Singles & Dating - 17 December 2006

Alright, so I'm 17 (I'll be 18 in 2 months!) and I'm in love with a 22 year old (sexy British) guy. He's so sweet, basically my best friend with a penis. The thing is, there is a LOT of sexual tension between us and we've known each other for 10 months. I want to have sex with him (REALLY bad), but I'm afraid of things like, what if the condom breaks? where will I get birth control? stuff like that. If I tell my mom or dad that I'm....considering becoming sexually active, they'll fall over from a heart attack. I'm the youngest girl in the family, so my parents are very overprotective. I don't know what to do, go with my urges and just rely on the condom? OR wait until I'm ....out of college to deal with the possibility of pregnancy??

2006-12-17 15:16:51 · 18 answers · asked by gk_s 2

2006-12-17 15:16:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this one girl...shes beautiful...we are the best of friends and get along like we could be together forever....shes interested in another guy...i wanna tell her how i feel about her...tell me what you think...and give me some things to say to her that could help me...thanks.

2006-12-17 15:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i hadn't had any in couple days, sometimes I want to skip all the foreplay and just get to the main attraction. Guys is this a bad thing?

2006-12-17 15:15:31 · 11 answers · asked by krissy 5

I have been dating my boyfriend for a little bit over a year. We know just about everything about each other. I really love him, and we have an amazing connection. We are both pretty good communicators and talk on the phone when we can't see each other. Lately things have been getting a little harder. He tells me that he wants to be with me for the rest of my life, that he wants to marry me, that he wants to have kids, and various other related things. I feel like I'm contradicting myself, but I can't seem to make that promise. I'm only 17 and will be leaving for college next fall. While we don't tend to argue, these conversations do lead to some depressing moments. What should I do?

2006-12-17 15:15:30 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-12-17 15:14:50 · 16 answers · asked by lalala 1

We commuted together. He caught my attention then he started convo. Without him knowing in the first place, I was head over heels when he approached me. After a while, I invited him to lunch on my birthday, he treated. He hardly mentioned anything about his wife or his little boy..I only noticed from his wedding band that he's married. I am sure he can tell that he's special to me through my cards and emails.. I call him once in a while and email him every now and then just to keep in touch. He moved and we are not travelling together anymore for almost a year now. I still have this strong feeling of liking him. My face brightens if I see him ... He never initiates any calls or emails but if I call or write, he reponded warmly and interestingly. What's on his mind? Why didnt he just give me cold shoulder or ignore my calls or emails so I can get the message "it's time to stop !" HELP !!

2006-12-17 15:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 15:14:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy for a really long time and im just wondering if he likes me what are some signs?

2006-12-17 15:13:11 · 5 answers · asked by nonamer 1

2006-12-17 15:12:11 · 13 answers · asked by leslie c 1

My friend said he knows a girl that did it once but I don't believe him. I think it's just an urban legend.

2006-12-17 15:11:55 · 20 answers · asked by PS 4

I really like him, and he really feels for me. he states that he is getting divorsed and sooner or later, you know. thing will be good. I absolutly care for this guy and he is such a good friend to me. Should I follow my heart and keep falling for him? Who knows when he will get divorsed.

2006-12-17 15:11:50 · 3 answers · asked by sweetredhotz 1

Ok, I'm 20 and my girlfriend just turned 17. I'm legally an adult and she is still a minor. A lot of people think this is wrong and I want to know why. We're not having sex and don't plan to until marraige, so what's the problem? We both genuinly love each other and want to start our lives together, and don't want to break up just because a lot of people think it's wrong. My girlfriend is afraid we both might get in trouble, but we dont want to break up. I told her that those people can screw what they think, because we both know were not doing anything wrong.

Is continuing this relationship wrong??

2006-12-17 15:11:48 · 17 answers · asked by srm4hvk29 3

i had a prom last week..me & bunch of friends were staying in 1 of d hotels in town...well that's not the point..the problem is,i invited this guy 2 hang with us & he's crazy over me but i really dont like him..(kinda scared of him)..i just invited him 2 be nice so that i dont hv 2 go out with him alone some other days since that time i hv my friends with me..it began like this,8 first i called him asking if he would like 2 join us but few mins later i changed my mind & call him again 2 tell him he dint hv 2 come but he insisted..well,m still ok with that..then when he came,we talk but i noticed that he was checking on my boobs!!! i was really mad & scared 8 once..then i began 2 find ways so that he could go home...n i think he got the hint & he went back..he was kinda mad & he said ive shudnt hv invited him...i felt really bad after that...he msg my sister telling her that he doesnt like the way i treated him that time & he was mad & embarrased...

