which is weird because my mom and oldest sister listens to people like Madonna and that Stefani chick, watch Sopranosyet they suddenly can't stand Italians. I know it's stupid to think that if a person listens to an artists they like that racial group but I'm grasping at straws. I hope my family will come around but if they don't what should I do?

2006-12-24 13:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by Debby Jane 1

You must pick 5 that you could put up with. Remeber, you love him so much.

1. He is way shorter than you.
2. Has no front teeth.
3. Terrible dresser. Plaid high water pants with stripped shirts.
4. Jelly gut hangs out side of shirt and refuses to tuck it in.
5. His name is Goober Grossman.
6. He used to be a woman
7. He refuses to work and plays video games 24/7
8. He once slept with your single mom. Long time ago.
9. He wants to name your children Rainbow, Granola, and Lerch
10. He can't fit in the car nor truck. 450 pounds of love
11. He makes you listen to David Hasselhoff's greatest hits
12. He voted for Bush. Twice!!
13. He's prettier than you and people tell you all the time.
14. He's cheap. He take you to 7eleven for dinner and it's dutch.
15. He smells all the time. Natural BO.
Good luck.

2006-12-24 13:25:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you don't believe in love at first sight you won't know where I am coming from. I know about attraction , but does a man know from the first moment that someone is special.

2006-12-24 13:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous