Whenever I'm around average looking guys, I'm perfectly normal. I know how to talk and make people laugh. But whenever I'm around very good looking guys, I don't know how to talk. So, I just shut up and sit there or maybe just go and disapear from whereever I see attractive looking guys.
I don't know how to stop this fear. I don't want to be with a guy who I feel comfortable because his average looking. Can you guys tell me how to stop this fear?
2006-12-24 13:43:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me just add, I'm confident about how I look. Everybody tells me I'm gorgeous, beauty or whatever. So, this is not self-esteem issue.
2006-12-24 13:56:37 · update #1
Well, just try surrounding yourself with the most gorgeous guys you can find, as friends not lovers, and just bite down and bear it. Do not leave or clam up, do ths until you get use to it and we look like the average guys to you. Eventually you get use to beauty and dimure being around and being second nature for company.
Jonesy
2006-12-24 13:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jonesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like insecurity about your level of attractiveness. If you insist on being nervous and ill just to have a boyfriend that looks better than you, that's your choice. Maybe you can find some vanity pills to take the edge off. I hope you find a fella that makes you hurl everytime you look at him... you truly deserve it.
2006-12-24 21:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by vaughndhume 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start being confident.. People like you to be around not because of your looks, but your personality, remember that. When you are confident, you looks more attractive too.
2006-12-24 21:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are the problem, sweetie. Your priorities are screwed up!! How a guy looks has nothing to do with the kind of man he is. Stop being so shallow. You obviously have a problem with your self-esteem.
2006-12-24 21:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing on the inner beauty of people you meet for a change. Maybe then looks won't matter so much.
2006-12-24 21:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are shy to appraoch good-looking guys. is it because you think they will reject you or what? Just think it this way: they are humans too, So what they are good-lookin? Does that means that you will have a second opinion to make friends with them?
2006-12-24 21:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just start talking to them, and you'll soon see that they're no different from the "average" looking guys.
2006-12-24 21:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only knew how nervous men really are around women you no longer would fear being around them.
2006-12-24 21:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a dude but the same thing happens to me too. Im just afraid I will blurt out you are f'in hot and I think we should sleep together. Im not a slut! Im not a slut!
2006-12-24 21:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to talk to people is to.. well.. talk to them... its easier if you ask them a bunch of questions about themselves... this way they do the talking and you build confidence, and eventually become comfortable around them.
2006-12-24 21:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