2006-12-17 15:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Note: We are just friends.

2006-12-17 15:10:38 · 39 answers · asked by Sagar 6

Friends for ~6 years. best friends for almost all of them. in college together. shes always been more than a friend. how can i prove to her that i DO want to be the boyfriend.

2006-12-17 15:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by traumahawk3345 1

You hear people quote half of the statement but forget to finish...

'Trust and being Trust-worthy are the most important things in a relationship'.

2006-12-17 15:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by Nep 6

2006-12-17 15:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by yanie 1

Just seems that some folks just don't know what it is to have a heart, or feel for others.

2006-12-17 15:05:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going over to my boyfriend's house for the first time on Tuesday afternoon. He's been over to my house a couple times before and the last time he was over he put his arm around me and held my hand while watching a movie. I'm the only child so we had some privacy to be a little bit more cuddly. However, I'm a little hesitant to cuddle with him when I go over to his house this Tuesday with his parents being there and his three younger sisters. Should we lay off on the physical affection even if they aren't in the room? This sounds like such a silly question, but I just don't want to make a fool of myself the first time I hang out at his house.

2006-12-17 15:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by sincerely 1

ok i need to get my boyfriend a hoodie for chrismas but i don't know witch one he likes he told me he likes rock so i was thinking about getting him one with skulls but witch one can i get that is for boy. i really need help.

2006-12-17 15:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip???

2006-12-17 15:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1

Should i tell her how i feel? or Leave the situation alone? I was planning on getting her a diamond necklace for christmas to show her that i love her. P.s When i went out with her 8 years ago i cheated on her and that was why we broke up >.<

2006-12-17 15:03:23 · 2 answers · asked by Javon E 1

I met this awesome boy during my vacation, and we talk but is it only a summer thing which we can flirt with other people or is it TRUE bf and gf relations? :)

2006-12-17 15:03:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anna G 1

y is it so difficult .is it jus becos i am a gammer n dont spend much time out .i mean like all the nice girls tht i have luved have either left the country ,or they have some retards as their bfs .

2006-12-17 15:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1

i am going to give up on a R/S. My family indirectly tell'n me tat they dont really like my bf as he is 21(kind of still kids) and im 20. They think i deserve a more mature bf to take care of me. This is not the main issue. The major problem is that, my bf has no trust in me.. no matter wat i do he suspect. I m tired being stuck in between my family and my R/S. Shld i give up? This is a R/S which is not blessed by others.. i find it meaningless..
How shld i ask for a break up?

2006-12-17 15:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by Its me! 3

Recently I got a kidney infection. I was in excruciating pain. So much pain that I was throwing up and screaming out in pain every now and then. My bf told me to take a Tylenol and go to sleep. Finally it got so bad I needed to go to ER. He said, "you'll be alright going by yourself, right?" I told him I wanted him to take me to the hospital. I had to call the cab. I had to pay for the cab. Meanwhile he complained about the fact that he was moving to a new apartment the next day and needed time to pack and that he had a meeting at work. Finally, I was placed in a hospitla bed. My bf insisted on climbing into the hospital bed with me, saying that he needed his rest more than me. Finally, he left, to go pack. I was kept in hospital about half a day. He never called to check on me. I had to walk home in the rain later that day & he didn't call me until the next day.

Am I right to want to chew him out about this, big time? He doesn't see a problem with his behavior at al

2006-12-17 15:02:09 · 28 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1

He's really cute but I'm not even sure he knows I exist.I csn't talk to him because I think he has a girlfriend and I wouldn't want to make it seem obvious but what do I do?I pointed him out to my friends last time I was there and they all say he's really cute too.But last time I ended up crying because I really thought he ahd a girlfriend and I didn't have anybody to skate with and it was couple skating.please someone help!!!

2006-12-17 15:01:38 · 3 answers · asked by ashey321 1

my ex borke up with me and she said that she was cutting copntact yet he keeps containg me one way or another. why does she do this??? can no contact makie someone realise if she loves me still???? does she stil have feelings for me casuse she still does this?? the reason i ask is i miss her and want her back but she has been ignorant to me then normal i dont understand we were togather 3 years lived togather 2 is this a phase maybe there was alot of jealousy in the relationship have you ever done it in a relationship

2006-12-17 15:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1

american, and I hate the idea of giving flowers...but will do anything to show love.....will that be ok with a typical american...or she will uderstand me being from different country and pass on it..?

2006-12-17 15:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous